It’s me who’s uncomfortable.

Someone wrote…

Every time I feel persecuted, I immediately assume someone is disgusted by my androgynous third gender. It only recently occurred to me that it’s not them who’s made uncomfortable by it… It’s me who’s uncomfortable. And I’m extremely disappointed in myself for it.

How much of your perceived reactions from people are your own issues?

And what are you thinking about gender right now?


Posted by on March 26th, 2009 at 08:00 am

Category: your voice 2 comments »

2 Responses to “It’s me who’s uncomfortable.”

  1. Lena
    March 26th, 2009 at 1:55 pm |

    This is so true! But don’t be disappointed, a person who can say something like that is anything but disappointing. You are wonderful.

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  2. NItzan
    March 27th, 2009 at 7:05 pm |

    Its so true , and dont be disappointed , its fine , its one stage forward to acknowledging what you really are , and being safe and whole with it .
    The undefined.
    Oh I wish there was a third way toilet existing , just to make life easier for us.

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