Profile: Smith


You can call me… Smith

I identify as… genderqueer, fat, butch, bear, kinky, fag, geeky, and a bicycle rider

As far as third-person pronouns go, … I go with female pronouns, but occasionally get male ones, and I’d be fine with “they”.

I’m attracted to… non-normative masculinities and queer femininities. I’ve happily dated primarily fag-identified transguys in the past little while, but I have a special place in my heart for high femmes and diesel femmes.

When people talk about me, I want them to… talk about whatever they want. I care deeply about my friends’ opinions of me, but everything else is just talk.

I want people to understand… that gender may be a social construct, but that doesn’t mean that it doesn’t impact our lives in a huge way. It’s all fine and well to say that you don’t believe in gender, but that does not change the way that non-normatively gendered people have to walk through the world. People who are questioning, disrupting, and redefining gender have my utmost respect.


About Smith
I live and work in Victoria, BC. I’m a failed academic, and a total math nerd. I live with my best friend and my 2 kitties, and we have so much fun.

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Posted by on August 1st, 2009 at 04:00 pm

Category: profiles 8 comments »

8 Responses to “Profile: Smith”

  1. LostTristian

    i love your hair!!


  2. Smith

    Thanks LostTristian!


  3. emy

    diggin' the style
    i like your last points as well


  4. Rae

    Your answer to "I want people to understand… " is spot on! Thank you!


  5. dieselfemme

    you are amazing and beautiful and i have nothing but love and respect for you.

    your favourite diesel femme


  6. Smith

    Aw shucks guys! Thanks so much for all the love and props. This has made my week!


  7. Jess

    omg smith i had no idea you read this blog tooo!! great pic!


  8. Chris

    New to Victoria. I love how there’s so many genderneutral/queer andro’s here.


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