Makes me feel sexy for me.
Someone wrote…
I realized today that having breasts and showing them off makes me feel sexy for other people, but binding makes me feel sexy for me. When I bind, I feel good about myself, and not because other people are looking at me and find me attractive.
What’s your experience?
Posted by julian on July 25th, 2010 at 08:00 am
Category: your voice 17 comments »
July 25th, 2010 at 9:15 am |
I feel the same way.
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July 25th, 2010 at 9:42 am |
This is how I feel all the time and it’s next to impossible to explain to others.
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July 25th, 2010 at 10:28 am |
Good for you, sweetie!
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July 25th, 2010 at 3:19 pm |
I also feel the same way.
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July 25th, 2010 at 4:38 pm |
Some people are probably still looking at you and finding you sexy. ;)
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July 26th, 2010 at 12:05 am |
yes! exactly. you dress for yourself, not necessarily for others.
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July 26th, 2010 at 12:56 am |
I feel exactly the same way.
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July 26th, 2010 at 8:30 am |
This, so much this. <3
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July 26th, 2010 at 12:32 pm |
Thank you for articulating this so well. I know exactly what you mean :)
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July 26th, 2010 at 7:03 pm |
I agree completely. That being said, I’ve been lucky enough to discover that my girlfriend has secretly always thought I was most attractive when I appeared more masculine. Who would have thought my devoutly christian, raised catholic girlfriend would find androgyny attractive? I love life.
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July 26th, 2010 at 9:02 pm |
Exactly. :)
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July 27th, 2010 at 1:32 pm |
@J.D., my girlfriend’s exactly the same way!
And I totally relate to this, except that generally I don’t bind, thankfully I’m small enough to pull off the style I want and still feel comfortable with my body.
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July 29th, 2010 at 5:19 pm |
I have to bind if I wear a t-shirt and don’t want to be obvious, but I generally wear loose tops that hide more than they reveal. I’m only tempted to wear a t-shirt when it’s too hot, which really makes me not want to be bound.
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August 4th, 2010 at 11:03 am |
That is exactly how I feel ^_^
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August 13th, 2010 at 8:59 pm |
I couldn’t agree with you more. I loove having a flat chest, it makes me feel good.
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August 23rd, 2010 at 1:34 am |
I felt so sexy at a party on friday night .. Genderqueer trans and gender fluid party .. Playing snooker in a tight vest which is enough to give me a male chest thank god for my barely Bs .. Boxers .. Packer making a sexy bulge .. Showing off the rest of my muscular body :p don’t know what was better winning at snooker or getting told I am handsome and delicious
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January 1st, 2011 at 8:48 pm |
I totally agree. I feel so good about myself when I bind.
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