Makes me feel sexy for me.

Someone wrote…

I realized today that having breasts and showing them off makes me feel sexy for other people, but binding makes me feel sexy for me. When I bind, I feel good about myself, and not because other people are looking at me and find me attractive.

What’s your experience?

And what are you thinking about gender right now?

Posted by on July 25th, 2010 at 08:00 am

Category: your voice 17 comments »

17 Responses to “Makes me feel sexy for me.”

  1. Quince

    I feel the same way.


  2. Raphie

    This is how I feel all the time and it’s next to impossible to explain to others.


  3. Anonymous

    Good for you, sweetie!


  4. Janus

    I also feel the same way.


  5. Sean

    Some people are probably still looking at you and finding you sexy. ;)


  6. mc

    yes! exactly. you dress for yourself, not necessarily for others.


  7. Logan

    I feel exactly the same way.


  8. Jay

    This, so much this. <3


  9. Marilyn

    Thank you for articulating this so well. I know exactly what you mean :)


  10. J.D.

    I agree completely. That being said, I’ve been lucky enough to discover that my girlfriend has secretly always thought I was most attractive when I appeared more masculine. Who would have thought my devoutly christian, raised catholic girlfriend would find androgyny attractive? I love life.


  11. Luke

    Exactly. :)


  12. Meike

    @J.D., my girlfriend’s exactly the same way!

    And I totally relate to this, except that generally I don’t bind, thankfully I’m small enough to pull off the style I want and still feel comfortable with my body.


  13. Jessica

    I have to bind if I wear a t-shirt and don’t want to be obvious, but I generally wear loose tops that hide more than they reveal. I’m only tempted to wear a t-shirt when it’s too hot, which really makes me not want to be bound.


  14. Jak

    That is exactly how I feel ^_^


  15. am

    I couldn’t agree with you more. I loove having a flat chest, it makes me feel good.


  16. stevie

    I felt so sexy at a party on friday night .. Genderqueer trans and gender fluid party .. Playing snooker in a tight vest which is enough to give me a male chest thank god for my barely Bs .. Boxers .. Packer making a sexy bulge .. Showing off the rest of my muscular body :p don’t know what was better winning at snooker or getting told I am handsome and delicious


  17. Anonymous

    I totally agree. I feel so good about myself when I bind.


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