Wasn’t that far off…
Someone wrote…
I think I’m starting to turn into the same boy that I used to imagine I would fall in love with. I guess I wasn’t that far off…
What’s your experience?
Posted by julian on August 11th, 2010 at 08:00 am
Category: your voice 11 comments »
August 11th, 2010 at 9:05 am |
(^__^)
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August 11th, 2010 at 9:56 am |
I can so identify with this. I was extremely confused with my sexuality because there were these guys that I was always fascinated with, that I thought I liked, so I thought I was straight. Well years of confusion later, I find out that I’m basically one of those guys, and my girlfriend wouldn’t have it any other way.
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August 11th, 2010 at 2:46 pm |
@Billie
Same thing happened to me =)
It turned out the guys I “liked” were the guys I wanted to be, and it just so happens that my girlfriend feels the same as yours. I feel like you and I must be pretty damn lucky.
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August 11th, 2010 at 8:15 pm |
Wow, I can relate to this as well! I still confuse who I like with who I want to be, becuase why can’t we love and aspire to the same aspects we know are desirable?^_^
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August 12th, 2010 at 12:39 am |
Another transman that can relate. I’ve never quite been sure whether I wanted to be with the boys I fell in love with or wanted to be them. Turns out I can have both.
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August 12th, 2010 at 1:48 am |
I’m like this with pretty much everyone I’m attracted to, regardless of gender. In fact, if there’s nothing I can admire about someone (or very little), I probably won’t be attracted to them.
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August 12th, 2010 at 12:01 pm |
I feel the same way. I’ve always thought that if I met myself, I’d fall instantly in love. Or maybe that’s just my narcisissm… :)
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August 12th, 2010 at 12:39 pm |
I can SO relate to this. I discovered that when one day I suddenly thought – ‘Oh my, I don’t actually want to kiss all that guys or anything else, I’m just jealous and want to be them, but not with them’
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August 13th, 2010 at 8:23 am |
beautiful!
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August 30th, 2010 at 12:09 pm |
@#8 Same feeling for me only flipped.
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February 6th, 2011 at 6:20 pm |
<<<<This!!!!! All my life I thought I was "attracted" to emo guys that I secretly wanted to be, which ironically stopped me from figuring out that I'm pansexual & ftm.
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