If Anyone Bothered to Ask…

Someone wrote…

The world looks at me and sees a cisgendered heterosexual, but in reality, I’m neither. If anyone bothered to ask, they’d know.

What’s your experience?

And what are you thinking about gender right now?

Posted by on August 16th, 2011 at 08:00 am

Category: your voice 4 comments »

4 Responses to “If Anyone Bothered to Ask…”

  1. Sam

    I love it when people actually ask how I identify or what I want to be called. I think it has happened maybe twice.


  2. J.D.

    I found this out about a good friend of mine not long ago. I guess I get so used to myself, and presenting in a noncisgendered way, that sometimes I forget to ask. Which is more than a little embarrassing. I have two friends who generally present as cisgendered-ish that I never thought to ask.

    One came out and told me hirself. The other never said directly to me, but I figured it out through careful listening. I guess it just shows sometimes its all in learning to listen.


  3. Noel




  4. Anonymous

    WORD. Thank you for submitting this.


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