I’ll Like Whoever I Want

Someone wrote…

I tried to decide whether I was bisexual, or pansexual. And then I realized, I don’t need to label myself. I’ll like whoever I want.

What’s your experience?

And what are you thinking about gender right now?

Posted by on August 6th, 2011 at 08:00 am

Category: your voice 6 comments »

6 Responses to “I’ll Like Whoever I Want”

  1. Dani


    I think that what you said there is absolutely brilliant. Thanks for that – I may quote it sometime. – Dani


  2. shakes

    hi. if you find mistakes you can keep them. I`m german. Lucky I found this site. This is all the same thoughts jumping around in my brain for almost a year, and especially this one.
    Maybe one day we must no more remind ourselves that we have the f*****g right to be as unlabeled and undecided as we like and that we owe not one explanation to anyone.


  3. InfinitySquared

    Yeah, I get what you mean. I’ve got quite the mouthful of labels for myself right now. On the one hand, there’s the attraction of being able to say what you are in a few words instead of a paragraph; on the other hand, the annoyance of realizing none of those single words really describe you. I share your frustration!


  4. J.D.

    I’ve realized that every time I try to describe myself with a label I end up almost immediately contradicting myself.

    I’ll just stick with gender-ambidextrous/sexual in general =)

    More power to you.


  5. Jessica

    I have no interest in creating some kind of brand loyalty for myself. I am not a product and I am not for sale.


  6. Benje

    I 100% agree with this, I have struggled with societys “labels” for myself. I am who I am, and can’t be anything more.


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