Profile: Kat
You can call me… Kat
I identify as… pansexual gender-fluid
As far as third-person pronouns go, … I would prefer to be speaking a language where it’s not an issue, such as Finnish, where there’s only one third-person pronoun to use. Since I don’t live in Finland, however, for the sake of convenience I go by female pronouns.
I’m attracted to… Feminine men, mostly. Personality over physicality, though.
When people talk about me, I want them to… …not define me by my perceived gender. Yes, I am biologically female and don’t consider myself trans. That doesn’t mean I should be expected to act like a stereotypical girl. I have a very “masculine” personality, but still, that’s not a definition of “me”. I am not defined by male or female, I land somewhere comfortably between the extremes.
I want people to understand… Nothing’s black and white unless you paint it that way yourself. It even goes beyond shades of gray; don’t colorblind yourself and miss the differences between one person’s yellow and another’s green.
About Kat
Jewelry artist, dancer, singer/keyboardist.
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May 28th, 2011 at 7:46 am |
You have the same t-shirt as me ^-^
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May 28th, 2011 at 8:06 am |
“Don’t colorblind yourself and miss the differences between one person’s yellow and another person’s green.” I love this
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May 30th, 2011 at 6:52 am |
Wow, you put all my feelings into the best words, it’s nice to “meet” someone so much like me. I’m a biomale, but that doesn’t matter much. My female friends that would complain to me about men would always tell me I wasn’t a man, but a guy. I guess it’s not very gender-neutral, but still, I like it.
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December 7th, 2012 at 4:54 am |
What is that Finnish pronoun you refer to? do you tell people to use it in thier speech with you?
L, D
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