A Visible Reminder

Someone wrote…

I hope to be a visible reminder that “girl” does not necessarily mean “girly”.

What’s your experience?

And what are you thinking about gender right now?

Posted by on April 30th, 2012 at 08:00 am

Category: your voice 2 comments »

2 Responses to “A Visible Reminder”

  1. Claudius-Maximus(Max)

    Me too.


  2. Jesse

    When i was a girl, girl meant me.
    When i was girly, girly is what i did.
    When you call me a girl, i’m not
    And I’m never girly in reaction to what you do.
    I am not a reaction to the world
    I am myself in the world
    And when the world reacts to me
    I accept it, i fight it, i succumb to it
    I hate it, i revel in it
    I change it daily.


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