Profile: Julianna/ Nathaniel

You can call me…Julianna… or Nathaniel (a friend came up with JulianNathaniel

I identify as… non-op FtA? Dyke-leaning, pansexual girlfag? Genderqueer? Intergender? A sissy little nancyboy? Yes to all, at varying times, in varying degrees, in intricate blends and mixtures.

As far as third-person pronouns go, … depends on how I’m presenting. About 90% of the time, “she,” and “her.” When I am in boy mode, I am a boy, I am “he.” Someone referred to me as “ze” recently, and I didn’t hate it. I have some more thinking to do about this.

I’m attracted to… pretty. Pretty comes in many forms… butch girls, high fem, tough girls… just GIRLS. Cis or trans, whateva. Tall, lanky, girly boys. Intersexed folks. Androgynes. My sexual schema is all over the map.

Let’s just say “the human form,” in all of its delightful and splendid variation.

When people talk about me, I want them to… ask questions if they’re confused. Don’t make assumptions! I am friendly and I don’t mind genuine inquiry. It’s a learning experience for us both!

I want people to understand… I. Am. Not. A. Girl. Not all of the time (arguably not any of the time) inside my head, where it really matters. I am girl-bodied, and I’m keeping it that way, but inside, there’s way more to it than that. If you respect the boy/neuter parts of me, you will be my best friend.

» Define yourself. «

Posted by on March 19th, 2012 at 04:00 pm

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5 Responses to “Profile: Julianna/ Nathaniel”

  1. Scafe10



  2. Niamh

    Yes! Thank you, this is very much how I feel about myself! It’s so reassuring to know I’m not the only …well, what you said :-)


  3. James Edward Lewis II

    I’ve met hir IRL and ze is fascinating to listen to~♥


  4. Jules

    So I feel I have to chip in here since, well, this is my post. :P

    I did reapply after I had a chance to do some thinking, and I was worried not much of this post would apply to me after I had a chance to look it over. The only significant changes are my name: rather than finding two names to switch between when en homme or en femme, I go by “Jules,” which covers both bases.

    I do go by “ze” and “hir” full time now, irrespective of how I’m dressed. I am still not surgery seeking, but I do start T this Friday!


  5. Madi

    You are very cute, just thought I’d ya’know, throw that out there to float around in the wind :)


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