Three Cheers!
Someone wrote…
Once I figured out that there is a big difference between erotic and sexual, everything made perfect sense.
I am a very erotic person, just not all that sexual. Sex is in my head and my being but not necessarily in my bones: it’s more that I love the idea of it rather than actually doing it. But there is a whole surprise-filled grey zone in there, and the degrees of actually wanting to be sexual with another person depends a lot on the erotic configuration, which can be very elusive.
Three cheers to the erotic!
What’s your experience?
Category: your voice 4 comments »
March 21st, 2013 at 8:16 am |
Ahhhhhhh this is completely relevant to my experiences. Thanks Freiya, its very interesting being stuck in that place
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March 21st, 2013 at 7:43 pm |
This really resonates with me. Thanks for sharing! I wish we could compare notes, because “elusive” is an understatement :)
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March 22nd, 2013 at 9:52 pm |
This might be useful to you: http://www.asexuality.org/wiki/index.php?title=Grey-A
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March 22nd, 2013 at 9:58 pm |
THIS IS ME TOO!!!
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