Blend in

Someone wrote…

I want to blend in. I don’t want to draw attention to myself by labelling myself or having to “come out” to people as un-gendered. Being called “he” hurts, though. It feels like I’m being forced into something I’m not.

What’s your experience?

And what are you thinking about gender right now?

Posted by on April 15th, 2015 at 08:00 am

Category: your voice One comment »

One Response to “Blend in”

  1. Anonymous

    I hear you. I’m not especially trying to blend in, because I don’t think I could, but I try not to bring up my gender identity because I don’t think it’s everyone’s business.

    I don’t correct any pronouns or such, but every time people speak about me as a man or a woman, I feel kind of disappointed with their assumptions, even though I know they don’t mean any harm.


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