Profile: Mar

You can call me… Mar

I identify as… Genderfluid

As far as third-person pronouns go, … They/ them/ their

I’m attracted to… All genders and sexes. Just not everyone, some people suck. :)

When people talk about me, I want them to… Be respectful of which gender I am at the time, and not be ignorant asses. I’m just a person who’s terrified to come out of the closet, and I need some support and guidance to decide how I should and when I should.
I need to know this isn’t a phase. <3

I want people to understand… That whether or not I’m a guy or a girl, it is really hard for a genderfluid. I hate my boobs, and I hate the fact I don’t have any guy parts. I don’t know if genderfluid is the correct term for me, maybe even transsexual. I just need a friend who understands where I’m coming from and can help me through the whole process. This is the first time I’ve ever said on the internet that I’m not a girl. I need a binder, badly. And I can’t find any ace bandage, so I wear 2-3 sports bras.

About Mar
I’m 16, I like to play bass guitar and I love to push my physical limits.
I love Family guy, Supernatural, Naruto, and gaming. (PC, Xbox, etc)
I’m a nerd or a geek, whichever is more fitting.
I’m not exceptionally social, and I like stargazing.
Oh, I’m pretty short. 5″2 actually. Try appearing strong and masculine and be 5″2. Not easy.

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Posted by on November 25th, 2015 at 08:00 am

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6 Responses to “Profile: Mar”

  1. Riley Alexandr

    I feel you on the 5’2″ struggle, Mar. That’s one of the downsides of being AFAB – being so frigging short. It’s not bad on feminine days, since most girls are around that height, but on the masculine days? Oh HELL no.


  2. Anonymous

    Please don’t ever use ace bandages to bind, it really harms your ribs and lungs! But also… I hope you find a binder soon so you feel more comfortable!


  3. Callum

    Try Aliexpress for a binder. they might be cheap but do do the trick. Im in the same boat as you and im 33 yrs old and married to a guy. i have 2 beautiful daughters. Lately my chest dysphoria has been hitting me hard. never liked my chest when puberty hit but its getting worse now. I have not come out as transgender to anyone as im still researching but know it will most likely end my marriage. Not even sure how my family would take it. All i know is i want a guys body and wear guys clothes. Is it too much to ask.
    Good luck with your search


  4. sky

    i love ur hair and tbh ur adorable in a masculine way lol


  5. sky

    or feminine whatever u prefer


  6. key

    my name is keyvan
    I am 23 years old
    I am a man

    I\’m living in Asia in southern Iran.

    One can imagine how far apart the
    I thought I
    Perhaps an ideal life

    I\’m hoping
    with you
    In a faraway place
    If there is a possibility
    Send me a message


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