The Holidays

Someone wrote…

I hate the Holidays.

My parents are divorced so I have to split them. They are the only time I see my dad so it’s rough. He doesn’t know I’m bi-gender and pan sexual. He doesn’t know I use the pronouns they/their and I go by JayCee. I couldn’t never tell him or his family. And I have to go.
At least I’m 17, so it’s the last year custody applies to me. So for one day, I dress completely masculine, act like a boy and go by male pronouns. I just treat it as an act. That’s what it is. It is not me.

What’s your experience?

And what are you thinking about gender right now?


Posted by on December 2nd, 2015 at 08:00 am

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