Archive for February 2016

Demigender 101

Adrian Mae’s video includes an update: “This video is no longer applicable to me personally, but enjoy nonetheless.”

Posted by on February 5th, 2016 at 08:00 am

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Profile: Ariel

You can call me… Ariel

I identify as… Transfeminine and Genderqueer

As far as third-person pronouns go, … They/Them/Their is strongly preffered; but I wouldn’t mind feminine pronouns if you wanna make me blush.

I’m attracted to… Women and femininity.

When people talk about me, I want them to… Get to know me and like me for who I am as a person, and to never be judged solely based on my gender.

I want people to understand… My gender is my own identity. By following the path I’m on, I’m fulfilling a healthier, happier me.

About Ariel
I’m 22-years-old and trying to find a way to feel more comfortable with myself, after spending several months questioning my gender. Though I’ve only come out to a select number of people so far, I’m hoping to soon meet with a gender therapist to learn how to come out to others, and take whatever steps are necessary for me to be happy. These steps may include a new wardrobe, legal name change, and a possibility of hormones—all to become more feminine.

I’m also an actor, writer, and director who wishes to use art as a way of not only making a living, but also to bring out the beauty of the world around us. I think we can all use a little more of that in our lives.

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Posted by on February 4th, 2016 at 10:00 am

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Profile: Mordecai

You can call me… Mordecai, but Cai works just fine too.

I identify as… Non-binary/genderqueer. I’ve identified as cis-female and trans-male, but neither really felt right. Being NB feels perfect.

As far as third-person pronouns go, … They/them

I’m attracted to… Females, feminine non-binary people, it really varies, I’m just not into guys.

When people talk about me, I want them to… Refer to me by my preferred pronouns and not judge me based on my gender identity.

I want people to understand… That my gender identity has changed in the past and might change again in the future. Also, that it’s ok to ask questions and that honesty is wonderful. I’d much rather have someone be honest with me and ask a question about me (whether it has harmful intent or not) than for assumptions to be made about me and for me to conclude that it was intended to be harmful.

About Mordecai, but Cai works just fine too.
I’m Cai (as you already know). I’m non-binary and have a huge interest in both fine art and science. I currently live in BC, Canada and go to school here. I’d like to go to university and study to become a medical examiner or forensic pathologist, but also travel and do speeches about being gender non-conforming and raise awareness about it and other identities. I also play roller derby and am currently a junior skater with my town’s team. It’s a dream of mine to skate for Vagine Regime’s Canadian team one day.

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Posted by on February 3rd, 2016 at 10:00 am

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Question: Trying To Be Fem at Seven A.M.

Joel asks…

I am gender fluid. Slowly (but surly) coming out to people. Over the summer I decided to take some big leaps, such as cutting 16 inches off of my hair and donating it. And then shaving one side. I love the hair cut, especially how on my more masculine days I can flip it and look like a flipping male model.

My parents are really liberal (Thank the god I don’t believe in) so I know that when I come around to coming out to them, it’ll be no big deal. So that is not what I am here to ask about.

Seeing as I am gender fluid, some days I feel girly. But with short hair…. well, lets just say it would be cool if I could switch the length at the snap of a fingers every now and then.

I know of plenty of ways to look more feminine on my feminine days, but it all takes a lot of effort. I don’t do well at waking up on time for school the way it is. Let alone 2 hours early for make up and clothes. So what this really long rant really comes down to, is if anyone know of some really easy, quick ways to look more girly with short hair when I have 10 minutes to get out the door and can hardly stand?

Please post your response in the comments below.

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Posted by on February 3rd, 2016 at 08:00 am

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Profile: Rylan Edwards

You can call me… Rylan Edwards

I identify as… Heteroromantic gray-ace non-binary agender

As far as third-person pronouns go, … I want to be referred to as ‘they and ‘their’

I’m attracted to… Transmasculine genderqueers, femme guys, cross-dressers (drag queen)

People who I can relate to

When people talk about me, I want them to… Not refer to me as ‘she’.

Respect me for what I am and not criticise my choices.

I want people to understand… That we are all human beings who dont have to conform to society or fit in.

About Rylan Edwards
I am a person who is sensitive and thinks a lot.
I suffer from crippling anxiety and panic, with Dyspraxia
I am a huge rock and metal fan but listen to all sorts
Other than that, there is not much to say

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Posted by on February 2nd, 2016 at 10:00 am

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Tyler Ford

Interview with Tyler Ford.

Posted by on February 1st, 2016 at 08:00 am

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