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Profile: Caelan


You can call me… Caelan, Cael for short

I identify as… A boy, though occasionally feel a little agender

As far as third-person pronouns go, … He/him, unless my parents are in the room. Then it’s she/her.

I’m attracted to… Really nice and weird pretty people, for their personality. I don’t judge people based on their looks.

But I could stare at men with long hair all day.

When people talk about me, I want them to… USE THE RIGHT PRONOUNS and also recognise that despite my faults, I am a unique and brilliant person

I want people to understand… Even though there might not have been genderqueer people when they were growing up (there were, actually, they just didn’t tell people) there are now, it’s not a phase, and we’re here to stay. You can live in the past, or you can accept it.

About Caelan, Cael for short

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Posted by on April 4th, 2016 at 10:00 am

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Profile: Carson


You can call me… Carson or Phoenix

I identify as… afab genderfluid/agender demisexual panromantic

As far as third-person pronouns go, … I am transitioning to they/them pronouns, so use of those would be wonderful :)

I’m attracted to… humans that I have some deep connection with
intelligence, good listener, supportive, willing to accept me and be who they are

When people talk about me, I want them to… recognize the absence of a gender binary, and not focus on trying to put me under a label. Be nice to me behind my back and to my friends, and I will pay you the same respect.

I want people to understand… that I am in a transition. I am still coming out, and if you make a mistake with pronouns, that is okay. I will correct you gently, and hope you are doing your best to remember.

About Carson or Phoenix
find me on tumblr under my URL mylifeinshadesofsilver!

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Posted by on April 3rd, 2016 at 10:00 am

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Profile: Anastasia


You can call me… Anastasia

I identify as… a transgender female

As far as third-person pronouns go, … please use the female ones when you describe me

I’m attracted to… Men, women, and transgender women.

When people talk about me, I want them to… Know that I want to be a woman, and be addressed as female

I want people to understand… that being transgender is not a feeling that much after you realize that you’re trans and that when people are around transgender people, we’re not here to play you like a fiddle

About Anastasia
Grew up as a small town boy, I was 5 when I first wondered what it was like to be a girl. I grew up questioning this. I always played with my sisters barbie dolls when I was younger as well, and at the age of 11 I had my first experience with another boy who was 14. I was a partner with this boy for 9 months before I left. I lived with my grandparents for a year and a half in junior high, finally realizing I was transgender after questioning myself so many times and praying. I had known about my true gender on the inside. So I kept this inside for nearly 3 more years. I finally realized later on in high school that I was bisexual. At this stage I had started watching transgender YouTubers like Elena Genevinne, Angela Vanity, and PrincessJoules. I had finally came out to my mom about my sexuality at the age of 14 and then later came out as transgender nearly 3 months later. I had admitted to myself that I was transgender and because of this I had been open about this to my mother as well. I am currently 17 and nothing new has happened since then. Other than trying to grow my hair out and cope with the level of stress for being transgender. My life is here at home and trying to transition is probably the hardest things in the world for me. Since I will have a lot of back lash from my distant family and friends.

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Posted by on April 2nd, 2016 at 10:00 am

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Profile: Joel


You can call me… Joel

I identify as… Gender-Fluid

As far as third-person pronouns go, … Call me what you want. I personally don’t care about pronouns, and dont want to ask people in my life to adjust how they see me more than needed. Although, to put a bit of variaty in what I am referred to, he/him and they/them is Greatly appreciated.

I’m attracted to… I’m pansexual soooo….
I am also 14 and not exactly looking for anything sooo….

When people talk about me, I want them to… Not be a dick

I want people to understand… The question of “oh. What pronouns do you prefer?” Makes me REALLY uncomfortable because as I have already stated, I don’t want to make people put effort into how they see me. Also it would be great if the kids at school seem to catch on a LITTLE bit more to how… not excluded, but not included I feel. I just moved from the Rocky Mountains to the East Coast and the transition has been tough. Tough, not Tuff. And certainly not Cool. (Sorry PonyBoy). Especially that girl Maddie who always seems to be pissed at me for NO reason.

About Joel
I am a DANCER!
I love Books.
Movies are OK
I also draw
I’m not too bad at writing
I am a beautiful mixture of childlike and mature
I am 5 foot 7 (maybe 8?) Inches tall.
(Yes. The weather up here is FABULOUS. And yes, heals make me feel powerful and I can practically touch an airplane when I wear them. Also, YES. IT ANNOYS THE FLIP OUT OF ME WHEN YOU MENTION MY HIGHT. SO STOP BRINGING IT UP. WE’VE TALKED ABOUT IT. AND NOW WE ARE DONE.)
I just started High school and it still blows my mind that I’ve gotten this far
I plan to travel the country after graduation with my bestest friends.

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Posted by on April 1st, 2016 at 10:00 am

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