You can call me… Bella

I identify as… Female with a genital issue

As far as third-person pronouns go, … I prefer the she set, even though my “shell” is male

I’m attracted to… Energy. Intelligence. Power. Emotion. Especially the punk femme nerd lesbian sort. Coffee houses. Bars. Tattoos. Lovers that truly love each other.

When people talk about me, I want them to… not be derogatory

I want people to understand… that I don’t have to explain myself to anyone to make myself feel good and neither does anybody else. I just am. So are they. So are you. So it is. Now lets live free.

About Bella
I was married once to a beautiful woman whom I truly loved with every cell of my being. I never lived as me, I lived as the MAN she wanted. I loved her but hated the moment. I lived as a man in a mans world but just wanted to feel pretty. To be appreciated as the woman I am. Because I wasn’t honest about my true self I couldn’t live up to the idea she had of me, because she didn’t know me. She knew a lie. And I lost the love of my life. If I would have been honest from the start would this have ever worked? Probably not, but 4 souls would not have endured the torture of divorce. Yes we had 2 children together. So be honest with yourself, with your partner, buck up and live your life on your terms.