You can call me… Chiyoko

I identify as… A cis male who enjoys the feminine aesthetic

As far as third-person pronouns go, … He/him will do quite nicely. I’ve had people use she/her, and while I honestly don’t mind, it’d be nice if people would just listen. I introduce myself with my pronouns (“Hi, I’m Chiyoko. My pronouns are he/him. It’s nice to meet you!”), and if you don’t use them, well then. Now I know what kind of person you are.

I’m attracted to… Guys with nice voices and interesting hands. Guys who can sing. Guys who are blind and/or use a wheelchair like I do. Guys who are kind and gentle. Looks don’t matter (lol obvi), though if you smell or sound like you don’t take care of yourself, then we might have issues.

When people talk about me, I want them to… Remember than I’m blind, not deaf. Just because I have a handicap doesn’t mean I’m some weirdo you can’t be friends with (I mean I’m not dictating this to a stranger!). Also don’t make jokes about the way I dress or the way I act. I like girly things. Deal with it.

I want people to understand… I’m every bit a man as the one I want to marry someday. Frilly skirts and hair bows and jewelry, honestly, they just feel nice, and if you don’t like it, then you can make like The Man in the movie School of Rock and step off

About Chiyoko
I’m a psych student who’s big into the world of stimming. Things that feel nice are just. So good. It’s actually a bit scary sometimes. I’ve got jars of goo, pieces of embossed paper, stim toys, all sorts of things, and I’m always adding to the pile. I like jpop and scifi, and I’m currently in love with the candle section of Bed Bath & Beyond.

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