You can call me… Mica

I identify as… Neither male nor female. I am both and none, like some sort of in between gender. I prefer the term “queer” to anything else.

As far as third-person pronouns go, … I was using male for a while even though I am female bodied, but lately I have been introduced to the Swedish gender neutral term “hen”, I like it.

I’m attracted to… Men, but only a certain type, I am not that interested in sex but love to cuddle up to a good man.

When people talk about me, I want them to… Think of me as anyone else, I know I am different but I’m not an alien. Treat me with respect as they would be expecting to be treated with respect.

I want people to understand… That they will never truly understand what it is like to be queer unless they are themselves. It hurts me to hear people talk as though I don’t know who I am, I do, they don’t. Again, respect.

About Mica
Forty seven years old, never felt like I belong to either gender but now becoming comfortable with myself for who I am. I have only a few good friends who love me for me and the support of my family is very important.

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