On My More Male Days
KC wrote…
I’ve recently come to the realization that I am genderfluid and experience slight to major dysphoria about my breasts on my more male days. I enjoy having them on my more female days though. I was wondering if that feeling of dysphoria ever really goes away. I’m considering saving up for top surgery only I fear that if I did get it, I’d regret it on my female days.
What’s your experience?
Posted by sarahdopp on January 22nd, 2017 at 08:00 am
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January 23rd, 2017 at 12:26 am |
same, mate.
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February 1st, 2017 at 11:55 am |
Exactly how I feel! Right now I’m just trying to lose weight, so they can get smaller too…
It makes me feel so confused and sad.
It kinda comforts me to know I’m not alone though.
I just wish there was more, I don’t know, information or advice or something about this…
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Arin replied:
March 17th, 2017 at 7:03 pm
Instead of getting top surgery, you could get a breast reduction, which might help you be more comfortable on your male days. That way, on your female days, you wouldn’t regret it?
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June 15th, 2018 at 3:30 am |
I feel you! But getting surgery to remove your breasts is a pretty big step/change in your life which you may or may not regret. I advise you try binding for a bit so that can help out with your dysphoria on your male days and maybe even try it on during your female days and see if it affects you. But if you truly, TRULY feel getting surgery is best for you I fully support you! :) Best of luck! xox
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