Rearranging my parts.
Someone wrote…
I used to be a boy. Now I’m a woman, living as a man. My shrink, and my parents, can’t understand why I would need to do such radical things to my body in order to find comfort with masculinity. I tell them, masculinity is not about having a penis, nor is femininity about having a vagina. If it takes rearranging my parts to discover my gender, then so be it.
They still don’t get it. And that’s okay.
What’s your experience?
Category: your voice 3 comments »
January 9th, 2010 at 8:23 am |
wow i completely understand that…and it doesnt matter if they dont get it cause your a beautiful person no matter what. it takes time to learn and accept who you are..so just fuck them (sorry to be so blunt)
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January 10th, 2010 at 11:18 am |
get a new shrink dude
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June 25th, 2010 at 11:19 pm |
I totally understand that.
My thoughts are the same, but in the opposite. I want to be bio male but identify as female (at least some of the time). I’d feel more comfortable bio male, but at least 50% of the time I’m more comfortable in fem clothes.
I’ve always wished to be bio male so I could be flamboyantly different. Where I live, it’s not “weird” when girls dress in a way so they kind of look like guys, but it’s a little “weirder” when guys dress more like girls. I enjoy being weird and having attention directed towards me because of my appearance. So it would suit me better to be MtF, so I guess I’d be FtMtF? Lol, whatever.
For the moment, just genderless works fine for me.
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