Elijahh asks…

I love my girlfriend with my whole heart but she feels threaten by my masculinity and she misses my feminine side. How can I tell her this is me, the real me, that she sees now?

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AllyMom asks…

My child is 20 and I am certain (though months of detective work) she is gender variant and out to all her friends. All I want to do is help her and I think talking about it will be of benefit to both of us. Should I wait for her to tell me, or should I go ahead and ask?

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crumbly_crayons asks…

Is there any advice for genderqueer person who wants to become a parent. Can the inevitable gendering process of pregnancy be avoided, and will I be ‘mommy’, or ‘daddy’?

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Samson asks…

How do you deal with going to a public swimming pool?

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Alex asks…

I’m a genderqueer person born female and I’m wondering how much of my refusal of femininity comes from internalised sexism. Any ideas?

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Samson asks…

Has anyone had luck getting approved for hormones without following the “usual narrative” (‘I want to permanently transition to being ‘a member of the opposite sex’)?

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A reader asks…

I don’t like my boobs, but I’ve heard that binding will make them saggy in the long run. And I don’t really want that either. Is this true, and if yes, then what can I do??

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Ave asks…

Being only 13 years old I cant just go out in public dressed as a boy, I’m still a kid. I can’t change my wardrobe, because then my parents and people at school will find out. What can a 13 year old can do when faced with gender identity problems?

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Anonymous asks…

My biologically female friend binds her chest, wears male clothing, and cuts her hair short. She hasn’t given much indication that she wants to be male, but I want to know if that’s what would make her happy. How should I find how she identifies, or if she wants me to use different pronouns?

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Max asks…

Can anyone help me think of an essay title or topic about gender fluidity that I can write about for my gender studies report?

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Nicholas asks…

My body is unlike anything I’ve read about in any article about the various known forms of intersexuality. How common is it to have mixed secondary sex characteristics?

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Jen asks…

I don’t hate my penis, I’m just indifferent to it. Does that make me less of a woman?

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Dez asks…

I’m at that really awkward stage where I know that I’m trans, I dress like I’m trans, but I haven’t actually come out to everyone. The moment never seems right.

How do I start this conversation with them or with anyone?

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D.Gray asks…

Is it possible to achieve an androgynous look with hormones without developing breasts?

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Charlie asks…

I want to try being a boy for a while. Just to see if it’s really me. How do you even bring that up? Does anyone just have advice for me?

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Anonymous asks…

As a cisgender woman, how do I encourage the transman I am dating to feel more comfortable about his body?

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Cydne asks…

We have gender-neutral pronouns now. Any suggestions for gender-neutral terms for brother/sister, son/daughter, niece/nephew, aunt/uncle and mother/father? Something more “queer” sounding than just “sibling” or “parent.”

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Leigh asks…

My mum found my binder. I don’t want to lie about it but she doesn’t know about my gender things (except that I stopped shaving my legs). She isn’t the most accepting of people, so what should I say to her?

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Jakk asks…

Does anybody else feel nauseous during intimacy?

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Sean asks…

I bind, wear boy’s clothing, and introduce myself with a male name, but everyone calls me “she” by default — sometimes even after I tell them that I’m transgender! What can I do?

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