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Profile: Brandon / Clementine


You can call me… Brandon / Clementine

I identify as… Gender Fluid

As far as third-person pronouns go, … He or She depending on what personality I am currently using.

I’m attracted to… women, especially those who are also gender fluid. My quest to find that special one is something important to me and I’m starting to wonder if it will ever happen.

When people talk about me, I want them to… treat me like I am anybody else and not focus on what I am going to look like the next day.

I want people to understand… that it is difficult always wondering if something bad is going to happen to you just because the way that you are dressed. There is no reason why we shouldn’t be treating each other with respect and love. It also gets to be a bit expensive when you are maintaining two different wardrobes.

About Brandon / Clementine
I am 36 years old and I have been slowly discovering myself for a long time now. Growing up I always knew that I was different and didn’t quite fit into the traditional roles but never had a real idea of who I was. Once I learned what transgender was while in college it put me on the path to really get things figured out. Everyday though I am still learning new things about myself.

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Posted by on November 2nd, 2016 at 08:00 am

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Profile: Phoenix


You can call me… Phoenix

I identify as… An androgynous agender punk

As far as third-person pronouns go, … They/them are preferable, but he/him are okay as well

I’m attracted to… Androgynous or masculine women, genderqueer people, honestly if you’re a genuine person who speaks from the heart you’ve probably got a chance.

When people talk about me, I want them to… Focus on who I am as a person rather than my gender. I get that it’s a lot to take in for some people, but it’s important to respect others for who they are. If I do something truly shitty, judge me for that rather than how I present myself and what I am.

I want people to understand… Just because I have a biologically male anatomy and am happy with said anatomy doesn’t mean I’m a guy. And just because I’m not a guy doesn’t mean I’m therefore a girl. Honestly, the world would be a better place if we threw out the ideas of “male” and “female”. They’re outdated societal means of shoving people into boxes to control them (and honestly, most people don’t completely fit into these boxes).

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Posted by on October 25th, 2016 at 08:00 am

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Profile: (some feminine name not yet decided)


You can call me… (some feminine name not yet decided….)

I identify as… Trans, transgender, genderqueer, two-spirited, male to female

As far as third-person pronouns go, … Not so concerned now (called “he” etc.) but I’m pretty much in the closet, though self aware if still questioning.

I’m attracted to… Women and men and genderqueer people. Fem men, masculine men, butch women, femme women.

When people talk about me, I want them to… Accept me as I am. See me as beautiful, inside and outside.

I want people to understand… That I didn’t choose this. I struggle. And that I can be beautiful– I want people to understand this– and I want myself to understand this. I want all of the spectrum to be accepted and acceptable.

About (some feminine name not yet decided….)
In my late 40s but realized I was “different” in my 20s. I’m Native American and try to find the place for alternative ways of being, including “two spirited” in my culture(s).

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Posted by on October 3rd, 2016 at 08:00 am

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Profile: RJ


You can call me… RJ

I identify as… (Still finding my way through this and im not sure about labels.. but I feel close to) genderqueer/genderfluid

As far as third-person pronouns go, … I usually go with what people are comfortable with…she/her which is fine but using they/them …would probably make me weep with joy… XD

I’m attracted to… The little things, when people show kindness and thoughtfulness when my friends play with or braid my hair or when we paint each others nails or do each others make up, the way people can weave words into stories that strike the hearts of many as well as art can. People that understand and are patient with me. Flirting, compliments loyalty and trust xD.

When people talk about me, I want them to… Be careful when criticizing me …I am sensitive and my brain likes to remind me of negative comments..I rarely get mad..I just hurt for a time being and hopefully forget later on.

I want people to understand… That I would love to communicate with like minded people on various things…possibly being friends?

About RJ
Im a 20 year old socially awkward human who enjoys drawing, writing, reading, cosplay, video games, Youtube, movies, TV shows, comics and so on

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Posted by on October 1st, 2016 at 08:00 am

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Profile: Feliz


You can call me… Feliz

I identify as… A non binary Latinx who floats somewhere in the space between female and gender less

As far as third-person pronouns go, … They/them but occasionally she/her. In Spanish, I use ella, the feminine pronoun only because no gender less pronouns exist in that language.

I’m attracted to… Nobody sexually, men as well as masculine people romantically

When people talk about me, I want them to… Use my name and pronouns, recognize my identity as legitimate, do not use my culture and heritage as a way to invalidate me.

I want people to understand… I can believe in God and have the gender identity and sexuality I do. They do not have to be mutually exclusive

About Feliz
I’m 24 years old and I have only recognized my gender identity and sexuality in the last couple of years. I have an amazing cat named Dulce who I adore and I am a hair stylist who works with the local queer POC youth

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Posted by on September 29th, 2016 at 08:00 am

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Profile: Anna


You can call me… Anna

I identify as… agender?

As far as third-person pronouns go, … idk i like they/them

I’m attracted to… everyone but boys. sorry

When people talk about me, I want them to… you know treat me like a person, not my gender

I want people to understand… that it’s not a “trend” to be agender. i am agender bc i always was, i just never thought of it. and, yes, i can be neither boy or girl. get over it.

About Anna
hi. i’m anna. i’m 15. i like to draw, sing, write stories and read books. i love people and i’m vegan. nice to meet you all :)

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Posted by on September 27th, 2016 at 08:00 am

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Profile: Jodi


You can call me… Jodi

I identify as… Transgender lady

As far as third-person pronouns go, … She, Her, Maam, Ms,

I’m attracted to… Kindness and Humor.

When people talk about me, I want them to… Smile

I want people to understand… That I conform to societal standards out of need not want. I know I will never be able to be the real me but I can better help people of our community by using the platform that has provide to me.

About Jodi
Father (Mother) of two, Married 32 yrs, corporate executive, on Hormones for over 20 yrs but still living as a male. Don’t want to but it isn’t just about me. Wish I could have the bottom surgery but can’t without RLT. I life as a woman when I can, it truly is the only time I am comfortable with me. I grew up poor and more than anything unwilling to risk my career. My position allows to me to insure that our company does not discriminate against GLBT team members.

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Posted by on September 25th, 2016 at 08:00 am

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Profile: Taylor


You can call me… Taylor

I identify as… A polyamorous genderqueer/-fluid. I am physically a male, but I carry my strong feminine side with me every day. There are days when I feel like a woman and days when I feel like a man.

As far as third-person pronouns go, … I don’t know. I have had several times, when I have found myself confused when referred as a male, when I have been feeling feminine. Guess a feminine man would be somewhat correct, even though it doesn’t cover it completely through.

I’m attracted to… Women, especially tall and feminine ones, even when I have my female days/times. When it comes to sex, in my female times I don’t want/need intercourse at all, because it would feel weird.

When people talk about me, I want them to… focus on my personality, rather than gender. The people around me know that I act very feminine from time to time, but that’s only half the truth and I’d like to keep it that way.

I want people to understand… that my style of dressing up and my taste about culture are a mixture of my both sides. I’ve always talked up how men can like feminine things, but I don’t want most people around me to know how I actually feel about them inside.

About Taylor
An academic genderqueer with a family.

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Posted by on September 23rd, 2016 at 08:00 am

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Profile: Derek


You can call me… Derek

I identify as… genderqueer

As far as third-person pronouns go, … I’m not particular, really. Weird to say, but I think I would prefer “it”, if it were completely up to me. I realize how “it” can seem insulting, or like you’re a “thing” and not a person, but it just feels neutral, to me.

I’m attracted to… Women. I have a definite tendency towards a more tomboyish vibe, but it’s not a strict rule or anything.

When people talk about me, I want them to… Trust that I know me more than they do. I will in turn trust the same for everyone else.

I want people to understand… The “just want to/trying to be different” thing is the worst kind of catch-22. If you don’t argue against it, they get to stick with their assumptions and misunderstanding, but if you do try to argue, it’s treated as proof that you “just want attention”. You can’t win against this dismissal.

About Derek

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Posted by on September 21st, 2016 at 08:00 am

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Profile: Sam


You can call me… Sam.

I identify as… an Grilyboy.

As far as third-person pronouns go, … please just use the male ones to describe me.

I’m attracted to… both genders. I don’t care about the Gender of the other person. When its Love its Love.

When people talk about me, I want them to… focus on my personality rather then my gender. Just because I have boobs, doesn’t mean i like to have ’em and of course doesn’t give you the right to touch ’em.

I want people to understand… that i’m a person too and if they say i’m disgusting because I’m Transgender that i can get hurt too.

About Sam.
I like
– Reading
– Writing
– Sleeping
– Smoking
and drawing.

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Posted by on September 19th, 2016 at 08:00 am

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Profile: Jess



You can call me… Jess (or Furby)

I identify as… Demi-woman. Discordian, vegan, lefty, ginger.

As far as third-person pronouns go, … She/They/FURBY DESTROYER OF THE INNOCENT

I’m attracted to… Girly people, with some exceptions!

When people talk about me, I want them to… Respect my identity.

I want people to understand… That I’ve changed a lot in the last few years. That I’m serious about those changes. That my sense of humour doesn’t mean I’m not serious about my beliefs. That we’re all learning.

About Jess (or Furby)
I’m a 25 year old programmer who dabbles in activism and music. I work with a UK organisation called Action For Trans Health which advocates for trans healthcare justice and runs a solidarity fund.

I go by HodgePodge a lot online, including in the Genderfork comments- I’m finally ready to post a profile :)

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Posted by on September 17th, 2016 at 08:00 am

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Profile: Angel


You can call me… Angel

I identify as… genderqueer.

As far as third-person pronouns go, … he/him/they/them. I rarely enjoy hearing she/her.

I’m attracted to… feminine men, masculine women, genderqueer.

When people talk about me, I want them to… focus on my personality.

I want people to understand… there are more than two genders and a zillion ways to express oneself. I won’t dress the same every day but I’ll be comfortable with each choice and that’s what matters.

About Angel
I am discovering myself daily and feeling so much greater than I’ve ever been. I am starting to buy clothes and accessories that fit my identity better. No outside influences, just myself.

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Posted by on September 13th, 2016 at 08:00 am

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Profile: Haru


You can call me… Haru

I identify as… genderfluid.
My gender changes from time to time. In general I am one of the following: Male, Female, unclear mix of Male and Female and Space Marine. The last one is a bit tricky. When I am traveling or working I am focused on something during that time, and I only see the task and noting else. Even if a person I find attractive would walk past me I would not notice it. This goes to the point of not even feeling part of the same species.

As far as third-person pronouns go, … I find pronoun difficult. When I am a male a male pronoun is good, but as a female I would feel hurt since that would mean I am not a Women just a Guy in disguise. Since my gender switches and even I do not know from time to time which pronoun would be correct, I prefer the use of no pronoun. Luckily the English language allows the replacement of pronouns with my name.
Example:
Instead of: “How is he/she doing?”
you can use:”How is Haru doing?”.

I’m attracted to… Everything feminine. From feminine men over transgender and gender fluid to cis women.

When people talk about me, I want them to… not talk about me. I am very self conscious and always expect them to talk bad about me.

I want people to understand… that, despite me being gender fluid and having problems expressing and reading emotions I am person who can be loved.

About Haru
About me.
I am 28 years old and am currently finishing my master degree.
I come from a traditional home: man is man and man loves a woman.
I started to embrace my female side 3 years ago when I moved away from my family. Even before I was always a weird person, which man does know how to sew and knows which colors work with each other. Now I can be who ever I want to be.

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Posted by on September 11th, 2016 at 08:00 am

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Profile: Aiden


You can call me… Aiden

I identify as… A neutral/fem-presenting trans woman

As far as third-person pronouns go, … She/Her, please and thank you!

I’m attracted to… Everyone? I think? I don’t tend to be sexually or romantically attracted to any one gender in particular, but that could mean I’m ace/aro or pan. I’ve never really had an interest in relationships before, though I think it could be fun.

When people talk about me, I want them to… Talk about something other than my appearance. I know I look funny. I know I talk funny. I know I act funny. I know, I know, I know, I’ve heard it all a thousand times, so please for Christ’s sake talk about something else about me. And please, use my pronouns.

I want people to understand… Words hurt. I was born with only one hand, and my face was disfigured in a car accident. On top of that, I’ve got frizzy orange hair, I’m too tall for a girl, I can’t pass for crap, and I’ve got any other number of flaws that people are all too willing to point out. My self esteem was in shambles for most of my life. Of course, I’m learning to love myself, but there have been times where one cruel ableist joke has set me back months in terms of my progress. Just, be careful what you say. If it’s easy for you to insult someone, chances are it’s just as easy for everyone else to insult them too.

About Aiden

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Posted by on September 7th, 2016 at 08:00 am

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Profile: Daniel


You can call me… Daniel

I identify as… Trans masculine, genderfluid (although without experiencing feminine genders), genderqueer, non binary, boy, human.

As far as third-person pronouns go, … I prefer they/them or he/him. On any day, I’m comfortable with both, but some days I prefer one over the other (but either works).

I’m attracted to… Beautiful people, in whatever way that may be interpreted.

When people talk about me, I want them to… See past my aggressive outer, which I put up as a barrier, but can’t seem to remove.

I want people to understand… That I am human before I am gendered, and I am everything but a woman.

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Posted by on September 3rd, 2016 at 08:00 am

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Profile: Aster


You can call me… Aster, or any of my many nicknames. (kitty, Pav, Pavatti, Prince, Orion, Apollo etc)

I identify as… Nothing. Neutrois. Agender. Stuff like that. I like being called a boy, but not a man, though that doesn’t change my sense of genderless void where I always thought a solid identity should be.

As far as third-person pronouns go, … He/Him is most common. They/them is also fantastic. She/her is the only one off limits.

I’m attracted to… Men, mostly. Taller manlier men than I.

When people talk about me, I want them to… Talk about me like I am Nonbinary rather than binary just because I use binary pronouns.

I want people to understand… Each other, or at least try to. I want people to understand that not understanding something can be scary, but learning it can be fun and amazing and magical, no matter what it is or how old you are. We’ll never know everything, but if we keep our minds and arms open, we at least have that going for us.

About Aster, or any of my many nicknames. (kitty, Pav, Pavatti, Prince, Orion, Apollo etc)
I’m a 19 year old artist just trying to live my nonbinary life in this binary world. I’m a total sap, sensitive beyond belief and cry when animals die in movies. I stay a functioning human through a cocktail of coffee and stubborn determination and my face looks empty without dark circles. Yes, my hair IS naturally purple. Thank you for noticing.

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Posted by on August 30th, 2016 at 08:00 am

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Profile: Chiyoko


You can call me… Chiyoko

I identify as… A cis male who enjoys the feminine aesthetic

As far as third-person pronouns go, … He/him will do quite nicely. I’ve had people use she/her, and while I honestly don’t mind, it’d be nice if people would just listen. I introduce myself with my pronouns (“Hi, I’m Chiyoko. My pronouns are he/him. It’s nice to meet you!”), and if you don’t use them, well then. Now I know what kind of person you are.

I’m attracted to… Guys with nice voices and interesting hands. Guys who can sing. Guys who are blind and/or use a wheelchair like I do. Guys who are kind and gentle. Looks don’t matter (lol obvi), though if you smell or sound like you don’t take care of yourself, then we might have issues.

When people talk about me, I want them to… Remember than I’m blind, not deaf. Just because I have a handicap doesn’t mean I’m some weirdo you can’t be friends with (I mean I’m not dictating this to a stranger!). Also don’t make jokes about the way I dress or the way I act. I like girly things. Deal with it.

I want people to understand… I’m every bit a man as the one I want to marry someday. Frilly skirts and hair bows and jewelry, honestly, they just feel nice, and if you don’t like it, then you can make like The Man in the movie School of Rock and step off

About Chiyoko
I’m a psych student who’s big into the world of stimming. Things that feel nice are just. So good. It’s actually a bit scary sometimes. I’ve got jars of goo, pieces of embossed paper, stim toys, all sorts of things, and I’m always adding to the pile. I like jpop and scifi, and I’m currently in love with the candle section of Bed Bath & Beyond.

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Posted by on August 29th, 2016 at 08:00 am

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Profile: Jade


You can call me… Jade or Jaden

I identify as… Androgynous or bigender.

As far as third-person pronouns go, … He/Him would be great.

I’m attracted to… All Gender identities, but I’m leaning more towards the masculine side.

When people talk about me, I want them to… Not make assumptions about me and to just treat me as they would anybody else

I want people to understand… That it isn’t a crime or something horrible to not feel 100% comfortable with your sex or your body. The genders were made as a social construct and don’t equal the truth. Be what makes you feel the best and don’t mind the opinions of other people.

About Jade or Jaden
I am socially really awkward and often very shy.

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Posted by on August 27th, 2016 at 08:00 am

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Profile: Spencer


You can call me… Spencer

I identify as… A genderfluid, panromantic asexual with a whole load of mental health

As far as third-person pronouns go, … I like they/them

I’m attracted to… Any one with a good heart and caring nature

When people talk about me, I want them to… Talk about me as a person, not me as an appearance/sex/gender

I want people to understand… That mistakes are made and we all have a chance to remedy them. Second chances and acceptance are key to being able to live and love.

About Spencer
Okay so I’m like really boring, and really shy, but yeah I have friends, i have family, I have hobbies. Your averge Spencer really

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Posted by on August 25th, 2016 at 08:00 am

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Profile: Hayven



You can call me… Hayven

I identify as… Neutrois / agender / gender nope. I’m a gender-neutral person who doesn’t like to be put into boxes.

As far as third-person pronouns go, … Any gender-neutral pronoun is fine. I normally use they/them/theirs, but ey/em/eir or xe/xem/xyr are fine, too.

I’m attracted to… No one. I’m aromantic and asexual.

When people talk about me, I want them to… Focus on what I have to say, not my gender. Despite the “weirdness” of being non-binary, I’m still a human being and should be treated like any other.

I want people to understand… That nonbinary people are just like anyone else — we’re *normal.* Not everyone fits the flippin’ binary!

About Hayven
I’m a 29-year-old enby from Park City, Utah, and I’m currently finishing up a Ph.D. in sociology. I’m currently an adjunct instructor at a university, and I hope to land a tenure-track job soon. When I’m not focusing on academic pursuits, I’m working on anti-racism and LGBT+ activism. My hobbies include hiking, skiing, biking, and reading (mostly non-fiction and sci-fi).

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Posted by on August 1st, 2016 at 10:00 am

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