You can call me… Ruby

I identify as… FTM (I’m not sure yet)

As far as third-person pronouns go, … Them/they

I’m attracted to… Guys

When people talk about me, I want them to… Say I’m a guy but people refer to me as a girl and I hate it.

I want people to understand… Even though I’m young I still know that I’m different. Age is just a number.

About Ruby
I’m an eleven year old who was assigned to be female at birth but I feel and want to be a guy.

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You can call me… Becca

I identify as… gender curious/queer. Closet cross-dresser

As far as third-person pronouns go, … any of them at this point, although she/her sound good

I’m attracted to… female, femme, androgynous

When people talk about me, I want them to… my gender doesn’t change my personality

I want people to understand… that I’m just as confused as they may be

About Becca
Father of one, married. My wife if aware of my “proclivities.” She is understanding to a point, but I’m not allowed to dress in public.

I tried on my mother’s clothes when I was a child. One time when I was 11 I let a girl put makeup on me and it felt really good to feel pretty. I’m not brave enough to come out right now and I don’t know if I would go through trans surgery but it’s good to know I’m not alone.

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You can call me… Lorenzo

I identify as… erm…well, I’m really unsure about my gender. I mean, I was born male but I have never really felt that much of ‘connection’ with this definition. I had never asked myself if being ‘male’ for me was right because I didn’t really care since me was me and not the gender assigned to me. Then, not too long ago, I started wondering again about my gender and I honestly don’t know how to define myself because I think I’m agender but I also have difficulties to completely abandon the current definition I have of myself because I’ve never felt a very gender dysphoria. (ps: I also tried to define myself as a demiboy but I don’t think this gender totally represents me -I don’t know how to explain it lol-). Pratically I think I’m agender but maybe I’m not yet ready to totally accept this?

As far as third-person pronouns go, … I don’t have a real preference, maybe because in Italian (my native language) we haven’t pronouns to define ourselves in other ways than male or female. However, if I had to choose, I would prefer ‘he/him’, ‘they/them’ or ‘ne/nem’ (I’m not even sure about my gender but I probably would prefer one of these pronouns if i would recognize myself as agender).

I’m attracted to… men. I’ve also made coming out with some of my class mates and my best friend. (Actually I’m wondering even about my sexual orientation, but the explanation would be too long lol)

When people talk about me, I want them to… know that even if I seem all happy and smiling and even a little stupid (basically all the people I know think I’m stupid lol) I have emotions too. Even if they believe I’m kinda indifferent to others’ opionions, this isn’t true (just the opposite lol. To my misfortune, I use to care a lot -maybe too much- about others’ opinions about me)

I want people to understand… that gender (like sexuality) isn’t just made of two choices (male/female or straight/gay). We have plenty of them, we only have to find ‘right one’ for us.

About Lorenzo
I’m 15, I’m Italian and I’m UGLY (and I know it lol). I’ve watched a lot of TV series and Anime and I’ve also read a lot of manga and books. My favourite genres are:
books: Fantasy, Romance and also Literature
TV series: Action, Comedy, Fantasy, Supernatural and even Romance
Anime: Basically every genre, maybe Action and Comedy (?)
Manga: Yaoi (*COFF COFF* YAOI IS LIFE *COFF COFF*), Shounen and Seinen.

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You can call me… shelby

I identify as… genderqueer?

As far as third-person pronouns go, … they/them for now, I’m still working on this one

I’m attracted to… girls

When people talk about me, I want them to… avoid talking about my gender identity before they have asked me and try to understand

I want people to understand… that just because I don’t want to transition doesn’t mean that I am not a boy..

About shelby
I’m a gender-queer college freshman just trying to find a place where I can fit in…

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You can call me… Emerson or Em

I identify as… Gender-fluid and pansexual

As far as third-person pronouns go, … At this point in time, I´m fine with they/them/their pronouns OR she/her.

I’m attracted to… People regardless of their gender identity. :)

When people talk about me, I want them to…

I want people to understand…

About Emerson or Em
Hi everyone! My name is Emerson (actually, my real name is Emily, but I´m gonna go by Emerson or Em because those are gender neutral names:) I love Harry Potter, Pentatonix, and I’m obsessed with Dove Cameron.

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You can call me… Adrian

I identify as… agender and transmasculine

As far as third-person pronouns go, … he/him or they/them. i like he/him most.

I’m attracted to… i’m grey-asexual / kinda demisexual and panromantic.

When people talk about me, I want them to… use masculine honorifics like ‘sir’, ‘man’, ‘mister’ etc instead of neutral terms. mr. / mx. are interchangeable, but i don’t like datefriend, sibling, child, etc for me… i want my parents to call me ‘son’, i want my brother to call me ‘brother’, and i want my s/o to call me their ‘boyfriend’.

I want people to understand… – rule 63 fanworks and cis-swapping is disgustingly cissexist and transphobic and it’s so violently invalidating so keep it away from me…
– i define agender for myself to mean ‘gender neutral’ like neutrois, not me lacking a gender
– i’m from iowa and i go to school for cinema!
– i’m autistic and i have bpd
– i’m a virgo sun, cancer moon, libra rising

About Adrian
hi, i’m adrian, i’m nineteen at the moment, i sometimes go by my middle name, james, or my pseudonym, virgoe bex. i’m a cinema student and an aspiring screenwriter and director.

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You can call me… Hala

I identify as… FTM transgender

As far as third-person pronouns go, … He/him/his or they/them/theirs please!

I’m attracted to… Mostly girls, but also some boys!

When people talk about me, I want them to… Acknowledge that I am human

I want people to understand… That I’m just trying to make things work.

About Hala
I’m a female to male transgender who’s just now finding this site and trying it out.. Not very much else to say about me.

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You can call me… An Agender Potato. Just kidding, let’s do Sam.

I identify as… In case you couldn’t tell, an ADHD-cursed agender couch potato who likes to roll itself with a blanket on the floor so it becomes a burrito. Or a strange nerd who is weird and apparently smart and funny (I couldn’t tell if they were joking) and always sarcastic.

As far as third-person pronouns go, … I prefer ‘it’, but because my parents don’t know about me coming out, I’ve just stuck with ‘she/her’ (congrats, you now know I have a vagina .-. )
But honestly, I don’t want to risk the bullying so I’m just hiding in my closet with a bag of chips.

I’m attracted to… I love anyone who is near-ish my height (5′ 7″) and who has a nice personality. Must be humorous. I also love pretty eyes! <3

When people talk about me, I want them to… say nice things! ;-;
And maybe actually care about me since most people only use me for help with math. And remember my gender but don’t treat me oddly.

I want people to understand… I’M HUMAN! And just because I’m pansexual does not mean I have a crush on you (facepalm). Also, just because I call you a friend doesn’t mean I don’t secretly have a crush on you (wink!). Lastly, I’m me. If you don’t like it, fuck you.

About An Agender Potato. Just kidding, let’s do Sam.
IMMA POTAYTO! (misspelling on purpose there, folks!)
Okay I don’t actually like potatoes but y’know, sometimes you need something quirky to use to make you sound as weird as you are. I’m more of a celery person ;)
And I’m kinda ugly but I think I make up for it inside. Hence the lack of ID picture XP

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You can call me… Luca (or Max)

I identify as… Transmasculine androgyne

As far as third-person pronouns go, … Them/they (experimenting with he/him)

I’m attracted to… Men, women and fellow enbies

When people talk about me, I want them to… Consider my feelings.

I want people to understand… That this is who I am, and that it is a good thing.

About Luca (or Max)
Writer,singer/songwriter, artist. star wars fan, sci-fi nerd. Reinventing myself in many ways. Finding the person I’ve always been, but was afraid to be in the sunlight.

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You can call me… Soren/Sarah

I identify as… An androsexual genderfluid

As far as third-person pronouns go, … Any pronouns are fine as long they are used with kindness <3

I’m attracted to… Men and masculinity as I am androsexual, but I’m mostly attracted to the masculinity side whether male or female

When people talk about me, I want them to… Remember that I’m a human being as well

I want people to understand… That no one is perfect and I’m definitely not perfect so that means I’m actually normal :)

About Soren/Sarah
15 year old genderfluid. I don’t care if you call me Sarah or Soren. I want to go into Computer Science. I love reading and writing in my free time. I’m always on the lookout for new friends.

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You can call me… Chogiwa

I identify as… Female (cisgender)

As far as third-person pronouns go, … She/her, they/them, that crazy activist,

I’m attracted to… People,
70% Male
20% Female
10% Other

When people talk about me, I want them to… Be honest, and speak fondly

I want people to understand… That my sexuality is just another thing about me. I’m American, like artichoke hearts, and am into different types of people.

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You can call me… Eliza

I identify as… Not sure? Somewhere around Demifemale-Agender.

As far as third-person pronouns go, … They/them would be great! If you won’t use those, then she/her is…fine. Sorta.

I’m attracted to… Short hair, good senses of humor, kindness, people who don’t mind me hugging them or playing with their hair, respectful people.

When people talk about me, I want them to… Be kind? I’m really just trying to get by, and even though some people don’t understand me I hope they won’t speak ill of me.

I want people to understand… That I’m still questioning my gender, and that I will probably never come out even if I settle on a label I’m comfortable with.

About Eliza
Young and unsure. Social anxiety and stress, but trying to keep it up and not doing so bad!

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You can call me… Charles/Charlee or Veronica

I identify as… a non-binary with the body of a girl, with I don’t like…

As far as third-person pronouns go, … they/them he/him she/her

I’m attracted to… all genders! I love each and every one of the beautiful people in this world!

When people talk about me, I want them to… use the correct pronouns and respect that I’m a human too!

I want people to understand… that most people should be comfortable with themselves and express what they want to! I like wearing dresses and make-up but I also love wearing baseball caps and men’s clothes.

About Charles/Charlee or Veronica
13, boy-cut hair, hazel/blue eyes, Broadway Musical nerd, rap music, cosplay wanna-be (no money ;w;)

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You can call me… Zackary

I identify as… Zackary. I don’t like all the labels because I haven’t quite made my mind up about what I want.

As far as third-person pronouns go, … He/Him/His

I’m attracted to… Both boys and girls.

When people talk about me, I want them to… Focus on my brain. Not my body.

I want people to understand… That I’m a pretty pleasant person most of the time. You just have to give me a chance.

About Zackary
I like music. I struggle with mental illness. I like to think I’m a pretty chill person. But I think I probably annoy people sometimes. Cause I talk a lot.

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You can call me… Nolan

I identify as… Male. Friends and family MUST refer to me as “Mackenzie” and “she/her” around my parents. Overly Catholic parents are against it.

As far as third-person pronouns go, … He and him

I’m attracted to… Strange sense of humor, intelligence, and pretty much anything. I like both boys and girls.

When people talk about me, I want them to… Think about me as a person. Not as the one freak who acts and dresses like a guy but goes to a Catholic school.

I want people to understand… It’s not a phase. The Bible NEVER said homosexuality is wrong.

About Nolan
17, bass drum in band, junior in high school,weird, secretly Batman, Pokemon fan, Apple all the way, Love dogs (cats are evil) Supernatural fan (Dean) Music lover: metal, rap, dubstep, anything but jazz, country, and classical really Love to read and draw. Aspiring photographer and left handed, raised Catholic but I’ve got my own opinions and “faith”.

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You can call me… Max

I identify as… Trans non binary

As far as third-person pronouns go, … They/them

I’m attracted to… Personality. I don’t care about gender, I’m pansexual

When people talk about me, I want them to… Be honest but respectful :)

I want people to understand… I’m still quite confused about my gender and I’m a mess but I try my best to be a good person

About Max
So I’m Max, i was born female but I’ve never identified as this gender and I’ve been trying to feel good about myself for quite a long time. I did my coming out a few weeks ago to my close friends and my sisters but i can’t figure out how to tell it to my parents so… Yeah. I’m French and 16 yo

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You can call me… KC

I identify as… Bigender. I feel some mix of male and female with an increasingly more feminine gender expression. And if not feminine, than atleast more neutral.

As far as third-person pronouns go, … They/them though she/her doesn’t hurt when I’m looking super cute and feminine!

I’m attracted to… I’m androsexual so men and more masculine beings. I had originally came out as gay. I’m attracted to nerds, geeks, gamers, and Potterheads. To people who will talk for hours. To people who see me for me. I currently have an incredible boyfriend and we have been dating for almost a year. He is amazing and is about to graduate with a master’s degree!

When people talk about me, I want them to… Use my name and pronouns. Not focus on my gender

I want people to understand… Bigender is real. I’m not imaging something, I’m not stuck or confused. I’m not a woman because I wear make up. I’m not a man because my chromosomes are XY. I’m being my authentic self.

About KC

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You can call me… Sam

I identify as… Genderfluid.

As far as third-person pronouns go, … They/them is best.

I’m attracted to… Still questioning for the most part, but as it stands I think I’m pansexual. So, everyone.

When people talk about me, I want them to… Refer to me as a “person”, not a “girl”. If gender is actually brought up that is, though I’d prefer it only be mentioned if someone asks.

I want people to understand… That just because I have a long ponytail doesn’t necessarily mean “that’s a 100% girl 100% of the time”.

About Sam

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You can call me… J

I identify as… AMAB non-binary

As far as third-person pronouns go, … He/Him, They/Them

I’m attracted to… Open-minded, Kind, Quirky folks who’re into doing their own thing

When people talk about me, I want them to… Try not to assume too much about me. Just ask.

I want people to understand… Gender is a social construct. Some of us are building our own structures.

And that’s OK.

About J
Mid-40s mostly-dude. Paints nails, colours hair & beard, writes heavy metal music, into needle-felting cute critters.

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You can call me… Craig

I identify as… a trans female to male boy

As far as third-person pronouns go, … him, he, his

I’m attracted to… both guys and girls but i’m more on the guys side

When people talk about me, I want them to… use Craig for my name and use the right pronouns

I want people to understand… that it is alright to be yourself and don’t be afraid to stand up for who you are

About Craig
born to two happy parents who named me Samantha i’ve never felt in place, i’ve always felt like i didnt belong to my born to gender and i new this all my life but when i turned 12 i started thinking more about it i came out to my group of friends who had already came out, they were all very accepting i am now 13 (as of 2016) and just recently told my parents and they also accept me but i do have trouble at school with certain classmates but overall it is ok

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