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Profile: Alyx


You can call me… alyx

I identify as… nonbinary / neutrois / a dandelion / a spore

As far as third-person pronouns go, … they / them

I’m attracted to… humans

When people talk about me, I want them to… not misgender me.

I want people to understand… gender is as diverse as the full range of emotions and experiences that cannot always be adequately expressed by words. when you accept that, you can really start to appreciate how cool every person’s individual gender is.

About alyx
I’m an illustrator with too many interests to really focus on. but I’m trying.

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Posted by on March 8th, 2017 at 08:00 am

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Profile: ray


You can call me… ray

I identify as… agender, asexual, aromantic
genderqueer
femboi

As far as third-person pronouns go, … they/them are fine but he/him is good too. anything gender neutral is great.

I’m attracted to… simultaneously everyone and no one.
smart people. nerds. people who don’t care what others think.

When people talk about me, I want them to… talk about me, not my gender.

I want people to understand… that my gender (or lack thereof) doesn’t define me.

About ray
i’m a genderqueer artist who just really wants society to grow up already.

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Posted by on March 7th, 2017 at 10:00 am

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Profile: Dallas


You can call me… Dallas

I identify as… genderfluid

As far as third-person pronouns go, … I prefer they/them :)

I’m attracted to… all genders, but I’m mainly only romantically attracted to females/femininity

When people talk about me, I want them to… remember that I am a human being

I want people to understand… that respect is important. It requires zero effort to be a kind person or to refer to someone with their preferred pronouns, it can make someone’s day twenty times better.

About Dallas

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Posted by on March 6th, 2017 at 08:00 am

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Profile: Max


You can call me… Max

I identify as… I’m kind of confused and am looking for some help?

As far as third-person pronouns go, … they/them

I’m attracted to… Girls, usually.
Intelligence
Humor
Brown Eyes

When people talk about me, I want them to… Say what they honestly think about me. It more than likely won’t effect me.

I want people to understand… I’m not really sure of my gender right now, and I’ve been questioning it for a while. I might change my pronouns, someday. I don’t know.

About Max
I am Max. I am currently questioning my gender and would appreciate it if somebody who has done this before could help me? I am hoping this site will introduce to me some people that will accept me. For now, my pronouns are they/they
Thanks. Peace.

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Posted by on March 6th, 2017 at 08:00 am

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Profile: Kendal


You can call me… Kendal

I identify as… A bisexual Genderfluid Buddhist

As far as third-person pronouns go, … I Prefer They/them

I’m attracted to… Feminine men and females

When people talk about me, I want them to… Talk about my progress on rebuilding myself.

I want people to understand… I’m not offended if they mess up my pronouns.

About Kendal
I’ve been suffering from social anxiety and depression, I’ve recently gone through my parents divorce, and I like to draw.

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Posted by on March 3rd, 2017 at 08:00 am

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Profile: Rachel


You can call me… Rachel

I identify as… I identify as female and present very feminine but I am intersex and proud to be.

As far as third-person pronouns go, … She/her but they/them is fine too

I’m attracted to… I’m an androromantic ace who enjoys people who are very masculine presenting and athletic but also sensitive and romantic

When people talk about me, I want them to… Not speculate about my gentalia. Not attempt to draw conclusions on who I am based on my appearance or relationships.

I want people to understand… Intersex is a real and valid identity. And yes it is a medical condition but I can still have pride in it! I am not straight. I am currently in a relationship with a queer cis man and as I present as female we get told we don’t belong in LGBTQ+ spaces even though we are both part of the community.

About Rachel
22. Graphic design major approaching graduation and engagement! I love anime, fan art, rock music, yoga, and volunteering. I am intersex but was raised as a female and was not aware of my intersexuality until I was 10. My boyfriend is an accountant and has a bearded dragon.

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Posted by on March 2nd, 2017 at 08:00 am

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Profile: Allen


You can call me… Allen or Ilithiss

I identify as… No idea, I’m sticking with my assigned gender. Female.

As far as third-person pronouns go, … Any. Male pronouns make me all warm and fuzzy, though.

I’m attracted to… Boys and girls. I’m open to trying with other genders, though.

When people talk about me, I want them to… smile and be happy. Respect my sexuality and the fact that I am polyamorous with a love of Disney and metalcore

I want people to understand… that I am not perfect and am still attempting to understand myself as well as the world around me.

About Allen or Ilithiss

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Posted by on February 28th, 2017 at 08:00 am

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Profile: Dana


You can call me… Dana

I identify as… queer androgynous artist.

As far as third-person pronouns go, … she/her, they/them, open to suggestions.

I’m attracted to… Many people, but mostly Will Minor.
Men and women and non-binary and or queer/trans folk. All inclusive. It’s beyond the skin.

When people talk about me, I want them to… Talk of me kindly.

I want people to understand… Art and humanity, and the beauty of their healing forces.

About Dana
“…the inexpressible can be contained – inexpressibly! – in the expressed.” ~ Maggie Larson

I’m a baked potato/dank femme. My interests lay in the arts and humanities, though I constantly feel that I am just motoring up on my endeavors. I study in California, theatre arts and gender studies. I manage and create, when I manage to create.

Let’s help each other along in this journey!

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Posted by on February 18th, 2017 at 08:00 am

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Profile: harri


You can call me… harri

I identify as… femme male, genderqueer, neither, agender

As far as third-person pronouns go, … he, she, they

I’m attracted to… boys and girls

When people talk about me, I want them to… know that I am an out and proud femme male.

I want people to understand… Men can be FEMME.

I am happy that femme males threaten patriarchy.

Women and femme males need to support each other.

Women’s rights are also femme male rights.

About harri

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Posted by on February 14th, 2017 at 08:00 am

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Profile: isaac!! :^)


You can call me… isaac!! :^)

I identify as… genderqueer!

As far as third-person pronouns go, … i use they/them!!

I’m attracted to… girls and non-binary folks, such as myself.

When people talk about me, I want them to… treat my identity with respect.

I want people to understand… gender isn’t something black and white. if someone finds something that defines how they feel inside, then we shouldn’t put them down. we should help them feel valid.

About isaac!! :^)
i’m an artist!!! kinda. i like to draw a lot and that’s an artist in my book. i can sing decently and my hair is definitely not this color naturally.
(also my instagram is @isaactheghostowl)

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Posted by on February 10th, 2017 at 08:00 am

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Riah


You can call me… Riah

I identify as… bi/pan aro-flux asexual non-binary genderfluid

As far as third-person pronouns go, … they/them or ze/hir, or other gender nutral pronouns (that are NOT it/its)

I’m attracted to… nice/cute/cool/fun people :)

When people talk about me, I want them to… respect my pronouns and gender, and talk nicely (make me seem hella awesome :D).

I want people to understand… that i can be quite sensitive when it comes to my gender, that i’m not interested in sex (and might never be), and that i want to be ur friend (if u r nice) :)

About Riah
Into way too many things, such as (tons of) fandoms and shows and books, drama/acting, climbing, exploring/adventure, making/designing (drawing on) clothes (especially for Pride), and cuddles :)

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Posted by on February 8th, 2017 at 08:00 am

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Else / Corbin


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You can call me… Else online, Corbin irl

I identify as… A playwright, spouse, friend, seeker, non-political activist (cultural activist?), artist, and good cook.

As far as third-person pronouns go, … I do not like language to define me, only support me. To support me, use they/them

I’m attracted to… The combination of fear and honesty that expresses itself through hard work and ambition. Understanding, as both knowledge and compassion. Irreverence in darkness. Thought in action, theory in flesh. Righteously chaotic artists. Myth-makers.

When people talk about me, I want them to… Argue.

I want people to understand… Fear came first, and it piles on. Before identity, before patriarchy, before language, before history, before tribalism, before evolution, before consciousness there was fear. It is the great tool, the mechanism of civilization that brought us out of the woods, that gave us both reason and faith. It is a powerful force, but it only serves to the good if we are afraid for one another, and not of one another.

About Else / Corbin
Else is Corbin’s digital name. It is derived from conditional statements, used in both logic and computer coding, as the undefined alternative to all explicitly defined options. Their plays Boxcar, Three Seconds, and Saving Throw, are available on New Play Exchange, and their company website can be accessed through http://tinyurl.com/renovationists.


Posted by on February 3rd, 2017 at 08:00 am

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Jem(ma)


You can call me… Jem(ma)

I identify as… a polypanromantic, greysexual feminine man

As far as third-person pronouns go, … He and They in equal measure

I’m attracted to… kind and physically affectionate people

When people talk about me, I want them to… not describe me as “masculine”

I want people to understand… that I wear a beard because I think it looks good on my face, not as an expression of gender

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Posted by on January 27th, 2017 at 08:00 am

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Skylar or Sky


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You can call me… Skylar or Sky

I identify as… Transgender ftm and im proud of it

As far as third-person pronouns go, … he him they them NOT IT I AM NOT AN OBJECT

I’m attracted to… mostly girls and non binary

When people talk about me, I want them to… know that i wont change bc of who they want me to be

I want people to understand… my genitalia will NEVER define who i am i am the person who defines who i am

About Skylar or Sky
im a 15-year-old singer and writer…
im proud of my gender and sexuality if u dont like it u can fight me
im falling for someone so hard i dont think i can stop

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Posted by on January 24th, 2017 at 08:00 am

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Profile: Rocky



You can call me… Rocky

I identify as… Non-binary transgender queer

As far as third-person pronouns go, … They/them

I’m attracted to… Females and faab queer peoples

When people talk about me, I want them to… Not question me about myself.

I want people to understand… We are human too and deserve all the same rights as cisgender/heterosexual people

About Rocky
I’m Rocky from Boston.
Part-time artist, full-time pet care provider, extroverted introvert, dreamer.

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Posted by on November 27th, 2016 at 08:00 am

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Profile: between the hours of 8 and 10


You can call me… Between the hours of 8 and 10.

I identify as… Genderless, angry, and finally in a place where I can laugh about it.

As far as third-person pronouns go, … ‘She’ is fine because I can’t really be bothered to remind people and I don’t like making things about me.

I’m attracted to… Sincere kindness and understanding, people who have been through Something, humility, bizarre and dark humor, style, that certain vibe that comes from inside.

When people talk about me, I want them to… Come from a place of love.

I want people to understand… That being aware of something doesn’t absolve you of it, that people don’t reveal integral parts of themselves because they used to have to hide to survive, so have some understanding for the person who’s aloof or timid or ‘too’strange or whatever. I want people to understand the importance of being inclusive.

About Between the hours of 8 and 10.
I haven’t arrived at an amalgamation of theories, but rather a hazy, disjointed set of beliefs. I don’t know who I am really and am trying to not think so much. I’m learning ASL and cobbling and drums, so that’s pretty cool.

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Posted by on November 12th, 2016 at 08:00 am

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Profile: Lee


You can call me… Lee

I identify as… a polyamorous pansexual genderfluid revolving door.

As far as third-person pronouns go, … when it comes down to it I don’t really mind what others call me, but I tend to like gender neutral pronouns because it shows that they gave my identity some thought.

I’m attracted to… an open mind, great sense of humor, easy going personality, and someone who stands for what they believe in.

When people talk about me, I want them to… not feel afraid to ask questions, but be polite. I’m more than happy to answer but I don’t have time for rude and bigoted people.

I want people to understand… that my sexuality, gender, pronouns, etc. doesn’t affect them and they shouldn’t let such things get in the way of possible friendship.

About Lee


Posted by on November 6th, 2016 at 08:00 am

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Profile: Brandon / Clementine


You can call me… Brandon / Clementine

I identify as… Gender Fluid

As far as third-person pronouns go, … He or She depending on what personality I am currently using.

I’m attracted to… women, especially those who are also gender fluid. My quest to find that special one is something important to me and I’m starting to wonder if it will ever happen.

When people talk about me, I want them to… treat me like I am anybody else and not focus on what I am going to look like the next day.

I want people to understand… that it is difficult always wondering if something bad is going to happen to you just because the way that you are dressed. There is no reason why we shouldn’t be treating each other with respect and love. It also gets to be a bit expensive when you are maintaining two different wardrobes.

About Brandon / Clementine
I am 36 years old and I have been slowly discovering myself for a long time now. Growing up I always knew that I was different and didn’t quite fit into the traditional roles but never had a real idea of who I was. Once I learned what transgender was while in college it put me on the path to really get things figured out. Everyday though I am still learning new things about myself.

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Posted by on November 2nd, 2016 at 08:00 am

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Profile: Phoenix


You can call me… Phoenix

I identify as… An androgynous agender punk

As far as third-person pronouns go, … They/them are preferable, but he/him are okay as well

I’m attracted to… Androgynous or masculine women, genderqueer people, honestly if you’re a genuine person who speaks from the heart you’ve probably got a chance.

When people talk about me, I want them to… Focus on who I am as a person rather than my gender. I get that it’s a lot to take in for some people, but it’s important to respect others for who they are. If I do something truly shitty, judge me for that rather than how I present myself and what I am.

I want people to understand… Just because I have a biologically male anatomy and am happy with said anatomy doesn’t mean I’m a guy. And just because I’m not a guy doesn’t mean I’m therefore a girl. Honestly, the world would be a better place if we threw out the ideas of “male” and “female”. They’re outdated societal means of shoving people into boxes to control them (and honestly, most people don’t completely fit into these boxes).

About Phoenix

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Posted by on October 25th, 2016 at 08:00 am

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Profile: (some feminine name not yet decided)


You can call me… (some feminine name not yet decided….)

I identify as… Trans, transgender, genderqueer, two-spirited, male to female

As far as third-person pronouns go, … Not so concerned now (called “he” etc.) but I’m pretty much in the closet, though self aware if still questioning.

I’m attracted to… Women and men and genderqueer people. Fem men, masculine men, butch women, femme women.

When people talk about me, I want them to… Accept me as I am. See me as beautiful, inside and outside.

I want people to understand… That I didn’t choose this. I struggle. And that I can be beautiful– I want people to understand this– and I want myself to understand this. I want all of the spectrum to be accepted and acceptable.

About (some feminine name not yet decided….)
In my late 40s but realized I was “different” in my 20s. I’m Native American and try to find the place for alternative ways of being, including “two spirited” in my culture(s).

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Posted by on October 3rd, 2016 at 08:00 am

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