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Profile: Soren or Sarah


You can call me… Soren or Sarah

I identify as… an androsexual genderfluid

As far as third-person pronouns go, … Any pronouns are fine as long as they are used with kindness <3

I’m attracted to… Mostly masculine men, but I’m also attracted to masculine women and the occasional feminine man

When people talk about me, I want them to… Remember that I’m a human being just like them

I want people to understand… That nobody’s perfect and I’m not perfect so that means I’m normal like everyone else no matter what people may say

About Soren or Sarah
I want to study Computer Science. I enjoy writing and reading while I’m not in school. I’ve had my ups and downs in life like many others, and I’m always on the lookout for new friends.

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Posted by on May 4th, 2017 at 08:00 am

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Profile: Dre


You can call me… Dre

I identify as… a gay searching woman with a disability

As far as third-person pronouns go, … I use she/her/hers

I’m attracted to… Loving, unique female-bodied people

When people talk about me, I want them to… Respect my privacy

I want people to understand… Names and language are important; if I tell you how to refer to me, it’s important that you respect that.

About Dre

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Posted by on April 26th, 2017 at 08:00 am

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Profile: Paige or Arty


You can call me… Paige or Arty

I identify as… Non-binary/Agender

As far as third-person pronouns go, … They/Them/Theirs, please!

I’m attracted to… Everyone! If I’m attracted to you, I’m attracted to you!

When people talk about me, I want them to… not assume what I identify as. I may present a certain way, but you are probably wrong.

I want people to understand… that I have enough trouble with myself internally, I don’t need you to voice your opinions of me.

About Paige or Arty
Hey there, pals! I’m 20 and fabulously queer. If you’d like to be friends or know more about me, hit me up on my tumblr: cockapoodle-doo

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Posted by on April 24th, 2017 at 08:00 am

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Profile: Lily


You can call me… Lily

I identify as… Heterosexual, biromantic, bigender…usually presenting as a woman

As far as third-person pronouns go, … She/her

I’m attracted to… Masculine men, athletic women, kindness and passion

When people talk about me, I want them to… Think of my personality without having to include a specific gender as a part of that identity

I want people to understand… That my feminine appearance doesn’t tell the whole story…it’s hard to express my masculine side with thick hips

About Lily
Really struggling to define myself. I want to allow myself to be more authentic about the identity I want to have, but I am afraid of the consequences of moving away from the gender binary. I hate feeling like I have to choose one or the other.

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Posted by on April 22nd, 2017 at 08:00 am

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Profile: Jem(ma)


You can call me… Jem(ma)

I identify as… A feminine, male person.

As far as third-person pronouns go, … He and They in equal measure. She would be lovely but I don’t present as a woman and I likely won’t.

I’m attracted to… Kindhearted, beautiful, and nurturing people.

When people talk about me, I want them to… Not identify me as masculine just because I am male. I want them to not think of my size as intimidating. I hope they think I’m pretty.

I want people to understand… That I have a beard because it looks good on my face, not because it’s a part of a masculine gender performance.

About Jem(ma)

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Posted by on April 18th, 2017 at 08:00 am

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Profile: Andy


You can call me… Andy

I identify as… I guess I identify as a male…? I was born female and I’m currently thinking about transitioning.

As far as third-person pronouns go, … I prefer he/him/his pronouns but they/them/their is okay too.

I’m attracted to… All genders. It doesn’t matter what you are or what you have in your jeans it matters on your personality.

When people talk about me, I want them to… I want them to be respectful and be kind.

I want people to understand… That even tho I change my name and gender I’m still the fluffy little ball if awkwardness I was before.

About Andy
Idk what to say… I guess just I’m a ball of fluff and I like dogs.

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Posted by on April 16th, 2017 at 08:00 am

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Profile: Khonsu


You can call me… Khonsu

I identify as… a 30-something cysgender female straight tomboy that doesn’t like being called either sir nor madam

As far as third-person pronouns go, … I’m fine with and used to she/her but I prefer being refered to as they/them.

I’m attracted to… socially awkward, gentle, non normative, open minded people of any gender

When people talk about me, I want them to… not mention my gender unless explicitly asked about it, and answer that question with another question : “Why does it matter to you ?”

I want people to understand… their behavior and words have an impact on others. I’m home in my female body, but I’m not female in my mind and I feel estranged to the definition of female others impose on me without thinking about it.

About Khonsu

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Posted by on April 14th, 2017 at 10:00 am

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Profile: Tesiava/Takoda


You can call me… By birth: Tesia By Culture: Tesiava/Takoda

I identify as… Genderfluid.

As far as third-person pronouns go, … they/them please.

I’m attracted to… pansexual, currently attracted to a genderqueer demiboy with great sense and flawless poetry.

When people talk about me, I want them to… appreciate my inner qualities and who I am as a person. If they don’t know me, they can say “that short person who talks a lot about math and then does the splits.”

I want people to understand… That gender isn’t all of what defines a person, I’m forgiving about mistakes , and I want to be seen for who I am, not what gender I am. In a science profession this is incredibly daunting.

About By birth: Tesia By Culture: Tesiava/Takoda

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Posted by on April 12th, 2017 at 08:00 am

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Profile: Sascha


You can call me… Sascha

I identify as… Non-binary

As far as third-person pronouns go, … They/them/theirs

I’m attracted to… People without beards (insert any gender)

When people talk about me, I want them to… Be aware of my identity. Not “sir” me all the time.

I want people to understand… That just because someone looks “masculine”, they don’t have to identify with that word.

About Sascha
Sascha. 25. The Netherlands. Student Social Work. Single.

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Posted by on April 9th, 2017 at 08:00 am

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Profile: Jay


You can call me… Jay

I identify as… Agender

As far as third-person pronouns go, … I prefer they/them

I’m attracted to… Sexually: no one
Romantically: people, regardless of gender

When people talk about me, I want them to… inspire others.

I want people to understand… That regardless of my presentation (strongly female), my gender identity is real and valid.

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Posted by on April 7th, 2017 at 08:00 am

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Profile: RJ



You can call me… RJ

I identify as… (Still finding my way through this and im not sure about labels.. but I feel close to) genderqueer/genderfluid

As far as third-person pronouns go, … I usually go with what people are comfortable with…she/her which is fine but using they/them …would probably make me weep with joy xD

I’m attracted to… The little things…a kind gesture, a funny joke…when my friends braid my hair or support me emotionally..

When people talk about me, I want them to… Be careful when criticizing me …I am sensitive and my brain likes to remind me of negative comments..I rarely get mad..I just hurt for a time being and hopefully forget later on.

I want people to understand… That I would love to communicate with like minded people on various things…possibly being friends?

About RJ
Im a 20 year old socially awkward human who enjoys drawing, writing, reading, cosplay, video games, Youtube, movies, TV shows and so on.

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Posted by on April 5th, 2017 at 08:00 am

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Profile: Allen


You can call me… Allen or Lithi

I identify as… (More than just confused. That’s why I’m here and I’m hoping someone can help me out) Let’s just settle with a masculine personality. Does that count?

As far as third-person pronouns go, … Male pronouns make me feel all warm and fuzzy, although female pronouns don’t bother me much since I’ve grown used to them. They/Them is cool too.
You do you, boo-boo.

I’m attracted to… Women and men, definitely. I’m not sure about other genders as I have yet to discover them.

When people talk about me, I want them to… Do it with a smile, and think of a person with tiny arms and a cute butt

I want people to understand… That I am one giant ball of confused fluff. That I won’t hurt you despite my mean looking T-Rex arms. That I simply seek the answers to myself, as well as the universe and why cats randomly freeze up and stare at nothing before going on with their previous actions.

About Allen or Lithi
I’m a really young teen living in central Europe. I enjoy shocking my parents with my varied tastes in music and I wasted the first day of 2017 scrolling through memes and talking with friends on Quotev.
I’m huge Hetalia trash and act like a cringy weeaboo whenever I can, usually around friends.
I have an obsession with the sparkle emoji, stop judging me I know I’m cringy.

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Posted by on April 3rd, 2017 at 08:00 am

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Profile: Avery


You can call me… Avery

I identify as… still trying to figure out what label fits me best. I haven’t come out to very many people and the few I have, I’ve said I’m confused and questioning.

As far as third-person pronouns go, … Right now everyone uses he/him because I’m assigned male at birth but I imagine that I’ll switch to they/them once I come out.

I’m attracted to… I have been attracted to both men and women but I feel my attractions to men have been at a deeper, more emotionally intimate level.

When people talk about me, I want them to… Well no one’s talking at the moment because I’m closeted but when I come out I hope they are respectful.

I want people to understand… I’m still figuring it out. I don’t know what the future will look like 6 months or 6 years from now and that’s ok.

About Avery
I’m 25 and it’s only been in the past year that I’ve began to explore my gender. I have a fabulous boyfriend who is endlessly supportive. I am an animal enthusiast who is vegan and loves to cook.

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Posted by on April 1st, 2017 at 08:00 am

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Profile: Emma


You can call me… Emma

I identify as… genderfluid. I spent months questioning my gender, determining what my gender was, feeling that the gender didn’t fit anymore and repeating the process, before I realised that I wasn’t actually bad at finding the right label, it was just that my gender was fluid. It took me a long time to realise this as it doesn’t change during the day, like I thought it would do if I was genderfluid, but rather every few weeks or something. It’s hard for me to pinpoint exactly which genders I fluctuate between, but I’m pretty sure that at least girl, agender and nonbinary are involved.

As far as third-person pronouns go, … I really don’t have a preference. You can call me any pronoun you like, but please switch between them now and then instead of just calling me the same pronoun my whole life.

I’m attracted to… all genders, but I seem to have a preference for girls (doesn’t matter whether they are cis or trans).

When people talk about me, I want them to… be kind.

I want people to understand… that respecting people’s gender(s) really isn’t that hard.

About Emma
I’m a 17 year old Northern European. I’m autistic, and have a special interest for cats. I’m also bad at answering vague questions (like, for example, “write stuff about yourself”), so that’s why this bio is so awkward.

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Posted by on March 30th, 2017 at 08:00 am

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Profile: Asher


You can call me… Asher

I identify as… A genderqueer/ generfluid bisexual

As far as third-person pronouns go, … I prefer ‘he’ and ‘they’, depends on the day.

I’m attracted to… biologically speaking-girls or boys- and gender-wise, it doesn’t matter to me.

When people talk about me, I want them to… focus on me as a person, not a plethora of identities.

I want people to understand… I’m not very sure of my gender identity yet, but if they can help me figure it out, I’d really appreciate it.

About Asher
I love to draw, read, listen to music and talk about fandoms, bands and LGBTQ+.

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Posted by on March 28th, 2017 at 08:00 am

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Profile: Em


You can call me… Em

I identify as… Both, I recognize that I am female biologically, but sometimes I feel like ignoring that particular physical aspect of myself.

As far as third-person pronouns go, … She would be fine, but I’m not against he at all — just as long as I’m never an “it”.

I’m attracted to… People

When people talk about me, I want them to… Talk about me in regard to my personality rather than my actual gender preference, with is both — and neither at the same time — if that makes any sense.

I want people to understand… I’m not Trans, Lesbian, Gay, or Bisexual, If I ever get comfortable with the idea of dating someone, it will be my choice what I am — nobody else’s.

About Em
19 year old college student doing a little self exploration — the kind I’ve never been able to do with my parents watching my every decision.

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Posted by on March 24th, 2017 at 08:00 am

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Profile: The Big Snuggle


You can call me… The Big Snuggle

I identify as… I go with genderqueer because I am a male who is not a man. Well, I am a man but I’m also a woman. Actually scratch that. I’m not a woman. I’m not a man. I am something that you’ll never understand. *

I feel at home in my male body but have always been supremely uncomfortable with masculinity as it was impressed upon me. I’ve found it liberating to pick and choose from masculinity and femininity in how I express myself as a gendered person. Or to put it another way, as I’ve grown into my skin, I’ve shed a lot of societal bullshit, including my anxieties around being seen as not masculine enough or too feminine, and I’m happier and more fabulous for it. This is a work in progress, and is more an attitude than a fixed state.

* (That was a Prince reference.)

As far as third-person pronouns go, … most say he/him/his, some say she/her. I don’t have a preference between those two pronouns because they are both correct.

I’m attracted to… authenticity, empathy, kindness, humor, good boundaries, good communication, women, men, androgyny, queers queers queers. If I feel safe being vulnerable with you, my heart is yours and I’m gonna rock your world.

When people talk about me, I want them to… feel happy.

About The Big Snuggle
Love. I want them to understand that it doesn’t matter whether sexuality and gender are a “choice” or not. We are each on our own path, we haven’t lived in each others’ bodies, and life is a limited engagement. We should trust that each person is a beautiful, wise, neurotic, autonomous creature and we should strive to lift each other (and ourselves) up in our quests to survive, find meaning and experience joy. That’s love.

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Posted by on March 20th, 2017 at 08:00 am

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Profile: KC


You can call me… KC

I identify as… A demisexual genderfluid teen who’s trying their best to have fun while being a good kid.

As far as third-person pronouns go, … Use whatever you’d like. I won’t be terribly upset if you use the wrong pronouns on certain days and with this being the internet you don’t know if I’m having a more female or male day anyways.

I’m attracted to… No one unless I connect with you on an emotional and/or intellectual level. And fictional characters.

When people talk about me, I want them to… Like me and to want to be my friend on this epic journey we call life.

I want people to understand… That life is hard. It’s difficult for everyone and honestly I’m just thankful to be alive.

About KC
I never really know what to say in these. I’m almost legally an adult which I suppose is nice. I surprisingly don’t use tumbler, though lord knows I’d fit in there. I like to consider myself to be open minded, but I’m certain that I’m empty headed. Though I don’t know much about the LGBTQ+ community I am willing and excited to learn! Thank you for reading my bio. If you’d like to ask any qauestions or learn more, feel free to contact me.
-KC

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Posted by on March 18th, 2017 at 08:00 am

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Profile: Kai


You can call me… Kai

I identify as… nonbinary genderfluid, i think,

As far as third-person pronouns go, … any pronouns are good, they/she/he mostly

I’m attracted to… kind people, dimples, wonderful voices, sharp senses of humour, someone who’s comfortable around me!!!

When people talk about me, I want them to… smile

I want people to understand… that it’s okay not to be certain of everything

About Kai

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Posted by on March 16th, 2017 at 08:00 am

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Profile: Arion


You can call me… Arion

I identify as… Feminine trans man

As far as third-person pronouns go, … He/Him please

I’m attracted to… Smiles, health, wit, intelligence, validation and warmth. Generally men and NB folk, but I do admire the beauty of women(goddesses honestly). But mostly, I am attracted to bright, beautiful souls that I can admire, try to understand, and interact with.

When people talk about me, I want them to… Have only kind words, and if unkind ones need to be shared, at least come away from the conversation feeling lighter.

I want people to understand… Just because I am not a masculine man, does not mean I am any less of a man. I am not a girl who likes pink and flowers and bunnies, I am a boy who likes pink and flowers and bunnies. I don’t need to be masculine to still be valid.

About Arion
Hi! I’m Arion, and I’m a pretty cool dude (j/k I’m a loser). I’m an amateur artist, writer, and philosopher. My hobbies include doodling instead of working, spending hours on end considering what the infiniteness of the universe might mean to humanity, and trying to understand simple yet extremely complicated mathematical concepts. Always here for a giggle or a challenge of the mind.

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Posted by on March 14th, 2017 at 08:00 am

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