Profile: Caelan


You can call me… Caelan, Cael for short

I identify as… A boy, though occasionally feel a little agender

As far as third-person pronouns go, … He/him, unless my parents are in the room. Then it’s she/her.

I’m attracted to… Really nice and weird pretty people, for their personality. I don’t judge people based on their looks.

But I could stare at men with long hair all day.

When people talk about me, I want them to… USE THE RIGHT PRONOUNS and also recognise that despite my faults, I am a unique and brilliant person

I want people to understand… Even though there might not have been genderqueer people when they were growing up (there were, actually, they just didn’t tell people) there are now, it’s not a phase, and we’re here to stay. You can live in the past, or you can accept it.

About Caelan, Cael for short

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Posted by on April 4th, 2016 at 10:00 am

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Profile: Carson


You can call me… Carson or Phoenix

I identify as… afab genderfluid/agender demisexual panromantic

As far as third-person pronouns go, … I am transitioning to they/them pronouns, so use of those would be wonderful :)

I’m attracted to… humans that I have some deep connection with
intelligence, good listener, supportive, willing to accept me and be who they are

When people talk about me, I want them to… recognize the absence of a gender binary, and not focus on trying to put me under a label. Be nice to me behind my back and to my friends, and I will pay you the same respect.

I want people to understand… that I am in a transition. I am still coming out, and if you make a mistake with pronouns, that is okay. I will correct you gently, and hope you are doing your best to remember.

About Carson or Phoenix
find me on tumblr under my URL mylifeinshadesofsilver!

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Posted by on April 3rd, 2016 at 10:00 am

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Profile: Anastasia


You can call me… Anastasia

I identify as… a transgender female

As far as third-person pronouns go, … please use the female ones when you describe me

I’m attracted to… Men, women, and transgender women.

When people talk about me, I want them to… Know that I want to be a woman, and be addressed as female

I want people to understand… that being transgender is not a feeling that much after you realize that you’re trans and that when people are around transgender people, we’re not here to play you like a fiddle

About Anastasia
Grew up as a small town boy, I was 5 when I first wondered what it was like to be a girl. I grew up questioning this. I always played with my sisters barbie dolls when I was younger as well, and at the age of 11 I had my first experience with another boy who was 14. I was a partner with this boy for 9 months before I left. I lived with my grandparents for a year and a half in junior high, finally realizing I was transgender after questioning myself so many times and praying. I had known about my true gender on the inside. So I kept this inside for nearly 3 more years. I finally realized later on in high school that I was bisexual. At this stage I had started watching transgender YouTubers like Elena Genevinne, Angela Vanity, and PrincessJoules. I had finally came out to my mom about my sexuality at the age of 14 and then later came out as transgender nearly 3 months later. I had admitted to myself that I was transgender and because of this I had been open about this to my mother as well. I am currently 17 and nothing new has happened since then. Other than trying to grow my hair out and cope with the level of stress for being transgender. My life is here at home and trying to transition is probably the hardest things in the world for me. Since I will have a lot of back lash from my distant family and friends.

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Posted by on April 2nd, 2016 at 10:00 am

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Profile: Joel


You can call me… Joel

I identify as… Gender-Fluid

As far as third-person pronouns go, … Call me what you want. I personally don’t care about pronouns, and dont want to ask people in my life to adjust how they see me more than needed. Although, to put a bit of variaty in what I am referred to, he/him and they/them is Greatly appreciated.

I’m attracted to… I’m pansexual soooo….
I am also 14 and not exactly looking for anything sooo….

When people talk about me, I want them to… Not be a dick

I want people to understand… The question of “oh. What pronouns do you prefer?” Makes me REALLY uncomfortable because as I have already stated, I don’t want to make people put effort into how they see me. Also it would be great if the kids at school seem to catch on a LITTLE bit more to how… not excluded, but not included I feel. I just moved from the Rocky Mountains to the East Coast and the transition has been tough. Tough, not Tuff. And certainly not Cool. (Sorry PonyBoy). Especially that girl Maddie who always seems to be pissed at me for NO reason.

About Joel
I am a DANCER!
I love Books.
Movies are OK
I also draw
I’m not too bad at writing
I am a beautiful mixture of childlike and mature
I am 5 foot 7 (maybe 8?) Inches tall.
(Yes. The weather up here is FABULOUS. And yes, heals make me feel powerful and I can practically touch an airplane when I wear them. Also, YES. IT ANNOYS THE FLIP OUT OF ME WHEN YOU MENTION MY HIGHT. SO STOP BRINGING IT UP. WE’VE TALKED ABOUT IT. AND NOW WE ARE DONE.)
I just started High school and it still blows my mind that I’ve gotten this far
I plan to travel the country after graduation with my bestest friends.

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Posted by on April 1st, 2016 at 10:00 am

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Profile: Noel


You can call me… Noel

I identify as… AFAB Non binary- part female part a gender

As far as third-person pronouns go, … Per/pers/perself

I’m attracted to… I’m a polysexual, I’m attracted to non binary people especially those who are more neutral or feminine as well as females. Im engaged and it’s awesome. I love my future spouse, we have been together for 3 and a half years and our wedding is set for June. Ey is a-gender and eirs is the best.

When people talk about me, I want them to… Respect my gender, sexuality and pronouns! And my relationship!

I want people to understand… I am a valid human being.

About Noel
I’m 22, I am a big Doctor Who fan, basically I am a giant science fiction loving nerd who is an electrical engineering major. I’m graduating college this month(a semester late) and I all ready have a job waiting. My future spouse is getting eirs Master’s in Social Work and works at a crisis hotline. Oh and we have a cat named Saga.

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Posted by on March 31st, 2016 at 10:00 am

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Profile: Roman


You can call me… Roman

I identify as… a girl, a Marxist, a lesbian, a synesthete, a transgender advocate, an emo kid, a minimalist, a radicalist, kind of mean, relatively progressive, very cool

As far as third-person pronouns go, … feminine pronouns for 2016. in 30 years, I’ll go by the pronouns that we’ve decided to make universal

I’m attracted to… pretty people of any sort of pretty

When people talk about me, I want them to… smile

I want people to understand… you don’t know whats up. you don’t know if someone is gender dysphoric. you also don’t know if the person you just snapped at for misgendering you has a valid reason for having done it. and cuz you don’t know what’s up, do you. make your change. don’t stall. people will believe what you sell them, and if you want to sell a certain thing, you gotta sell it and not expect it to be snapped off the shelves just cuz you want it to be <3

About Roman
19 year old FtMtXtF transgender and FtX transsexual kid, with now only occasional dysphoria thats always crippling and always beatable. i’m affectionately mean when i like people, and since I’m affectionately mean to myself, i’ve figured out that i can do this thing because i *can* not because i need to. <3

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Posted by on March 30th, 2016 at 10:00 am

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Deer/Queer


Reposted from glitter.queers, on Instagram.

“thiS IS TOO CUTE ”

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Profile: Becki


You can call me… Becki

I identify as… Genderqueer Pan-Demi Romantic Hippie

As far as third-person pronouns go, … Feel free to use what you want, doesn’t bother me at all

I’m attracted to… big dreamers, those who can dream deeper then me,

anyone taller than me or anyone that can talk for hours and cuddle X3
I tend love anyone who is outside the gender binary like me but tbh im not fussy, IF YOU LOVE THE BEATLES, MARKIPLIER, ANY TYPE OF RETRO 60s SHIZZ, I WUVS YUU!!

When people talk about me, I want them to… know that I am indeed genderqueer and I am a full on extrovert so im very clingy and need attention, being lonely is a deep fear of mine and I tend to break down from loneliness

I want people to understand… that even the happiest of people can be the most miserable, just because people are open and happy on the outside, doesn’t mean deep down inside, they are not sad, lonely and broken hearted

About Becki
First off, I come from New Zealand, I am a very Artsy person, I am a Cinephile (Movie Lover, don’t take the word in the wrong way XD) and dream to be a Film Director and Musician when I am older, I love to make new friends and love to make best friends, I am a big big dreamer and hope to find dreamers like me….im also cuddly too X3

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Posted by on March 29th, 2016 at 10:00 am

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Profile: Sam


You can call me… Sam

I identify as… A genderqueer transguy

As far as third-person pronouns go, … I prefer he/him/his

I’m attracted to… All genders/expressions with a slight preference for femininity

When people talk about me, I want them to… respect my pronouns

I want people to understand… that I’m happy with who I am, and as long as people respect that I’m fine with them making occasional mistakes.

About Sam

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Posted by on March 28th, 2016 at 08:00 am

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Wheat Paste Art


Reposted from The Identity Project.

“Wheat Paste Art Project by Nathan (a sophomore in Gender and Women’s Studies and minoring in Social Justice) at The University of Minnesota that was done to fulfill a requirement in a class that would bring focus to queer identities that are marginalized by the mainstream gay movement. These posters were put up around campus for his final project. ”

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Posted by on March 27th, 2016 at 10:00 am

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In Other News


@shelbytwest wrote…

In other news: people still stare at me like I’m anomaly. Or simply fabulous. #noAutographsPlz #genderQueer

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Profile: Verde


You can call me… Verde

I identify as… polysexual demigenderfluid (partially female, partially fluid) person.

As far as third-person pronouns go, … I prefer ‘they’ but I am able go with ‘she’ as well.

I’m attracted to… many genders. I don’t know all of my limits yet.

When people talk about me, I want them to… be open about themselves, be honest and show respect to who I am and how I identify. I want people to stop being heteronormative and stop assuming I am cis just because I look like a female. I look like myself and that is demigenderfluid.

I want people to understand… that I, my identity, my body and my opinions are valid and that my looks don’t show who I am as a person and what I’ve gone through. Even though you can’t see scars in my body from the outside, that doesn’t mean there aren’t scars on the inside.

About Verde
I’m almost 16 y/o artist and a cat owner. I like to write poems, compose music and spread social justice. I also worship marvel and disney movies.

I’m currently still working with my identity. I’m quite sure of it but I always find something to process about it and ugh it’s hard. I’m unable to cry in public and probably am depressed. I’m also suffering from anorexia but no-one knows and most likely won’t know anytime soon because I’m still overweight.

You can find me on tumblr with the URL “heatherverde” so if you want to talk or rant: my ask / messages are always open.

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Posted by on March 26th, 2016 at 08:00 am

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Profile: Chris


You can call me… Chris

I identify as… agender. I don’t feel like being any gender at all. I am AMAB and appear male, simply because I don’t really care much about my appearance (yeah, grew a beard) and just like to be myself.

As far as third-person pronouns go, … They/them however I don’t take offense with “he/him” or “she/her” really. The latter is however diminishingly rare.

I’m attracted to… people regardless of gender, however I prefer feminine men, crossdressing men, masculine females and agender people the most. Other non-binary people are okay. Just regular drag queens and drag kings as well as people how care too much about their own appearance are turn offs. I am mostly attracted to interesting and uncomplicated personalities. I only move on a romantic spectrum as I am otherwise asexual.

When people talk about me, I want them to… be respectful of me as I am respectful of them. Don’t put my personal preferences (romantic) in the foreground.

I want people to understand… that sex is not important to me at all. That I am annoyed when people have expectations of how men or women are supposed to be.

About Chris
I am 25, unemployed, panromantic, asexual, agender and have HFA (high functioning autism). I am personally interested in epistemology and psychology. Many people say that I am a friendly person, even though I assume that they talk too good of me.

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Posted by on March 25th, 2016 at 08:00 am

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Break the Binary


Reposted from ca_queer on Instagram.

“I can’t wait for this shirt! @selfmadecollective has these and many more! ”

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Posted by on March 24th, 2016 at 10:00 am

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A Womb of their Own



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Posted by on March 24th, 2016 at 08:00 am

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You Know


Reposted from lgbtgivesmehope.

“[Image shows various LGBTQ* flags with a hand pointing forward and the text, ‘YOU know who you are, not society.’]

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Posted by on March 23rd, 2016 at 10:00 am

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One of Those Days


sheena_bandy wrote…

It’s one of those days where I feel like I shouldn’t have my femme body but I also want to wear a fancy dress #genderfluid #resultsmayvary

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And what are you thinking about gender right now?


Posted by on March 23rd, 2016 at 08:00 am

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Something New


Reposted from Girls in the Men’s Room.

“Tried something new”

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Posted by on March 21st, 2016 at 10:00 am

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Yourself


Someone wrote…

Sometimes the most dangerous thing in the world is being yourself.

What’s your experience?

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Posted by on March 21st, 2016 at 08:00 am

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Woods


Reposted from notsobadboi_official, on Instagram.

“Keep walking!!
#andro #androgynous #androgyne”

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Posted by on March 20th, 2016 at 10:00 am

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