waffle scouts, originally uploaded by hainspoint.

Why not see what happens past the next gender role?

You can call me… Yulan.

I identify as… genderqueer, but I identify as lesbian to make things easier for people. Jamaican trying to interpret life and, above all, a Human being with feelings.

As far as third-person pronouns go, … teachers usually call me she/her, but my Spanish teacher called me senor on several occasions and it made my day, also small children tend to mistake me for a boy. I find it cute. But as far as pronouns go, it doesn’t matter but a male pronoun tends to cheer me up.

I’m attracted to… artistic girls who look like they could be a boy. Genderqueer/fluid peeps. Honesty, laughs and joy all around. Hip Hip Hoorayyy!

When people talk about me, I want them to… realize I am who I am and say “my oh my wasn’t that just fabulous?”

I want people to understand… that life isn’t black or white and neither is gender. So buckle up kids!

About Yulan
I’m a junior going to school in New York. I’m an immigrant with a Jamaican accent that people still mistake for British/Irish or on the rare occasion German. I WILL attend SVA and major in Graphic Design and most of all I’ll be happy doing it. Oh, and I have a tumblr!

» Define yourself. «

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Someone wrote…

I still wear my hair long, and shave my legs, and don’t wear men’s underwear with my male clothing, but that doesn’t mean I’m any less of a guy inside. In fact, if people were more accepting, those things would change and I could make my outside match my inside better.

What’s your experience?

And what are you thinking about gender right now?

Tights as pants, originally uploaded by dougaa.

very smart, originally uploaded by unexpectedtales.

A reader recommends…

Written in 1966, this song was intended to be about a time in the future when parents can choose their children’s gender and a family chooses to have four girls, but end up with three girls and a boy, so they decide to pretend the fourth child is female.

However, I find it could just as easily be a song being told from the point of view of someone expected to act female, but longs to be male.

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Cydne asks…

I’m so afraid that if I become myself, the people I find attractive will not find me attractive. I wish everyone was pansexual, then my gender niche would be acceptable. How do I get the courage to change my body to be how I want it?

Please post your response in the comments below.

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.woran man glaubt ist was man bekommt und zum glueck gibts die taeuschung, originally uploaded by Herr Benini.

Someone wrote…

Why either/or? Why not both or neither?

What’s your experience?

And what are you thinking about gender right now?

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You can call me… Rae

I identify as… Genderqueer butch boi

As far as third-person pronouns go, … anything that shows a combo of male/female instead of strictly in one realm or the other.

I’m attracted to… queer femmes and MTFs—basically I really like girly-girls; intelligence, a good sense of humor, a laid back attitude, and a love of animals, books, and the arts.

When people talk about me, I want them to… understand and respect my gender identity and not try to put me in a box with other women just because I’m a bio female, that really pisses me off.

I want people to understand… that I’m open enough to talk to people if they have questions and not to assume shit about me instead of asking outright.

About Rae
I’m a 23-year-old college grad with a bachelors in Psychology. I’ve been partnered to a wonderful queer femme for the past 3.5 years, and we live together in our tiny little apartment with our two cats.
Three years ago, my mother disowned me for being a ‘freak’ and kicked me out of her house. I lived with my in-laws until we got our own place. I’m done with the tears and the sympathy—if you don’t accept me, then I don’t need you in my life, period. I can choose my own family.

» Define yourself. «

a little bit dapper details, originally uploaded by Le Silly.

Someone wrote…

I’m sick of being told “You’re not a guy yet,” when I was never a girl to start with.

What’s your experience?

And what are you thinking about gender right now?

estudio(s), originally uploaded by andrealamisma.

Content, originally uploaded by his name is colin.

recommends…

A great poem by Ivan Coyote about why femmes of all genders are appreciated.

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You can call me… Victoria, V, Toria, whatever you’d like.

I identify as… Pansexual. Genderqueer. Gender fucker. Sometimes dyke. Mosty myself.

As far as third-person pronouns go, … I like my name. No need for pronouns, please.

I’m attracted to… Sense of humor. Androgyny. Good grammar. Everything. Usually female bodies and gay men.

When people talk about me, I want them to… know I can hear every word they say.

I want people to understand… that the idea of binary gender is strictly for government use only.

» Define yourself. «

, originally uploaded by Carol Stiler.