I identify as… I’m not exactly sure… I’m used to being referred to as a girl, but I’m beginning to question that. So, nonbinary???
As far as third-person pronouns go, … I don’t really have a preference. Choose whatever you perceive me as at the time.
I’m attracted to… Girls and more feminine features. I love huge nerds.
When people talk about me, I want them to… See me without my gender getting in the way. My gender doesn’t define me, I am more than that.
I want people to understand… That I’m still figuring myself out. I’m experimenting and trying to learn more about myself. I’m not doing this for attention, I just want to feel comfortable with myself.
About Nick, Nicky, Nicole
I’m 16 years old. When I was a young kid I would play Pokémon a lot. I would choose to be a boy half of the time because I liked how it felt to be perceived that way. Sometimes I feel more like a girl, sometimes I feel more like a boy, and sometimes I’d rather be neither. I’m so thankful for my lgbt+ friends who taught me it’s okay to be yourself.
As far as third-person pronouns go, … I go by They/Them/theirs pronouns
I’m attracted to… I’m pansexual
When people talk about me, I want them to… Be respectful of my pronouns and if someone slipped I’d like it if they caught themselves and just gently corrected themselves and continued like nothing happened.
I want people to understand… I’m just a rad little artist trying to help people out sometimes :3
About Joey or Joseph
Hello! I’m a pansexual, non-binary artist. I love cats and sleeping, I’m a very open and accepting person and love to help out people, I’m also 16.
As far as third-person pronouns go, … I use she/her/hers but am often contemplate how I feel about they/them/theirs or ze/zir/zirs.
I’m attracted to… queer people of all genders, strong feminine people and sensitive masculine people.
When people talk about me, I want them to… know that small assumptions about me aren’t stereotyping; I dress the way I do in order to send a specific message.
I want people to understand… that it is dangerous to assume people fit into your assumed norms until they prove otherwise.
About Taryn.
Just trying to get Instagram famous like every other fashionable queer.
As far as third-person pronouns go, … Either works :)
He/him
They/them
I’m attracted to… Mainly males, but females too
When people talk about me, I want them to… Restrain from being to critical. It’s not like I can’t handle criticism, gender is just a sensitive topic for me right now and I would much rather have only positivity around me currently.
I want people to understand… I’m still a bit confused with my gender right now, but after years of dealing with dysphoria I’m going to identify as male online.
You can call me… Skyler is good, or Ash, its a cool nickname, right?
I identify as… Gender- idk right now, but I’m pansexual
As far as third-person pronouns go, … She or They
I’m attracted to… Honesty, being accepting and not a judgmental jerk…pretty eyes and a sense of humor and adventure
When people talk about me, I want them to… Be kind, but real, don’t lie to me, please? I just want to know if you’re okay.
I want people to understand… That I’m human, and words do hurt. So.. Just be careful
About Skyler, or Ash
I like to cosplay, watch anime and Marvel movies. Reading and drawing are fun too, and my best friend means they world to me; Hey Katie;Kyle
I identify as… Trans Femme/Agender/Genderqueer and polyromantic or queeer
As far as third-person pronouns go, … I prefer “they” and “them”
I’m attracted to… Cis men who have shed their toxic masculinity, feminine men, trans men, non-binary femme/agender
When people talk about me, I want them to… Focus on the total package, and no not THAT package the real me in totality
I want people to understand… I’m not offended by mistakes that are dealt with nicely. I love open ended questions and revealing the real me.
About Jeri
I have chronicled my gender journey through various posts on my blog. This link lists them in chronological order from my decision to call myself Agender through my coming out as Trans Femme/Agender to all my Facebook friends, Here’s the list of posts about me:
https://jerbearinsantafe.wordpress.com/2017/04/15/my-gender-journey-posts-in-chronological-order/
As far as third-person pronouns go, … She/her is fine. My gender expression has been mostly female, for the sake of keeping my job and not confusing the hell out of people. It doesn’t feel right about a third of the time. Maybe one day I will be brave enough to demand neutral pronouns.
I’m attracted to… Kind, thoughtful, beautiful souls. It doesn’t matter what parts they have on the outside.
When people talk about me, I want them to… Stop qualifying my achievements, behavior, or aspirations within their perceived gender limitations. Don’t tell me I am doing great for a “woman.” That’s offensive and wrong. I am doing alright for a human being.
I want people to understand… I can’t relate to the cis female experience, anymore than I can relate to the cis male experience. I’ve never been just one or the other. I am both and neither.
About Ormi Fay
A 31-year old who started their career in art and graphic design, only to gravitate years later to talent management. Because the most important part of any business is its people. Still loves art, music, tattoos and all manner of self-expression. Hopes to one day see a world free of gender bias.
When people talk about me, I want them to… Acknowledge the fact that I’m not a girl but more importantly know that being trans isn’t who I am. I am Alyssa who just so happens to be trans. Just like I just so happen to have a size 8 1/2 shoe.
I want people to understand… I’m forgiving and won’t get mad if misgender me as long as you know you made a mistake. Also that being trans is not the only thing about me.
About Alyssa
I’m Alyssa. I’m 15 years old and I’m currently a Freshman living in Southern California. I’m starting to write blogs about transitioning and also might have a patreon soon. :)
I identify as… Genderfluid, Genderqueer, Nonbinary…
As far as third-person pronouns go, … She is fine because I can’t be bothered to correct others every five minutes… But They/Them is fine too, It, Ze, pretty much whatever.
I’m attracted to… Kindness, loyalty, humor, dark, goofy, or otherwise. I am attracted to people who understand, people who see beyond the facade of a face and body. That sounds weird but whatever, I like personality, not body…
When people talk about me, I want them to… Talk from a good place, a kind place, with love or affection.
I want people to understand… That I don’t really know anything and I’m still confused and searching and sometimes it’s hurtful, but sometimes it’s exciting.
About Ty
Life is difficult and I write to sort through my own crazy thoughts.
I’m still super confused about myself and what I’m feeling and who I am and that’s okay.
Giant nerd.
I identify as… gender curious/queer. Closet cross-dresser
As far as third-person pronouns go, … any of them at this point, although she/her sound good
I’m attracted to… female, femme, androgynous
When people talk about me, I want them to… my gender doesn’t change my personality
I want people to understand… that I’m just as confused as they may be
About Becca
Father of one, married. My wife if aware of my “proclivities.” She is understanding to a point, but I’m not allowed to dress in public.
I tried on my mother’s clothes when I was a child. One time when I was 11 I let a girl put makeup on me and it felt really good to feel pretty. I’m not brave enough to come out right now and I don’t know if I would go through trans surgery but it’s good to know I’m not alone.
I identify as… erm…well, I’m really unsure about my gender. I mean, I was born male but I have never really felt that much of ‘connection’ with this definition. I had never asked myself if being ‘male’ for me was right because I didn’t really care since me was me and not the gender assigned to me. Then, not too long ago, I started wondering again about my gender and I honestly don’t know how to define myself because I think I’m agender but I also have difficulties to completely abandon the current definition I have of myself because I’ve never felt a very gender dysphoria. (ps: I also tried to define myself as a demiboy but I don’t think this gender totally represents me -I don’t know how to explain it lol-). Pratically I think I’m agender but maybe I’m not yet ready to totally accept this?
As far as third-person pronouns go, … I don’t have a real preference, maybe because in Italian (my native language) we haven’t pronouns to define ourselves in other ways than male or female. However, if I had to choose, I would prefer ‘he/him’, ‘they/them’ or ‘ne/nem’ (I’m not even sure about my gender but I probably would prefer one of these pronouns if i would recognize myself as agender).
I’m attracted to… men. I’ve also made coming out with some of my class mates and my best friend. (Actually I’m wondering even about my sexual orientation, but the explanation would be too long lol)
When people talk about me, I want them to… know that even if I seem all happy and smiling and even a little stupid (basically all the people I know think I’m stupid lol) I have emotions too. Even if they believe I’m kinda indifferent to others’ opionions, this isn’t true (just the opposite lol. To my misfortune, I use to care a lot -maybe too much- about others’ opinions about me)
I want people to understand… that gender (like sexuality) isn’t just made of two choices (male/female or straight/gay). We have plenty of them, we only have to find ‘right one’ for us.
About Lorenzo
I’m 15, I’m Italian and I’m UGLY (and I know it lol). I’ve watched a lot of TV series and Anime and I’ve also read a lot of manga and books. My favourite genres are:
books: Fantasy, Romance and also Literature
TV series: Action, Comedy, Fantasy, Supernatural and even Romance
Anime: Basically every genre, maybe Action and Comedy (?)
Manga: Yaoi (*COFF COFF* YAOI IS LIFE *COFF COFF*), Shounen and Seinen.
As far as third-person pronouns go, … At this point in time, I´m fine with they/them/their pronouns OR she/her.
I’m attracted to… People regardless of their gender identity. :)
When people talk about me, I want them to…
I want people to understand…
About Emerson or Em
Hi everyone! My name is Emerson (actually, my real name is Emily, but I´m gonna go by Emerson or Em because those are gender neutral names:) I love Harry Potter, Pentatonix, and I’m obsessed with Dove Cameron.
As far as third-person pronouns go, … he/him or they/them. i like he/him most.
I’m attracted to… i’m grey-asexual / kinda demisexual and panromantic.
When people talk about me, I want them to… use masculine honorifics like ‘sir’, ‘man’, ‘mister’ etc instead of neutral terms. mr. / mx. are interchangeable, but i don’t like datefriend, sibling, child, etc for me… i want my parents to call me ‘son’, i want my brother to call me ‘brother’, and i want my s/o to call me their ‘boyfriend’.
I want people to understand… – rule 63 fanworks and cis-swapping is disgustingly cissexist and transphobic and it’s so violently invalidating so keep it away from me…
– i define agender for myself to mean ‘gender neutral’ like neutrois, not me lacking a gender
– i’m from iowa and i go to school for cinema!
– i’m autistic and i have bpd
– i’m a virgo sun, cancer moon, libra rising
About Adrian
hi, i’m adrian, i’m nineteen at the moment, i sometimes go by my middle name, james, or my pseudonym, virgoe bex. i’m a cinema student and an aspiring screenwriter and director.
Additionally, in the description, the vlogger adds: “…although I don’t identify as Trans in the conventional sense, in an interview context I would because it’s a more commonly known term that most understand, rather than getting into a debate about what is gender queer.”
You can call me… An Agender Potato. Just kidding, let’s do Sam.
I identify as… In case you couldn’t tell, an ADHD-cursed agender couch potato who likes to roll itself with a blanket on the floor so it becomes a burrito. Or a strange nerd who is weird and apparently smart and funny (I couldn’t tell if they were joking) and always sarcastic.
As far as third-person pronouns go, … I prefer ‘it’, but because my parents don’t know about me coming out, I’ve just stuck with ‘she/her’ (congrats, you now know I have a vagina .-. )
But honestly, I don’t want to risk the bullying so I’m just hiding in my closet with a bag of chips.
I’m attracted to… I love anyone who is near-ish my height (5′ 7″) and who has a nice personality. Must be humorous. I also love pretty eyes! <3
When people talk about me, I want them to… say nice things! ;-;
And maybe actually care about me since most people only use me for help with math. And remember my gender but don’t treat me oddly.
I want people to understand… I’M HUMAN! And just because I’m pansexual does not mean I have a crush on you (facepalm). Also, just because I call you a friend doesn’t mean I don’t secretly have a crush on you (wink!). Lastly, I’m me. If you don’t like it, fuck you.
About An Agender Potato. Just kidding, let’s do Sam.
IMMA POTAYTO! (misspelling on purpose there, folks!)
Okay I don’t actually like potatoes but y’know, sometimes you need something quirky to use to make you sound as weird as you are. I’m more of a celery person ;)
And I’m kinda ugly but I think I make up for it inside. Hence the lack of ID picture XP
