You can call me… Phoenix

I identify as… An androgynous agender punk

As far as third-person pronouns go, … They/them are preferable, but he/him are okay as well

I’m attracted to… Androgynous or masculine women, genderqueer people, honestly if you’re a genuine person who speaks from the heart you’ve probably got a chance.

When people talk about me, I want them to… Focus on who I am as a person rather than my gender. I get that it’s a lot to take in for some people, but it’s important to respect others for who they are. If I do something truly shitty, judge me for that rather than how I present myself and what I am.

I want people to understand… Just because I have a biologically male anatomy and am happy with said anatomy doesn’t mean I’m a guy. And just because I’m not a guy doesn’t mean I’m therefore a girl. Honestly, the world would be a better place if we threw out the ideas of “male” and “female”. They’re outdated societal means of shoving people into boxes to control them (and honestly, most people don’t completely fit into these boxes).

About Phoenix

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You can call me… (some feminine name not yet decided….)

I identify as… Trans, transgender, genderqueer, two-spirited, male to female

As far as third-person pronouns go, … Not so concerned now (called “he” etc.) but I’m pretty much in the closet, though self aware if still questioning.

I’m attracted to… Women and men and genderqueer people. Fem men, masculine men, butch women, femme women.

When people talk about me, I want them to… Accept me as I am. See me as beautiful, inside and outside.

I want people to understand… That I didn’t choose this. I struggle. And that I can be beautiful– I want people to understand this– and I want myself to understand this. I want all of the spectrum to be accepted and acceptable.

About (some feminine name not yet decided….)
In my late 40s but realized I was “different” in my 20s. I’m Native American and try to find the place for alternative ways of being, including “two spirited” in my culture(s).

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You can call me… RJ

I identify as… (Still finding my way through this and im not sure about labels.. but I feel close to) genderqueer/genderfluid

As far as third-person pronouns go, … I usually go with what people are comfortable with…she/her which is fine but using they/them …would probably make me weep with joy… XD

I’m attracted to… The little things, when people show kindness and thoughtfulness when my friends play with or braid my hair or when we paint each others nails or do each others make up, the way people can weave words into stories that strike the hearts of many as well as art can. People that understand and are patient with me. Flirting, compliments loyalty and trust xD.

When people talk about me, I want them to… Be careful when criticizing me …I am sensitive and my brain likes to remind me of negative comments..I rarely get mad..I just hurt for a time being and hopefully forget later on.

I want people to understand… That I would love to communicate with like minded people on various things…possibly being friends?

About RJ
Im a 20 year old socially awkward human who enjoys drawing, writing, reading, cosplay, video games, Youtube, movies, TV shows, comics and so on

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