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Profile: Max


You can call me… Max

I identify as… Trans non binary

As far as third-person pronouns go, … They/them

I’m attracted to… Personality. I don’t care about gender, I’m pansexual

When people talk about me, I want them to… Be honest but respectful :)

I want people to understand… I’m still quite confused about my gender and I’m a mess but I try my best to be a good person

About Max
So I’m Max, i was born female but I’ve never identified as this gender and I’ve been trying to feel good about myself for quite a long time. I did my coming out a few weeks ago to my close friends and my sisters but i can’t figure out how to tell it to my parents so… Yeah. I’m French and 16 yo

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Posted by on May 22nd, 2017 at 10:00 am

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Profile: KC


You can call me… KC

I identify as… Bigender. I feel some mix of male and female with an increasingly more feminine gender expression. And if not feminine, than atleast more neutral.

As far as third-person pronouns go, … They/them though she/her doesn’t hurt when I’m looking super cute and feminine!

I’m attracted to… I’m androsexual so men and more masculine beings. I had originally came out as gay. I’m attracted to nerds, geeks, gamers, and Potterheads. To people who will talk for hours. To people who see me for me. I currently have an incredible boyfriend and we have been dating for almost a year. He is amazing and is about to graduate with a master’s degree!

When people talk about me, I want them to… Use my name and pronouns. Not focus on my gender

I want people to understand… Bigender is real. I’m not imaging something, I’m not stuck or confused. I’m not a woman because I wear make up. I’m not a man because my chromosomes are XY. I’m being my authentic self.

About KC

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Posted by on May 21st, 2017 at 08:00 am

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Profile: Sam


You can call me… Sam

I identify as… Genderfluid.

As far as third-person pronouns go, … They/them is best.

I’m attracted to… Still questioning for the most part, but as it stands I think I’m pansexual. So, everyone.

When people talk about me, I want them to… Refer to me as a “person”, not a “girl”. If gender is actually brought up that is, though I’d prefer it only be mentioned if someone asks.

I want people to understand… That just because I have a long ponytail doesn’t necessarily mean “that’s a 100% girl 100% of the time”.

About Sam

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Posted by on May 20th, 2017 at 10:00 am

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Profile: J


You can call me… J

I identify as… AMAB non-binary

As far as third-person pronouns go, … He/Him, They/Them

I’m attracted to… Open-minded, Kind, Quirky folks who’re into doing their own thing

When people talk about me, I want them to… Try not to assume too much about me. Just ask.

I want people to understand… Gender is a social construct. Some of us are building our own structures.

And that’s OK.

About J
Mid-40s mostly-dude. Paints nails, colours hair & beard, writes heavy metal music, into needle-felting cute critters.

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Posted by on May 18th, 2017 at 10:00 am

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Profile: Craig


You can call me… Craig

I identify as… a trans female to male boy

As far as third-person pronouns go, … him, he, his

I’m attracted to… both guys and girls but i’m more on the guys side

When people talk about me, I want them to… use Craig for my name and use the right pronouns

I want people to understand… that it is alright to be yourself and don’t be afraid to stand up for who you are

About Craig
born to two happy parents who named me Samantha i’ve never felt in place, i’ve always felt like i didnt belong to my born to gender and i new this all my life but when i turned 12 i started thinking more about it i came out to my group of friends who had already came out, they were all very accepting i am now 13 (as of 2016) and just recently told my parents and they also accept me but i do have trouble at school with certain classmates but overall it is ok

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Posted by on May 17th, 2017 at 08:00 am

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Profile: Dyl (Dylan)


You can call me… Dyl (Dylan)

I identify as… Agender, genderqueer and queer in general

As far as third-person pronouns go, … They/them (preferably) but sometimes she/her

I’m attracted to… Women and feminine guys. if they know what they want, if they try to reach their goals, are adventurous and think every dream is a blueprint for a new adventure.

When people talk about me, I want them to… See me as just me, as another human being right next to them.

I want people to understand… I am me and I’m fine with people wondering why I am myself and questioning what happened to the person everyone thought they knew.

About Dyl (Dylan)
I am just a funny person who loves puns more than the sun keeps humans alive on earth. I can be serious when needed and will help people out if I feel like they need it.

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Posted by on May 16th, 2017 at 10:00 am

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Profile: Andrew


You can call me… Andrew (Drew or Andy work fine, too)

I identify as… A femme Abrosexual Transgender boy.

As far as third-person pronouns go, … I prefer he/him/his but anything other than she/her/hers is ok!

I’m attracted to… All genders, none, one, or multiple…depending on the day.

When people talk about me, I want them to… Talk about me as a man. Not a “Transgender” man. Just a man. Like any other.

I want people to understand… Boys can like My Little Pony and dress up games, girls can like sports and Power Rangers. These things aren’t set in stone.

About Andrew (Drew or Andy work fine, too)
My name is Andrew (Drew or Andy work fine, too) and I’m an Abrosexual Transgender Atheist. I like My Little Pony, Jem & the Holograms, Batman, Undertale, Welcome To Night Vale, and pugs!

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Posted by on May 15th, 2017 at 08:00 am

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Profile: JuJu


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You can call me… JuJu

I identify as… a queer witch bitch. But with the official terms and labels: BDSM-loving female-bodied genderqueer lidioist asexual. (Witch meaning I follow the Wiccan path :))

As far as third-person pronouns go, … anything is fine by me. I personally like they/them, but she/her is acceptable, he/him or even it/its too.

I’m attracted to… the human soul. I do experience aesthetic, sensual and platonic attraction, but sometimes my attraction to someone is… unexplainable. Their soul just calls out to mine.

When people talk about me, I want them to… respect me. I understand some people are confused by my identity, and many have asked all sorts of questions in order to try and understand. But if you don’t know something, please don’t go on to say things that aren’t true or that you aren’t sure of.

I want people to understand… that my identity is valid. Especially my asexual orientation. I am not faking it, I am not doing this for show. This is who I am and I feel so amazing being the queer witch bitch that I am. I still fight with inner-doubt, but I’ve grown to love and accept myself. Other than that, love you all!

About JuJu
Human being, artist, activist, dreamer. I hope to change the world someday, and I am always open to meeting new friends. :)
For anyone who is interested, check out my Instagram: jujuanisko
Lots of love everyone! :D

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Posted by on May 11th, 2017 at 08:00 am

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Profile: Hayden


You can call me… Hayden

I identify as… a confused pansexual

As far as third-person pronouns go, … I would like he/they pronouns.

I’m attracted to… everyone. Hearts not Parts.

When people talk about me, I want them to… Be nice!

I want people to understand… That I am confused. And don’t know my gender. So please just be nice.

About Hayden
I am funny. Cool. Loyal. I love new friends.

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Posted by on May 8th, 2017 at 08:00 am

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Profile: Soren or Sarah


You can call me… Soren or Sarah

I identify as… an androsexual genderfluid

As far as third-person pronouns go, … Any pronouns are fine as long as they are used with kindness <3

I’m attracted to… Mostly masculine men, but I’m also attracted to masculine women and the occasional feminine man

When people talk about me, I want them to… Remember that I’m a human being just like them

I want people to understand… That nobody’s perfect and I’m not perfect so that means I’m normal like everyone else no matter what people may say

About Soren or Sarah
I want to study Computer Science. I enjoy writing and reading while I’m not in school. I’ve had my ups and downs in life like many others, and I’m always on the lookout for new friends.

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Posted by on May 4th, 2017 at 08:00 am

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Profile: Dre


You can call me… Dre

I identify as… a gay searching woman with a disability

As far as third-person pronouns go, … I use she/her/hers

I’m attracted to… Loving, unique female-bodied people

When people talk about me, I want them to… Respect my privacy

I want people to understand… Names and language are important; if I tell you how to refer to me, it’s important that you respect that.

About Dre

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Posted by on April 26th, 2017 at 08:00 am

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Profile: Paige or Arty


You can call me… Paige or Arty

I identify as… Non-binary/Agender

As far as third-person pronouns go, … They/Them/Theirs, please!

I’m attracted to… Everyone! If I’m attracted to you, I’m attracted to you!

When people talk about me, I want them to… not assume what I identify as. I may present a certain way, but you are probably wrong.

I want people to understand… that I have enough trouble with myself internally, I don’t need you to voice your opinions of me.

About Paige or Arty
Hey there, pals! I’m 20 and fabulously queer. If you’d like to be friends or know more about me, hit me up on my tumblr: cockapoodle-doo

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Posted by on April 24th, 2017 at 08:00 am

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Profile: Lily


You can call me… Lily

I identify as… Heterosexual, biromantic, bigender…usually presenting as a woman

As far as third-person pronouns go, … She/her

I’m attracted to… Masculine men, athletic women, kindness and passion

When people talk about me, I want them to… Think of my personality without having to include a specific gender as a part of that identity

I want people to understand… That my feminine appearance doesn’t tell the whole story…it’s hard to express my masculine side with thick hips

About Lily
Really struggling to define myself. I want to allow myself to be more authentic about the identity I want to have, but I am afraid of the consequences of moving away from the gender binary. I hate feeling like I have to choose one or the other.

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Posted by on April 22nd, 2017 at 08:00 am

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Profile: Jem(ma)


You can call me… Jem(ma)

I identify as… A feminine, male person.

As far as third-person pronouns go, … He and They in equal measure. She would be lovely but I don’t present as a woman and I likely won’t.

I’m attracted to… Kindhearted, beautiful, and nurturing people.

When people talk about me, I want them to… Not identify me as masculine just because I am male. I want them to not think of my size as intimidating. I hope they think I’m pretty.

I want people to understand… That I have a beard because it looks good on my face, not because it’s a part of a masculine gender performance.

About Jem(ma)

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Posted by on April 18th, 2017 at 08:00 am

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Profile: Andy


You can call me… Andy

I identify as… I guess I identify as a male…? I was born female and I’m currently thinking about transitioning.

As far as third-person pronouns go, … I prefer he/him/his pronouns but they/them/their is okay too.

I’m attracted to… All genders. It doesn’t matter what you are or what you have in your jeans it matters on your personality.

When people talk about me, I want them to… I want them to be respectful and be kind.

I want people to understand… That even tho I change my name and gender I’m still the fluffy little ball if awkwardness I was before.

About Andy
Idk what to say… I guess just I’m a ball of fluff and I like dogs.

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Posted by on April 16th, 2017 at 08:00 am

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Profile: Khonsu


You can call me… Khonsu

I identify as… a 30-something cysgender female straight tomboy that doesn’t like being called either sir nor madam

As far as third-person pronouns go, … I’m fine with and used to she/her but I prefer being refered to as they/them.

I’m attracted to… socially awkward, gentle, non normative, open minded people of any gender

When people talk about me, I want them to… not mention my gender unless explicitly asked about it, and answer that question with another question : “Why does it matter to you ?”

I want people to understand… their behavior and words have an impact on others. I’m home in my female body, but I’m not female in my mind and I feel estranged to the definition of female others impose on me without thinking about it.

About Khonsu

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Posted by on April 14th, 2017 at 10:00 am

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Profile: Tesiava/Takoda


You can call me… By birth: Tesia By Culture: Tesiava/Takoda

I identify as… Genderfluid.

As far as third-person pronouns go, … they/them please.

I’m attracted to… pansexual, currently attracted to a genderqueer demiboy with great sense and flawless poetry.

When people talk about me, I want them to… appreciate my inner qualities and who I am as a person. If they don’t know me, they can say “that short person who talks a lot about math and then does the splits.”

I want people to understand… That gender isn’t all of what defines a person, I’m forgiving about mistakes , and I want to be seen for who I am, not what gender I am. In a science profession this is incredibly daunting.

About By birth: Tesia By Culture: Tesiava/Takoda

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Posted by on April 12th, 2017 at 08:00 am

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Profile: Sascha


You can call me… Sascha

I identify as… Non-binary

As far as third-person pronouns go, … They/them/theirs

I’m attracted to… People without beards (insert any gender)

When people talk about me, I want them to… Be aware of my identity. Not “sir” me all the time.

I want people to understand… That just because someone looks “masculine”, they don’t have to identify with that word.

About Sascha
Sascha. 25. The Netherlands. Student Social Work. Single.

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Posted by on April 9th, 2017 at 08:00 am

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Profile: RJ



You can call me… RJ

I identify as… (Still finding my way through this and im not sure about labels.. but I feel close to) genderqueer/genderfluid

As far as third-person pronouns go, … I usually go with what people are comfortable with…she/her which is fine but using they/them …would probably make me weep with joy xD

I’m attracted to… The little things…a kind gesture, a funny joke…when my friends braid my hair or support me emotionally..

When people talk about me, I want them to… Be careful when criticizing me …I am sensitive and my brain likes to remind me of negative comments..I rarely get mad..I just hurt for a time being and hopefully forget later on.

I want people to understand… That I would love to communicate with like minded people on various things…possibly being friends?

About RJ
Im a 20 year old socially awkward human who enjoys drawing, writing, reading, cosplay, video games, Youtube, movies, TV shows and so on.

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Posted by on April 5th, 2017 at 08:00 am

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Profile: Allen


You can call me… Allen or Lithi

I identify as… (More than just confused. That’s why I’m here and I’m hoping someone can help me out) Let’s just settle with a masculine personality. Does that count?

As far as third-person pronouns go, … Male pronouns make me feel all warm and fuzzy, although female pronouns don’t bother me much since I’ve grown used to them. They/Them is cool too.
You do you, boo-boo.

I’m attracted to… Women and men, definitely. I’m not sure about other genders as I have yet to discover them.

When people talk about me, I want them to… Do it with a smile, and think of a person with tiny arms and a cute butt

I want people to understand… That I am one giant ball of confused fluff. That I won’t hurt you despite my mean looking T-Rex arms. That I simply seek the answers to myself, as well as the universe and why cats randomly freeze up and stare at nothing before going on with their previous actions.

About Allen or Lithi
I’m a really young teen living in central Europe. I enjoy shocking my parents with my varied tastes in music and I wasted the first day of 2017 scrolling through memes and talking with friends on Quotev.
I’m huge Hetalia trash and act like a cringy weeaboo whenever I can, usually around friends.
I have an obsession with the sparkle emoji, stop judging me I know I’m cringy.

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Posted by on April 3rd, 2017 at 08:00 am

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