Mix Them up


Reposted from un-gendered. (via under the dark moon)

“[she/her/they/them mix them up please]”

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Posted by on March 31st, 2015 at 10:00 am

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Profile: Matthew


You can call me… Matthew or Melisa

I identify as… Me, but I suppose I’m gender-fluid leaning towards girlish

As far as third-person pronouns go, … He, she, him, her, etc. I don’t particularly care. I do like the female pronouns though

I’m attracted to… Females (sex and gender), that are tall, smart, and redheaded. Someone who can put up with my smart*ssness and return with smart*ssness in kind. That’s what I look for, over looks. Another needed is a love of reading, preferably science fiction and fantasy

When people talk about me, I want them to… Tell the truth, the whole truth, and nothing but the truth, unless you’re planning a surprise party.

I want people to understand… That I enjoy being me, and can’t help it when I’m acting smart

About Matthew or Melisa
I’m 16 years of age, a nerd, and enjoy reading fantasy and science fiction, playing video games like Pokémon and The Legend of Zelda, and debating. I end up pissing people off because I can’t help being a smart*ss. I’ve been gender fluid since October 2014, and enjoy cross-dressing. I have yet to come out to my family.

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Posted by on March 31st, 2015 at 08:00 am

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New Favourite Shirt


Reposted from memecrow.

“I just got my new favourite shirt from genderflux!
(They/them)”

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Posted by on March 30th, 2015 at 10:00 am

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The Fall


Someone wrote…

Trying to dress less masculinely is hard to face while I’m also coming to terms with my hairline betraying me.

When I feel lost, I look up pictures of Lee Pace in The Fall (2006). That was the film that made me realise I might be genderqueer.

What’s your experience?

And what are you thinking about gender right now?


Posted by on March 30th, 2015 at 08:00 am

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Profile: Ashley/Ashton



You can call me… Ashley/Ashton

I identify as… Female to Male..

As far as third-person pronouns go, … Him/his. Though im used to female ones.

I’m attracted to… Females, males, personally and hair.

When people talk about me, I want them to… Use my pronouns and name. And not hate me

I want people to understand… that why would i want to do this for attention. Im so scared of being bullied and hurt.

About Ashley/Ashton
I like eating and sleeping. Though im gonna start actually living and feeling okay soon i hope.

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Posted by on March 29th, 2015 at 08:00 am

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It Feels Brilliant


Someone wrote…

I’ve just bought my first binder and it’s amazing!

I’m not going to wear it all of the time – because I am Genderqueer, I don’t feel the need to present with a flat chest all of the time but at some certain points I really desperately want to – and now I can.

Never be afraid to express your gender in any way that makes you happy – I wish I’d had the confidence to get my binder sooner! Now I’m enhancing my gender presentation as a Genderqueer/female-identified person and it feels brilliant :)

What’s your experience?

And what are you thinking about gender right now?


Posted by on March 28th, 2015 at 08:00 am

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Singer, Songwriter


Reposted from Fuckyeahandrogynousgirls.

“Singer, Songwriter for Palmedo
Soundcloud.com/palmedo

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Posted by on March 27th, 2015 at 10:00 am

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Jacob Tobia


An interview with Jacob Tobia from the I’m From Driftwood project. The accompanying article is here.


Posted by on March 27th, 2015 at 08:00 am

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Genderqueer


Submitted by Melisa, the model and photographer.

“Female at birth but I identify myself as genderqueer”

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Posted by on March 26th, 2015 at 10:00 am

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Belonging


Chie wrote…

Recently, I was forced into a four-month stretch without internet. so I used it to do something I’d been doing off and on for the past two years: question my gender, without dismissing the topic in frustration.

And even though I’ve found answers, I feel alone and frustrated, because I don’t know where I fit in; what label suits my non-binary gender. the closest are agender and neutrois, but they’re just wrong.

I feel like I’m staring in at them through a window, those who’ve found their community and like-gendered people, and I’m out here, on the streets, an outcast with no rad people to get sodas with or w/e. it’s very frustrating, and it seems like the internet really has no good resources for helping me to any further understanding.

I just wish I felt like I belonged somewhere.

What’s your experience?

And what are you thinking about gender right now?


Posted by on March 26th, 2015 at 08:00 am

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EXIT Fashion Show


Submitted by Lisa Jureczko, the photographer.

“The photo has been taken during the EXIT Fashion Show in Düsseldorf. The model is androgynous model Veit-Alex. Veit is heterosexual, 19 years old and modeling as male and female model since 2014. We have been working together a few times and I wrote also a little blogpost about androgyny and Veit’s aim to achieve more tolerance for androgynous people/models as well as the LGTB-Community. ”

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Posted by on March 25th, 2015 at 10:00 am

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Profile: Derek


You can call me… Derek. Just Derek.

I identify as… Pansexual and genderfluid. Sometimes it’s too much to handle.

As far as third-person pronouns go, … I prefer male, even though I’m genderfluid. I’m still okay with female/gender neutral pronouns as well, just masculine is a slight preference

I’m attracted to… Anyone who is interesting and not rude.

When people talk about me, I want them to… Describe me well.

I want people to understand… That I am not a girl (although I am physically female) and that I do not fit the assumption that I enjoy and do all the things girls my age do.

About Derek. Just Derek.
Just Derek.

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Posted by on March 25th, 2015 at 08:00 am

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Strength has no Gender


Reposted from Skyler Cooper on Facebook.

“I don’t usually share pictures that fans send. I wouldn’t want you to think me a conceited ninny!! :) However this is different and worth the risk! This is not about me. Its about all of us!”

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Posted by on March 24th, 2015 at 10:00 am

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Boyish Clothes


Someone wrote…

Recently I’ve been feeling really confused about my gender.
I’ve always been a bit of a tomboy but I’ve started get dysphoric about my boobs and wear more boyish clothes and I’m not so sure I’m actually a girl. However, I don’t think I’m a boy either and I know you don’t have to be binary but I just wish I could be one or the other – it would make things a lot easier.

What’s your experience?

And what are you thinking about gender right now?


Posted by on March 24th, 2015 at 08:00 am

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Question: What Could you Wear to Look Genderless?


Jasper Lucien Brett asks…

What would you dress like, or what clothes would you wear if you wanted to look genderless?

Please post your response in the comments below.

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Posted by on March 23rd, 2015 at 08:00 am

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Forlorn/Amused


Reposted from brownroundboi.

“[Description: a brown boi sits with a leather fitted, glasses, back pack, cane, & winter attire on a red tufted couch. A lavish coffee table reflects their image. They look forlorn, but a touch, just slightly amused.]”

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Posted by on March 22nd, 2015 at 10:00 am

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The Environment


Someone wrote…

I’m not out to anyone at the moment, but I’m so glad to have the family and friends that I do. As far as I know they’re all accepting of different genders and sexualities and I feel like as soon as I’m sure of who I am they’ll accept me for who I am. I’m just so happy I have the environment that I do.

What’s your experience?

And what are you thinking about gender right now?


Posted by on March 22nd, 2015 at 08:00 am

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Profile: Sammie


You can call me… Sammie

I identify as… I am a queer woman and than does sum me up pretty nicely but my identity is so complex and I mostly say queer woman because “edgy mostly lesbian androgynous tomboy femme slightly gender queer but overwhelmingly female Identified and somewhere on the Asexual demisexual spectrum” is too much to say every time I give my ID I am also AMAB but I have zero trans female identity and I’m just a really complex queer woman.

As far as third-person pronouns go, … She or they.

I’m attracted to… compassionate funny honest true brave and unashamed people. I get turned on by a great conversation so much more than a body though I do recognize physical things I find attractive. I’m more physically attracted to more masculine presenting people(mostly female identified and non binary people), but my attraction is so fluid and so based on personal connection other than anything physical and I don’t really have type just good people

When people talk about me, I want them to… speak only in female or non binary terms and not bring up what I was assigned. Understand that I may seam shy or even disinterested but I am listening and I care what people have to say to me.

I want people to understand… I am not an overly physical person. if a friend wants a hug I can do that but physical contact of any kind is very intimate for me and I’m bothered when people think they can just hug me or comfort me in physical ways. understand how strong my values are and that words matter and privilege is real

About Sammie
mid twenties queer female who cares about making the world a better place and can’t stand to see people especially children in pain.

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Posted by on March 21st, 2015 at 08:00 am

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Being an Advocate


Reposted from The Troll Fish Prince. (via Legalize Trans.)

“It’s moments like this where being an advocate pays off. My school now has a gender neutral bathroom open, and even though I’m a senior and won’t get a lot of use out of it, I know that I’m helping students in the future. Even though it’s a single stall sort of deal, since we didn’t have money to build a whole new bathroom it’s still progress. I hope that more people advocate all over so that future generations don’t have to.”

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Posted by on March 20th, 2015 at 10:00 am

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Our Bodies


Someone wrote…

Sometimes I feel like we should just ditch gender altogether, call ourselves by what our bodies have (or what we want our bodies to have), and act/dress/love however we want, without worrying whether it somehow conflicts with our biology…

What’s your experience?

And what are you thinking about gender right now?


Posted by on March 20th, 2015 at 08:00 am

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