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Profile: Rachel


You can call me… Rachel

I identify as… Female. Technically I am a AMAB trans female but why should the body I was born in matter

As far as third-person pronouns go, … She/her

I’m attracted to… Men, my amazing husband of 5 years

When people talk about me, I want them to… Treat me like the female I am

I want people to understand… I am female.

About Rachel
I feel very fortunate to have an incredibly supportive husband, an amazing sister who not only taught me how to do my hair and makeup and how to dress but financially supported me through my transition. I am a graphic artist and a crazy cat lady.

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Posted by on May 2nd, 2016 at 10:00 am

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Profile: Zie


You can call me… Zie

I identify as… non-binary trans* or gender queer/fluid or third gender

As far as third-person pronouns go, … they/their/them

I’m attracted to… men both cis/trans* curious around cis women and trans* women

When people talk about me, I want them to… recognize that i am a human being first and foremost, that making a genuine effort to use correct pronoun and rectify their mistakes (practice make persistence) whether you are talking about me or to me

I want people to understand… the correct pronouns and names are vital in respect of social transitions

About Zie

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Posted by on May 1st, 2016 at 10:00 am

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Profile: Shayne


You can call me… Shayne

I identify as… Non-binary, asexual, panromantic, and an utter nerd.

As far as third-person pronouns go, … They/them is best, but she/her is also ok. I don’t get called he/him much because I usually present as feminine. No neo-pronouns please!

I’m attracted to… People (romantically) and nothing (sexually)

When people talk about me, I want them to… know that my orientation does not define who I am.

I want people to understand… all orientations lie on a spectrum, and no one is better than any other. Just because you like purple and someone else likes red doesn’t mean the bottom of the rainbow is better than the top.

About Shayne
English nerd, Killjoy, Potterhead, Whovian, Sherlockian, bookworm

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Posted by on April 30th, 2016 at 10:00 am

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Profile: Aidan



You can call me… Aidan.

I identify as… male, but I don’t really think certain items of clothing belong to either gender. It sounds confusing, but moving on.

As far as third-person pronouns go, … I don’t normally use them. He/Him is the usual.

I’m attracted to… people who can put up with me, people with open minds, people who love music or just have huge passions.

When people talk about me, I want them to… Look beyond gender. Look beyond me. And buy me some Starbucks. (Kidding, sort of.)

Overall just be polite and not weird around me. I’m sensitive about things and I get nervous super easily.

I want people to understand… that every aspect of a person is complex, and you will never fully understand a person’s view unless you are them.

I want people to understand that I do have anxiety and depression, and more. And that I’m easily manipulated by words. Don’t tell me I can’t pass as a male. Or that if I’m this, I must do that. Being myself doesn’t require a guidebook.

I’d also like people to understand the difference between your and you’re.

About Aidan.
Hello! I’m Aidan, and I’m literally turning seventeen in four days. I’m a musician, artist, writer, and photographer who probably doesn’t have any talent within me. However, I love these things and they keep me going.

I live in a small town, which isn’t too fun.
I enjoy metal music. Rock music. All music.
I like reading a lot.
I’m not interesting.
It’s almost 2:30 in the morning, what am I doing?

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Posted by on April 29th, 2016 at 10:00 am

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Profile: Sage



You can call me… Sage

I identify as… pansexual genderqueer transgender man

As far as third-person pronouns go, … I prefer he and him

I’m attracted to… Intelligent open minded people and androgynous people

When people talk about me, I want them to… Talk about me not just my gender and sexuality

I want people to understand… Just because I am a transgender man that doesn’t mean I can’t like wearing dresses and traditionally female things

About Sage

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Posted by on April 28th, 2016 at 10:00 am

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Profile: Bella


You can call me… Bella

I identify as… Female with a genital issue

As far as third-person pronouns go, … I prefer the she set, even though my “shell” is male

I’m attracted to… Energy. Intelligence. Power. Emotion. Especially the punk femme nerd lesbian sort. Coffee houses. Bars. Tattoos. Lovers that truly love each other.

When people talk about me, I want them to… not be derogatory

I want people to understand… that I don’t have to explain myself to anyone to make myself feel good and neither does anybody else. I just am. So are they. So are you. So it is. Now lets live free.

About Bella
I was married once to a beautiful woman whom I truly loved with every cell of my being. I never lived as me, I lived as the MAN she wanted. I loved her but hated the moment. I lived as a man in a mans world but just wanted to feel pretty. To be appreciated as the woman I am. Because I wasn’t honest about my true self I couldn’t live up to the idea she had of me, because she didn’t know me. She knew a lie. And I lost the love of my life. If I would have been honest from the start would this have ever worked? Probably not, but 4 souls would not have endured the torture of divorce. Yes we had 2 children together. So be honest with yourself, with your partner, buck up and live your life on your terms.


Posted by on April 27th, 2016 at 10:00 am

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Profile: August Truman Pratt


You can call me… August Truman Pratt

I identify as… a male, but trans man on all dating sights. I don’t want to mislead anyone.

As far as third-person pronouns go, … he. of course I don’t mind slips ups every once in a while.

I’m attracted to… everyone, especially other trans men. I have no idea why.

When people talk about me, I want them to… think I’m a good person, despite being heated and awkward, depending on the day.

I want people to understand… that this is not a phase and that there are a lot of things I consider more important than remaining quiet about my gender.

About August Truman Pratt
Tastefully… I like politics, but only one sided politics. I love my cat, but not many others. I run. I breath. I music… I’m working on building up the courage to correct people when they call me the wrong name or use the wrong pronouns. I have been allowing it so long after I came out that I am scared to say anything now.

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Posted by on April 26th, 2016 at 10:00 am

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Profile: Whatever you’d like


You can call me… Whatever you’d like

I identify as… I don’t really know if I “identify” at all.
I’m biologically male, and I accept that, but I’ve never “felt” a gender one way or another.
So, agender, I guess.

As far as third-person pronouns go, … What does it matter what you use when referring to me when talking to someone else? As long as you both know who you’re talking about, the pronouns are doing their job. I don’t really care.

I’m attracted to… People who are loving, accepting, and cute (and preferably have a penis).

When people talk about me, I want them to… Be honest and not fear the repercussions of the truth.

I want people to understand… Humans have a need to sort, label, and group but there is much more to truth than can be found by imposing restrictions.

About Whatever you’d like
I’ve been going nameless for about three years now; allowing others to choose what they want to call me.
I try not to label myself and don’t define myself by those that others give me.
I have hopes, dreams, and aspirations like anyone else but, truly, all that I wish to be is “me”.
So much stress is caused by trying to be “something” – I take pleasure in the joy of simply being.

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Posted by on April 20th, 2016 at 08:00 am

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Profile: Christopher


You can call me… Christopher

I identify as… a male pansexual

As far as third-person pronouns go, … I prefer male pronouns, but they/them works.

I’m attracted to… people, regardless of sex or gender identity, although I have a female preference. A large part of my attraction to someone is based on personality.

When people talk about me, I want them to… refer to me as male, not female, and focus more on my personality and interests.

I want people to understand… even though it might seem strange, your gender doesn’t determine things like your role in society, and it doesn’t have to be the most important part of you.

About Christopher
I love animals, art, books, and gaming.
My life also happens to revolve around music (Bring Me The Horizon in particular at the moment).

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Posted by on April 18th, 2016 at 08:00 am

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Profile: Danny


You can call me… Danny

I identify as… Agender and asexual. Maybe Demiromantic too?

As far as third-person pronouns go, … They/Them or Xe/Xem, thank you!

I’m attracted to… Girls I think? It’s very complicated. I know I find girls attractive and that’s all I know.

When people talk about me, I want them to… Understand that words can hurt me a lot, even when they’re just said in error.

I want people to understand… That gender isn’t strictly binary, and singular they is definitely grammatically correct.

About Danny
I like space and cartoons, and am often anxious for no reason. I’m not good at talking a lot of the time, but I try my best, and I appreciate it when people listen. I’m a bit of a nervous noodle, aha. Uh, that’s all I can think of to say here, so uh… I hope everyone reading this has a really great day!

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Posted by on April 14th, 2016 at 08:00 am

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Profile: Caelan


You can call me… Caelan, Cael for short

I identify as… A boy, though occasionally feel a little agender

As far as third-person pronouns go, … He/him, unless my parents are in the room. Then it’s she/her.

I’m attracted to… Really nice and weird pretty people, for their personality. I don’t judge people based on their looks.

But I could stare at men with long hair all day.

When people talk about me, I want them to… USE THE RIGHT PRONOUNS and also recognise that despite my faults, I am a unique and brilliant person

I want people to understand… Even though there might not have been genderqueer people when they were growing up (there were, actually, they just didn’t tell people) there are now, it’s not a phase, and we’re here to stay. You can live in the past, or you can accept it.

About Caelan, Cael for short

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Posted by on April 4th, 2016 at 10:00 am

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Profile: Carson


You can call me… Carson or Phoenix

I identify as… afab genderfluid/agender demisexual panromantic

As far as third-person pronouns go, … I am transitioning to they/them pronouns, so use of those would be wonderful :)

I’m attracted to… humans that I have some deep connection with
intelligence, good listener, supportive, willing to accept me and be who they are

When people talk about me, I want them to… recognize the absence of a gender binary, and not focus on trying to put me under a label. Be nice to me behind my back and to my friends, and I will pay you the same respect.

I want people to understand… that I am in a transition. I am still coming out, and if you make a mistake with pronouns, that is okay. I will correct you gently, and hope you are doing your best to remember.

About Carson or Phoenix
find me on tumblr under my URL mylifeinshadesofsilver!

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Posted by on April 3rd, 2016 at 10:00 am

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Profile: Anastasia


You can call me… Anastasia

I identify as… a transgender female

As far as third-person pronouns go, … please use the female ones when you describe me

I’m attracted to… Men, women, and transgender women.

When people talk about me, I want them to… Know that I want to be a woman, and be addressed as female

I want people to understand… that being transgender is not a feeling that much after you realize that you’re trans and that when people are around transgender people, we’re not here to play you like a fiddle

About Anastasia
Grew up as a small town boy, I was 5 when I first wondered what it was like to be a girl. I grew up questioning this. I always played with my sisters barbie dolls when I was younger as well, and at the age of 11 I had my first experience with another boy who was 14. I was a partner with this boy for 9 months before I left. I lived with my grandparents for a year and a half in junior high, finally realizing I was transgender after questioning myself so many times and praying. I had known about my true gender on the inside. So I kept this inside for nearly 3 more years. I finally realized later on in high school that I was bisexual. At this stage I had started watching transgender YouTubers like Elena Genevinne, Angela Vanity, and PrincessJoules. I had finally came out to my mom about my sexuality at the age of 14 and then later came out as transgender nearly 3 months later. I had admitted to myself that I was transgender and because of this I had been open about this to my mother as well. I am currently 17 and nothing new has happened since then. Other than trying to grow my hair out and cope with the level of stress for being transgender. My life is here at home and trying to transition is probably the hardest things in the world for me. Since I will have a lot of back lash from my distant family and friends.

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Posted by on April 2nd, 2016 at 10:00 am

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Profile: Joel


You can call me… Joel

I identify as… Gender-Fluid

As far as third-person pronouns go, … Call me what you want. I personally don’t care about pronouns, and dont want to ask people in my life to adjust how they see me more than needed. Although, to put a bit of variaty in what I am referred to, he/him and they/them is Greatly appreciated.

I’m attracted to… I’m pansexual soooo….
I am also 14 and not exactly looking for anything sooo….

When people talk about me, I want them to… Not be a dick

I want people to understand… The question of “oh. What pronouns do you prefer?” Makes me REALLY uncomfortable because as I have already stated, I don’t want to make people put effort into how they see me. Also it would be great if the kids at school seem to catch on a LITTLE bit more to how… not excluded, but not included I feel. I just moved from the Rocky Mountains to the East Coast and the transition has been tough. Tough, not Tuff. And certainly not Cool. (Sorry PonyBoy). Especially that girl Maddie who always seems to be pissed at me for NO reason.

About Joel
I am a DANCER!
I love Books.
Movies are OK
I also draw
I’m not too bad at writing
I am a beautiful mixture of childlike and mature
I am 5 foot 7 (maybe 8?) Inches tall.
(Yes. The weather up here is FABULOUS. And yes, heals make me feel powerful and I can practically touch an airplane when I wear them. Also, YES. IT ANNOYS THE FLIP OUT OF ME WHEN YOU MENTION MY HIGHT. SO STOP BRINGING IT UP. WE’VE TALKED ABOUT IT. AND NOW WE ARE DONE.)
I just started High school and it still blows my mind that I’ve gotten this far
I plan to travel the country after graduation with my bestest friends.

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Posted by on April 1st, 2016 at 10:00 am

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Profile: Noel


You can call me… Noel

I identify as… AFAB Non binary- part female part a gender

As far as third-person pronouns go, … Per/pers/perself

I’m attracted to… I’m a polysexual, I’m attracted to non binary people especially those who are more neutral or feminine as well as females. Im engaged and it’s awesome. I love my future spouse, we have been together for 3 and a half years and our wedding is set for June. Ey is a-gender and eirs is the best.

When people talk about me, I want them to… Respect my gender, sexuality and pronouns! And my relationship!

I want people to understand… I am a valid human being.

About Noel
I’m 22, I am a big Doctor Who fan, basically I am a giant science fiction loving nerd who is an electrical engineering major. I’m graduating college this month(a semester late) and I all ready have a job waiting. My future spouse is getting eirs Master’s in Social Work and works at a crisis hotline. Oh and we have a cat named Saga.

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Posted by on March 31st, 2016 at 10:00 am

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Profile: Roman


You can call me… Roman

I identify as… a girl, a Marxist, a lesbian, a synesthete, a transgender advocate, an emo kid, a minimalist, a radicalist, kind of mean, relatively progressive, very cool

As far as third-person pronouns go, … feminine pronouns for 2016. in 30 years, I’ll go by the pronouns that we’ve decided to make universal

I’m attracted to… pretty people of any sort of pretty

When people talk about me, I want them to… smile

I want people to understand… you don’t know whats up. you don’t know if someone is gender dysphoric. you also don’t know if the person you just snapped at for misgendering you has a valid reason for having done it. and cuz you don’t know what’s up, do you. make your change. don’t stall. people will believe what you sell them, and if you want to sell a certain thing, you gotta sell it and not expect it to be snapped off the shelves just cuz you want it to be <3

About Roman
19 year old FtMtXtF transgender and FtX transsexual kid, with now only occasional dysphoria thats always crippling and always beatable. i’m affectionately mean when i like people, and since I’m affectionately mean to myself, i’ve figured out that i can do this thing because i *can* not because i need to. <3

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Posted by on March 30th, 2016 at 10:00 am

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Profile: Becki


You can call me… Becki

I identify as… Genderqueer Pan-Demi Romantic Hippie

As far as third-person pronouns go, … Feel free to use what you want, doesn’t bother me at all

I’m attracted to… big dreamers, those who can dream deeper then me,

anyone taller than me or anyone that can talk for hours and cuddle X3
I tend love anyone who is outside the gender binary like me but tbh im not fussy, IF YOU LOVE THE BEATLES, MARKIPLIER, ANY TYPE OF RETRO 60s SHIZZ, I WUVS YUU!!

When people talk about me, I want them to… know that I am indeed genderqueer and I am a full on extrovert so im very clingy and need attention, being lonely is a deep fear of mine and I tend to break down from loneliness

I want people to understand… that even the happiest of people can be the most miserable, just because people are open and happy on the outside, doesn’t mean deep down inside, they are not sad, lonely and broken hearted

About Becki
First off, I come from New Zealand, I am a very Artsy person, I am a Cinephile (Movie Lover, don’t take the word in the wrong way XD) and dream to be a Film Director and Musician when I am older, I love to make new friends and love to make best friends, I am a big big dreamer and hope to find dreamers like me….im also cuddly too X3

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Posted by on March 29th, 2016 at 10:00 am

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Profile: Sam


You can call me… Sam

I identify as… A genderqueer transguy

As far as third-person pronouns go, … I prefer he/him/his

I’m attracted to… All genders/expressions with a slight preference for femininity

When people talk about me, I want them to… respect my pronouns

I want people to understand… that I’m happy with who I am, and as long as people respect that I’m fine with them making occasional mistakes.

About Sam

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Posted by on March 28th, 2016 at 08:00 am

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Profile: Verde


You can call me… Verde

I identify as… polysexual demigenderfluid (partially female, partially fluid) person.

As far as third-person pronouns go, … I prefer ‘they’ but I am able go with ‘she’ as well.

I’m attracted to… many genders. I don’t know all of my limits yet.

When people talk about me, I want them to… be open about themselves, be honest and show respect to who I am and how I identify. I want people to stop being heteronormative and stop assuming I am cis just because I look like a female. I look like myself and that is demigenderfluid.

I want people to understand… that I, my identity, my body and my opinions are valid and that my looks don’t show who I am as a person and what I’ve gone through. Even though you can’t see scars in my body from the outside, that doesn’t mean there aren’t scars on the inside.

About Verde
I’m almost 16 y/o artist and a cat owner. I like to write poems, compose music and spread social justice. I also worship marvel and disney movies.

I’m currently still working with my identity. I’m quite sure of it but I always find something to process about it and ugh it’s hard. I’m unable to cry in public and probably am depressed. I’m also suffering from anorexia but no-one knows and most likely won’t know anytime soon because I’m still overweight.

You can find me on tumblr with the URL “heatherverde” so if you want to talk or rant: my ask / messages are always open.

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Posted by on March 26th, 2016 at 08:00 am

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Profile: Chris


You can call me… Chris

I identify as… agender. I don’t feel like being any gender at all. I am AMAB and appear male, simply because I don’t really care much about my appearance (yeah, grew a beard) and just like to be myself.

As far as third-person pronouns go, … They/them however I don’t take offense with “he/him” or “she/her” really. The latter is however diminishingly rare.

I’m attracted to… people regardless of gender, however I prefer feminine men, crossdressing men, masculine females and agender people the most. Other non-binary people are okay. Just regular drag queens and drag kings as well as people how care too much about their own appearance are turn offs. I am mostly attracted to interesting and uncomplicated personalities. I only move on a romantic spectrum as I am otherwise asexual.

When people talk about me, I want them to… be respectful of me as I am respectful of them. Don’t put my personal preferences (romantic) in the foreground.

I want people to understand… that sex is not important to me at all. That I am annoyed when people have expectations of how men or women are supposed to be.

About Chris
I am 25, unemployed, panromantic, asexual, agender and have HFA (high functioning autism). I am personally interested in epistemology and psychology. Many people say that I am a friendly person, even though I assume that they talk too good of me.

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Posted by on March 25th, 2016 at 08:00 am

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