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Profile: Oisín


 

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You can call me… Oisín (although most people know me as Niamh – I’m in the process of changing that! :-) )

I identify as… trans-masculine/genderqueer/boy/just me.

As far as third-person pronouns go, … He is best, but most people call me She

I’m attracted to… Female-bodied people of all sorts, especially genderqueer/masculine female bodied people. I’m also attracted to trans men that self-define as outside the binary. It’s just cis-men that I’m not attracted to (although I can appreciate a good looking cis-guy :-) )

When people talk about me, I want them to… talk about my interests and my intellect, and think about me as a person, not a gender.

I want people to understand… that I’m still trying to figure my gender out, and I’m happy for people to join me on this journey :-)

About Oisín (although most people know me as Niamh – I’m in the process of changing that! :-) )
I came out initially as bisexual, then lesbian, then queer, then genderqueer, and now trans. It’s been a learning curve that continues on but life gets better and better as I learn more about myself. :-)

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Posted by on July 23rd, 2014 at 08:00 am

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Profile: Moon Raver


You can call me… Moon Raver, or Moon

I identify as… I’m not sure yet. Right now im just letting my gender do whatever it wants. I feel genderless, but female presenting.

As far as third-person pronouns go, … I prefer female pronouns. Most people call me by them anyway because I often present as such.

I’m attracted to… Every gender.
But more intimately, my amazing girlfriend of three years. <3

When people talk about me, I want them to… I want to be loved by everyone. I know, that isn’t possible. But it’s a dream right?

I want people to understand… That just because I have a mental illness, doesn’t mean I’m not intelligent, or capable of forming informed opinions.

About Moon Raver, or Moon

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Posted by on July 19th, 2014 at 08:00 am

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Jayden/Jay


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You can call me… Jayden or Jay.

I identify as… a transmasculine genderqueer asexual person.

As far as third-person pronouns go, … I prefer ‘he’ or ‘they’, please.

I’m attracted to… cuddling and empathetic people.

When people talk about me, I want them to… remember that we are all born to die, so they should appreciate the times I share with them instead of belittling me.

I want people to understand… I’m uncomfortable with my body, but I don’t hate my inner self.

About Jayden or Jay.
Each year I age, I absorb people’s youth. I can’t dance to save my life or endangered species, but I can smile to brighten days and nights.

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Posted by on July 11th, 2014 at 08:00 am

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Profile: Emmett


EmmettYou can call me… Emmett

I identify as… A genderqueer butch person

As far as third-person pronouns go, … they/them/their

I’m attracted to… other butch genderqueer people

When people talk about me, I want them to… recognize me as an intelligent human being, not a freak show.

I want people to understand… that I am not a woman, or a girl. I am just me

About Emmett
I can’t be put “briefly”

musician, genderfuck, artist

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Posted by on July 1st, 2014 at 08:00 am

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Profile: Alice Hearts


Alice Hearts

You can call me… Alice hearts

I identify as… A crossdressing teen

As far as third-person pronouns go, … As long as it’s nice

I’m attracted to… Emos

When people talk about me, I want them to… Know that I’m sensitive and don’t want to be stereotyped

I want people to understand… It not easy for me to hate someone I like or have no opinion on most people

About Alice hearts
I love coffee and my boyfriend

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Posted by on June 29th, 2014 at 08:00 am

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Profile: Erin


You can call me… Erin

I identify as… ?

As far as third-person pronouns go, … anything

I’m attracted to… everything

When people talk about me, I want them to… be nice

I want people to understand… I don’t wanna’ be anything other than what I’ve been tryin’ ta’ be lately.

About Erin

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Posted by on June 25th, 2014 at 08:00 am

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Profile: Rian


Rian

You can call me… Rian

I identify as… Genderqueer/non-binary

As far as third-person pronouns go, … female and male pronouns are fine but preference for they/them or he/him.

I’m attracted to… who someone is,and their passion as a person. as far as gender wise, it doesn’t really matter to me. i’m usually not too attracted to straight men though.

When people talk about me, I want them to… i don’t really want them to focus on a certain thing. they should just speak about me the way they perceive me.

I want people to understand… that you don’t have to fit into a gender box. you can express whoever you are, anyway you want, and not be ashamed by it.

About Rian
i realized i was genderqueer freshmen year, and every since i’ve been really admant about letting people know this is okay. it is okay to be yourself. if you want to contact me, you can on tumblr: queersandbowties or kik:rianslame

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Posted by on June 23rd, 2014 at 08:00 am

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Profile: Donna


You can call me… Donna

I identify as… Asexual, Transgender, Crossdresser, Androygnous

As far as third-person pronouns go, …

I’m attracted to… Feminine Boys/Beautiful Women Who Are Always At There Feminine Best!

When people talk about me, I want them to…

I want people to understand… That, I Am Me!
To Respect That & Leave Me Alone If They Do Not Agree & Be My Friend If They Do!
Simple Isn’t It?

About Donna
Just Someone Going Thru Life Enoying Myself, Trying To Get By.
Maybe One Day Meeting Someone To Enjoy Life With!

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Posted by on June 21st, 2014 at 08:00 am

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Profile: Emily


You can call me… Emily

I identify as… Androgynous

As far as third-person pronouns go, … I don’t really mind although she and they are kind of my defaults.

I’m attracted to… Everyone although not sexually.

When people talk about me, I want them to… realize that it doesn’t matter what I wear or look like I am the same as they are

I want people to understand… that it’s alright if you make mistakes just take a step back and try again, i really don’t mind

About Emily

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Posted by on June 15th, 2014 at 08:00 am

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Profile: Sam / Samsa


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You can call me… Sam or Samsa

I identify as… a genderqueer pansexual feminist

As far as third-person pronouns go, … I would like to be addressed using they/their/them pronouns.

I’m attracted to… A lot of people, but I have a slight preference for androgynous folks.

When people talk about me, I want them to… Realise that what I identify is, is my reality and not a ”farce” or quirk.

I want people to understand… That the gender binary is harmful and oppressive.

About Sam or Samsa
I’m 20 years old, live in Berlin, Germany, and am currently recovering from depression.

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Posted by on June 11th, 2014 at 08:00 am

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Profile: Jade/John


Jade or John

You can call me… Jade or John

I identify as… A girly boy

As far as third-person pronouns go, … I don’t mind

I’m attracted to… Girls

When people talk about me, I want them to… See me

I want people to understand… Who I am happy being

About Jade or John
Just a girly boy living as a girl

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Posted by on June 5th, 2014 at 08:00 am

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Profile: James Elizabeth


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You can call me… James Elizabeth.

I identify as… Nonbinary, effeminate, fluid and transgender.

As far as third-person pronouns go, … I like a mix. If I can’t have that, I’ll deal with whatever comes my way.

I’m attracted to… Everyone’s really pretty and I’m bored by sex. Whatever that translates to, I’m that.

When people talk about me, I want them to… Not quite understand what it is they’re talking about, but they know it’s good. I’d also like them to talk about how much they want to give me a ton of money, but I do have some sense of realism.

I want people to understand… How much more interesting the world is when there’s more than a couple types of person in it.

About James Elizabeth.
I’m an aspiring writer, an in-progress linguist, and a massive, over-eager nerd. I come from a rural part of the UK, and trust me, that’s not as sweet a deal as it might sound. I’m on Tumblr at partially-stars.

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Posted by on June 1st, 2014 at 08:00 am

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Profile: Dominic/Zunny


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You can call me… Dominic or Zunny

I identify as… I.. I’m not sure. I’m really not sure. I wish to be a male. When I look in the mirror I see a stranger. I think “I wish those lumps of fat weren’t there,” and press my chest in. Then I feel slightly more comfortable with myself.

But at the same time, I’m unhappy with my body. Weight, structure. Those common things.

I am terrified of not being recognized as a male. Losing the attention my “femininity” gains me. Which is incredibly vain.

But, reading a few profiles here, and really thinking about this, I recognize that I would very much prefer this. To be a Dominic, or a Constantic, a Balthazar, Salazar or such. I want this.
I wear skirts. I wear make-up at times. But as we do know, gender identification and gender expression aren’t the same thing.

As far as third-person pronouns go, … I have grown up as a she for 17 years. I’ve worn dresses. I’ve acted as a female. But that doesn’t mean I feel like one.

If people feel more comfortable calling he a “she” or anything like that, go ahead. It won’t kill me.
I would still very much prefer if you saw me as a feminine male.

I’m attracted to… Kind souls, no matter the sex. It could be an 43 year old transexual male, or an asexual 20 year old person in between.

As long as our personalities click, I’ll like you.

When people talk about me, I want them to… See me as me. As the 17 year old, slightly autistic, kind, hot-tempered, caring, unselfish, confused, freaked out little boymangirllady I am.
I want them to look at ME, give ME a chance, and not my gender.

I want them to be honest with me. And I want them not to be scared or feel like they can’t share things with me.

I want people to understand… That although I’m doing my best with what I’ve got, I’m still torn about this. I don’t know how to handle it myself, and until I can be two hundred percent sure with myself, and although I don’t want them to, people’s opinions matter.

I can tell myself that they don’t, I can laugh it away. But they’ll still be there when the day ends. My insecurities being fueled by comments from the outside.

About Dominic or Zunny
If I don’t like someone, I’ll let them know. But if I do like you, I will be like a dog. Loyal, caring and ready to treat your issues and insecurities as my own.
I have a clear view on what I want in life. Well, for most part.
I don’t know what I want to do in life. I don’t know how I’m going to handle my gender. Do I try it out? Will people recognize my feelings and treat me as a man? Will people still view me in a similar way, even though just one detail has changed?
I have so many questions and no one to ask. No one who can actually relate and give me straight answers.

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Posted by on May 28th, 2014 at 08:00 am

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Profile: Anne DeBulle


You can call me… Anne DeBulle

I identify as… pansexual Transgender m to f

As far as third-person pronouns go, … “please use the female ones when you describe me.

I’m attracted to… people

When people talk about me, I want them to… be real

I want people to understand… it is ok to be yourself

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Posted by on May 24th, 2014 at 08:00 am

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Profile: Theo


Theo

You can call me… Theo

I identify as… a genderqueer guy

As far as third-person pronouns go, … I go by he

I’m attracted to… I’m still figuring this one out, but I think I’m most attracted to androgynous people?

When people talk about me, I want them to… respect me as the gender I identify as, and be able to inspire others to be themselves

I want people to understand… that the world is full of aaaaaaaaaaaaall kins of different people, and that everyone is just as much human as the next one, and everyone got both negative and positive sides, so people should focus on others and their own positive sides, not the negative sides. And keep their mouths closed if they only got negative things to say about someone else. :)

About Theo
I was born with a female body, but I’ve never been very comfortable with it, but I was never very tomboyish as a child, and it was first when puberty hit that I started noticing that something felt really off.

So when I found about hormonal treatment and sex change operations, then I immediatly knew this was the answer to why I had been feeling off since puberty. Though it took me a few years to get to where I am today (March 15, 2014) but I have finally been approved to start hormone treatment, and will in a few days go to my doctor so I can get my first shot of T (testosterone) :D

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Posted by on May 20th, 2014 at 08:00 am

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Profile: Lauren


Lauren

You can call me… Lauren

I identify as… a genetic man with a definite feminine side

As far as third-person pronouns go, … boy-girl

I’m attracted to… women

When people talk about me, I want them to… hopefully understand and accept

I want people to understand… that not all people are limited to male or female

About Lauren
I’m 43 and single but happy with it. I’ve spent ages working stuff out, or should I say trying to. Eventually I found that androgen seems to sum me up, genetic man, strong girl traits.

I love genetic women but after seeing some profiles on-line I have realised that beauty is not necessarily sexed to be a genetic woman.

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Posted by on May 18th, 2014 at 08:00 am

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Profile: Tori


You can call me… Victoria. Or Tori – trying to get that to stick as a nickname.

I identify as… a transgendered lesbian trying to transcend the male body I have lived in for 50+ years.

As far as third-person pronouns go, … I understand people will use the male pronouns when they see me most of the time because of my appearance. But I much prefer the feminine pronouns here on the net, or when I’m out in public dressed as my preferred gender.

I’m attracted to… Women. I am hopelessly enamored of women and everything they stand for and embody.

When people talk about me, I want them to… …hopefully recognize there is so much more to me than the apparently male exterior that circumstance has forced me to present for most of my life.

I want people to understand… …that I just want to be the me that I have always known that I am. And hope folks will be patient with me while I try to get all this stuff figured out. In turn, I’ll do my best to extend the same courtesy to everyone.

About Victoria. Or Tori – trying to get that to stick as a nickname.
I’m a fifty-something geek-girl (comics, Star Trek, sci-fi) who is working on making her exterior appearance match what’s inside. And if I can meet a nice girl somehwere along the line and settle-down, that’d be okay.

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Posted by on May 16th, 2014 at 08:00 am

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Profile: Dann


You can call me… Dann

I identify as… Transboy. Hate it though i would like more cisguy. (i’m an intersex) just ignore it.

As far as third-person pronouns go, … He. Him. His

I’m attracted to… Girls! Duh.

When people talk about me, I want them to… Hmm anything. It doesn’t matter

I want people to understand… That transpeople aren’t freaks!

About Dann
I love a friend so much, she is everything to me. I so adore video games, sports, lifting weights. I’m 17 years old, love to read books. I also play hide and seek with my cousins lol. Last year in High school.

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Posted by on May 12th, 2014 at 08:00 am

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Profile: Genim/Stiles


Genim

You can call me… Genim or Stiles

I identify as… Genderfluid
Usually its a they/them/their thing, but usually it is she/her thing, and sometimes it is a he/his thing.

As far as third-person pronouns go, … She. If I wish to be called a he or they, I will say otherwise. PLEASE don’t call me an “it”.

I’m attracted to… No one sexually! I am a straight asexual, so I like men, but I don’t want sex.

When people talk about me, I want them to… this may sound self concieted, but I wish that people talked about how good I am at things. I am seeked out for help or for advice, or talked about positively, and I wish that that is something that happens.

I want people to understand… That I’m very sensitive. Some times of the day I’m male, and some times I am female. I mostly am female.

About Genim or Stiles
I’m Genim and I think that space is really rad. Im a huge science and chemistry nerd. I love tons of shows (Teen Wolf, Hannibal, Doctor Who, Sherlock BBC, Bates Motel, Supernatural, Psych, Mythbusters, and a lot more) and I love books and comics.

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Posted by on May 8th, 2014 at 08:00 am

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Profile: Yoshii


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You can call me… Yoshii

I identify as… GenderQueer

As far as third-person pronouns go, … Ze, Hir, Them etc.

I’m attracted to… EVERYONE!!! I’m pan-sexual!

When people talk about me, I want them to… Use happy words? ^.^

I want people to understand… That i’m awesome cause i made myself that way, please dont break me down, its a long way back up again.

About Yoshii
Furry. 23. Hyper. Hippie :)

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Posted by on April 30th, 2014 at 08:00 am

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