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Profile: Nola


You can call me… Nola

I identify as… Genderfluid- uh, maybe. Girly ojou prince boy some days, butch girl other days, and more, so much more

As far as third-person pronouns go, … she/her or they/them

I’m attracted to… femme guys and femme girls most of all

When people talk about me, I want them to… recognize that I’m probably not a butch lesbian.

I want people to understand… that gender is so not written in stone, especially for me. And don’t even think about making a joke about transpeople. When people laugh at transwomen, crossdressers, talk about “sex changes”, etc. it hurts my feelings. I know I’m weird, but jeez, I’m not a joke.

About Nola
Southern kid too butch to be a belle. Never expected to be this queer. Skipped school until I was 19, gave college a try and it turns out I’m pretty good at it. I enjoy Marvel movies weight lifting and learning ASL

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Posted by on June 29th, 2015 at 08:00 am

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Profile: Jul


You can call me… Jul

I identify as… a genderqueer individual.

As far as third-person pronouns go, … they/them but I’d like to know how he/him fits.

I’m attracted to… females, that is any individual who indentifies as female.

When people talk about me, I want them to… Ignore my gender, assume that I am a person, not a ‘man’ or a ‘woman’.

I want people to understand… That gender is an spectrum and not a ‘two option list’.

About Jul
I’m a linguistics student, 20yo, mexican. I’m still trying to figure myself out, but I want to live by Leslie Feinberg’s words: “Gender is the poetry each of us makes out of the language we are taught”.

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Posted by on June 25th, 2015 at 08:00 am

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Profile: Pickapon


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You can call me… Pickapon [or Pick, for short.]

I identify as… Bigender [Male/Genderqueer]

As far as third-person pronouns go, … He/They pronouns please! I might try other ones, but for now, use the ones I just said 5 seconds ago.

I’m attracted to… Males/Masculinity, although if you’re not any of those, but you’re cute, go for it!

Bonus if you give good hugs

When people talk about me, I want them to… use my pronouns. Like, Gosh, it’s almost like nobody knows that she pronouns make me feel literally sick from dysphoria!

I want people to understand… that there are more than 2 genders i s2g the number of times i get misgendered sucks

About Pickapon [or Pick, for short.]
im homestuck trash bye

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Posted by on June 17th, 2015 at 08:00 am

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Profile: Cyd


You can call me… Cyd

I identify as… pansexual polyamorous kinky cis bear

As far as third-person pronouns go, … regular male pronouns are fine

I’m attracted to… people across the gender spectrum

When people talk about me, I want them to… be gentle and understanding

I want people to understand… that my sexual and gender idea are not limited to what you see

About Cyd
I’m married to a ciscender woman and we’ve been monogamous for 17 years. I have two daughters, 4 and 8. I’m a professional therapist and a life time geek. I love RPG’s, comics, animation, science fiction, fantasy, something of a cinephile (though I don’t get the chance to see many movies these days)

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Posted by on June 15th, 2015 at 08:00 am

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Profile: Nini


You can call me… Nini

I identify as… Genderfluid

As far as third-person pronouns go, … they/their/them

I’m attracted to… everyone under the sun

When people talk about me, I want them to… refer to me by my preferred pronouns and name

I want people to understand… That my appearance and my gender should not effect which pronouns you use to describe me with. My pronouns are my own personal choice.

About Nini

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Posted by on June 5th, 2015 at 08:00 am

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Profile: Lee


You can call me… Lee

I identify as… My gender identity is female. My energy is feminine with heavy masculine overtones. And my gender expression is queer.

I see myself as a gender variant because I want to keep my female body, but also push it towards being more male like (muscular, beard, lower voice, boxy silhouette, etc).

As far as third-person pronouns go, … I identify with She/her, but also like to be called he/him.

I’m attracted to… Mostly I’m into men. Sometimes I’m attracted to people of other genders, but not as often.

When people talk about me, I want them to… Be honest. We can’t understand gender better without being real about it.

I want people to understand… That queerness comes in many forms and they’re all okay. And that people like me aren’t common, but we do exist. And we are just as valid and deserving of respect as anyone else.

About Lee

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Posted by on June 3rd, 2015 at 08:00 am

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Profile: Mav


You can call me… Mav

I identify as… Agender or Male

As far as third-person pronouns go, … They/them or He/him

I’m attracted to… no one really, but the occasional other non-binary or femme will cause some romantic feels to flare up (Grey-Aromantic Asexual represent!)

When people talk about me, I want them to… just respect my pronouns and name.

I want people to understand… that gender expressions and gender identity don’t always match up.

About Mav
Hi I’m Mav and I’m a Scorpio/INTJ who just doodles around (on the internet, on my drawing tablet, and sketchbook). I really like baking, reading, and sometimes I just like to sleep.

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Posted by on May 30th, 2015 at 08:00 am

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Profile: Jay


You can call me… Jay

I identify as… Genderqueer or transexual (Still getting used to all the terminology!), biological male.

As far as third-person pronouns go, … He

I’m attracted to… Men sexually, women as close friends

When people talk about me, I want them to… Not think any different of me should they find out. Regarding those people who know me but haven’t known this particular facet of me, to remember i’m the same person I have always been.

I want people to understand… That those of us who have different sexual preferences or gender identifications are people too-just like them.

About Jay
I’m a 43 year old male who works in the medical field. I’ve been married to a woman for 17 years (that’s a whole other story) and only came out to her about a year ago. That was tough enough but it was made a little easier by the fact that I have always been faithful to her (though temptation has been very hard to resist.) Anyway, thats a big reason I’m here-to be able to communicate with others who might actually understand what I’m going through.

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Posted by on May 26th, 2015 at 08:00 am

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Profile: Oliverrrrrrr


You can call me… Oliverrrrrrr (or O-Liver) (or just Oliver works too I guess)

I identify as… round up to man. I’m sure there’s an actual metric out there for gender already, but if you take the Kinsey scale and alter the parameters so that 0 = totally and completely binary cisgender and 6 = totally and completely binary transgender, I’m probably… a 4? ish?

Also nerd, queer, gay, bi, man, Quaker, weirdo, dog crazy, somewhat non-binary, feminist, son, future/aspiring dad, terrible punner, intellectual, armchair linguist, and someone who has a love-hate relationship with labels.

As far as third-person pronouns go, … He, him, his, himself, and his (this pronoun performs two functions! I think. For example “that is his jacket” aka “that jacket belongs to him” vs. “that is his” aka “that belongs to him” – ask a real linguist about this, I just enjoy the taste of upholstery. And also wordplay. Anyway I think it’s sort of similar to the difference between “that” in “that is a table” and “the tables that turn.”)

I’m attracted to… Attracted mostly to men in gay/queer porn, and also Tom Hardy, these days. Sometimes women and other individuals. Especially if they’re super muscular and queer looking, oh god. I swear, lesbians ruined me for straight girls. (Life ruined me for straight guys, womp womp.)

IRL? I don’t even know anymore. I feel like it comes and goes. I haven’t really been into anyone for the last year and a half, despite my libido shooting way the hell up once I started testosterone. It’s very strange for me!

When people talk about me, I want them to… be kind? I’m a work in progress.

I want people to understand… 1. that we are all born into systems of oppression and therefore inevitably shaped by them; that we all participate in systems of oppression, including those that oppress us specifically; and that this is actually helpful, because it means that we all have the power to change and subvert these systems, and rebuild better systems.

2. that neither humanity as a whole, nor any individual human, is perfectible; not just that we’ll never reach perfection, or that our imperfect minds are incapable of conceiving of any kind of perfection that isn’t somehow flawed – both true – but that the entire paradigm of perfection and perfectibility is flawed and missing the point of existence. I guess I’m mostly talking to myself here?

3. that labels, categories, and generalizations are both useful and limited.

4. nuance. I guess that’s the underlying theme here.

About Oliverrrrrrr (or O-Liver) (or just Oliver works too I guess)
Clearly I’ve rambled enough already. But you can find me at jabez-dawes.tumblr.com – and if you play Fallen London (which you shoulddddd), I’m The Jabez Dawes and I check my messages on the reg because I’m supes addicted.

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Posted by on May 24th, 2015 at 08:00 am

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Profile: Pax


You can call me… Pax

I identify as… a genderflux bisexual

As far as third-person pronouns go, … female or ce/cir/cirs/cirself

I’m attracted to… All genders

When people talk about me, I want them to… Be nice

I want people to understand… That gender roles are outdated

About Pax
Heya people!

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Posted by on May 18th, 2015 at 08:00 am

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Profile: Arawn or Aaron


You can call me… Arawn or Aaron

I identify as… FTM, genderqueer, demiboy

As far as third-person pronouns go, … He, him /Ze, hir

I’m attracted to… Sexually to girls, Panromantic.

When people talk about me, I want them to… I can’t control what people talk about me, I just don’t want them to be mean.

I want people to understand… Gender role and gender expression can be independent.

About Arawn or Aaron
I like to be male, but I want to have female beauty as well, I like to look feminine without using feminine clothes at all.

I’ve already gone through testosterone, breast surgery and my uterus is gone, as well as a male legal name and identity, so, most of my actual fellows don’t know that I’m trans… its kind of lonely.
I love cats, movies (I’m a film student), cartoons/manga, rock/metal, sci-fi, combat related stuff and mythology related stuff.

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Posted by on May 14th, 2015 at 08:00 am

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Profile: Frankie


You can call me… Frankie, or ‘You’, jus as long as you don’t call me late for dinner.

I identify as… a huge tomboy.

As far as third-person pronouns go, … She/He I don’t mind, please just don’t say ‘It’.

I’m attracted to… Good humoured, knd, intelligent, genuine people.

When people talk about me, I want them to… Make it sound like I’m a badass rock star with 8 Grammies.

I want people to understand… that they shouldn’t look at others and try to figure out their preferences and identities. They should look at them and wonder if they have a charming personality.

About Frankie, or ‘You’, jus as long as you don’t call me late for dinner.

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Posted by on May 6th, 2015 at 08:00 am

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Profile: Joka or Alex


You can call me… Joka or Alex

I identify as… Gender fluid

As far as third-person pronouns go, … Depends on current feelings but prefer they most of the time

I’m attracted to… Anyone, mostly girly boys and boyish girls and especially gender fluid people.

When people talk about me, I want them to… Use my correct pronouns, stop gendering me so much.

I want people to understand… That it’s real, it’s not weird, and I really don’t care what you think- it’s my body and my mind. I feel this way and it is completely valid.

About Joka or Alex

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Posted by on April 28th, 2015 at 08:00 am

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Profile: Ann


You can call me… Ann

I identify as… genderqueer. Genetically female, feel half female, half neutral.

As far as third-person pronouns go, … She/her they/their

I’m attracted to… men, masculine genderqueer people

When people talk about me, I want them to… not gossip, be nice, be informed about what they say and the impact it can have.

I want people to understand… it’s ok to be genderqueer, we are people too

About Ann
18, freshmen in college, media arts major, Cambodian/South Korean American, cat lover, and born missing the pinky finger on my left hand

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Posted by on April 24th, 2015 at 08:00 am

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Profile: Taylor


You can call me… Taylor

I identify as… genetically female agender

As far as third-person pronouns go, … my name or they/their

I’m attracted to… girls

When people talk about me, I want them to… not spread rumors

I want people to understand… Im just a person

About Taylor
I am 16 years old, I love history,running,photography and driving. I am Jamaican-American and love my rich culture. I want to be a photo journalist and human rights advocate.

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Posted by on April 20th, 2015 at 08:00 am

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Profile: Kimberley


You can call me… Kimberley

I identify as… Gender Fluid (leaning towards femme)

As far as third-person pronouns go, … I prefer ‘they.’ Though ‘she’ or ‘he’ is OK depending on how I’m presenting.

I’m attracted to… Adult humans. Intelligence. Kindness.

When people talk about me, I want them to… Be respectful.

I want people to understand… Me (I want people to understand me). That I want to understand them. That we all are more than the labels and stereotypes placed upon us. That gender has more than 2 choices. A gazillion other things… ;)

About Kimberley
If you want to know more about me, info on http://www.mskimberley.com/ is a slice of who I am. :)

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Posted by on April 16th, 2015 at 08:00 am

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Profile: Harley


You can call me… Harley

I identify as… Agender, pretty butch, and a pretty butch. Also aromantic and bisexual.

As far as third-person pronouns go, … They and them is best, but I’m alright with all pronouns.

I’m attracted to… Sexually, everyone. Romantically, no one. Platonically, everyone, especially my best friend.

When people talk about me, I want them to… Focus on who I am, not who I’m (not) dating and who I’m (totally) sleeping with.

I want people to understand… That just because I don’t love anyone romantically, doesn’t mean that I can’t love at all. There are many different types of love out there. Romance isn’t what defines us.

About Harley

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Posted by on April 10th, 2015 at 08:00 am

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Profile: KT


You can call me… KT

I identify as… genderfluid, panromantic, and demisexual.

As far as third-person pronouns go, … It would be much appreciated if you would use they/them.

I’m attracted to… all genders romantically.

When people talk about me, I want them to… say nice things about my personality and that I make a good impression on others.

I want people to understand… I can’t be open about my sexuality and gender because there are hateful, ignorant people in this world.

About KT
Hi there, I’m KT. I’m a hella gay nerd. I have an INFJ personality and Libra zodiac sign. I’m a feminist, slam poetry writer, and a LGBT+ rights activist. I dabble in the art of watching anime and reading numerous books. I’m not open about my sexuality or gender, so I’ve only told a few close friends, who were very accepting. That’s about it! c:

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Posted by on April 4th, 2015 at 08:00 am

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Profile: Matthew


You can call me… Matthew or Melisa

I identify as… Me, but I suppose I’m gender-fluid leaning towards girlish

As far as third-person pronouns go, … He, she, him, her, etc. I don’t particularly care. I do like the female pronouns though

I’m attracted to… Females (sex and gender), that are tall, smart, and redheaded. Someone who can put up with my smart*ssness and return with smart*ssness in kind. That’s what I look for, over looks. Another needed is a love of reading, preferably science fiction and fantasy

When people talk about me, I want them to… Tell the truth, the whole truth, and nothing but the truth, unless you’re planning a surprise party.

I want people to understand… That I enjoy being me, and can’t help it when I’m acting smart

About Matthew or Melisa
I’m 16 years of age, a nerd, and enjoy reading fantasy and science fiction, playing video games like Pokémon and The Legend of Zelda, and debating. I end up pissing people off because I can’t help being a smart*ss. I’ve been gender fluid since October 2014, and enjoy cross-dressing. I have yet to come out to my family.

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Posted by on March 31st, 2015 at 08:00 am

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Profile: Ashley/Ashton



You can call me… Ashley/Ashton

I identify as… Female to Male..

As far as third-person pronouns go, … Him/his. Though im used to female ones.

I’m attracted to… Females, males, personally and hair.

When people talk about me, I want them to… Use my pronouns and name. And not hate me

I want people to understand… that why would i want to do this for attention. Im so scared of being bullied and hurt.

About Ashley/Ashton
I like eating and sleeping. Though im gonna start actually living and feeling okay soon i hope.

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Posted by on March 29th, 2015 at 08:00 am

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