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Profile: Maya


You can call me… Maya

I identify as… An androgynous/Genderfluid person/woman, often shifting between Demiboy and Demigirl but always leaning more towards the androgynous side (and I can very occasionally rock a skirt or a dress!) :)

As far as third-person pronouns go, … They/them but I’m also cool with she/her

I’m attracted to… Mostly women and other non binary people.

When people talk about me, I want them to… Respect that I didn’t choose to be androgynous and I’ve been attempting to express this side of me since I was 14. Also to realise that just because I’m in a dress or a skirt it doesn’t devalidate my androgynous/genderfluid identity – maybe this is more how I feel about it than how other people do. Overall I want people to be brave and be kind and I will do the same for them.

I want people to understand… That I am not my gender/androgynous presentation. My gender is me.

About Maya
Guitars, tattoos, bars, coffee and friendly people. Also any sort of music production and a lot of gigs and festivals are always good :) oh yeah and cats!

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Posted by on May 24th, 2016 at 08:00 am

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Profile: Mikaela


You can call me… Mikaela, or, I’ve been thinking about Blue

I identify as… Agender.

As far as third-person pronouns go, … They/them – though I let my close friends use she/her because it’s more familiar and I know they respect my identity. For people I don’t know as well, though, I’m more strict.

I’m attracted to… Mostly girls, but I have a penchant for sweet, pretty boys.

When people talk about me, I want them to… Be respectful, even when I’m not there. To not think of me as a girl just because my body is gendered by beauty standards both in society at large and the queer community itself.

I want people to understand… That even though I look like a girl and sometimes call myself one, you don’t get to. I’m just as trans as anyone else.

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Posted by on May 23rd, 2016 at 10:00 am

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Profile: Leo


You can call me… Leo

I identify as… masculine agender/ genderflux

As far as third-person pronouns go, … my pronouns are he/they

I’m attracted to… romantically: all genders,, sexually: Im demigraysexual

When people talk about me, I want them to… be able to use my pronouns comfortably, and categorize me based on my personality rather than my gender

I want people to understand… I dont do this for fun, Im willing to be patient as long as youre willing to be understanding, and you can relax,, my life doesnt revolve around my gender

About Leo
@omegajellybeans on tumblr ;)

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Posted by on May 22nd, 2016 at 10:00 am

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Profile: Aspen


You can call me… Aspen

I identify as… Bigender (demigirl + demiguy, usually at once)

As far as third-person pronouns go, … I’m fine with they/them, along with he/she. No pronouns seem to fit me so I’m really just fine with whatever to be completely honest!

I’m attracted to… No one sexually bc I’m super ace, but I’m demi/panromantic :) (i also rly loved short/brightly coloured hair)

When people talk about me, I want them to… NOT PERCEIVE ME AS ONE GENDER!! I know that pretty much everyone I will ever meet will see me as either female or male, but I still like to hope!

I want people to understand… That it is completely possible to feel more than one gender at once, and that its just as, if not more, confusing than it sounds. Also, I want people to understand that there is not such thing as being “not trans enough”.

About Aspen

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Posted by on May 21st, 2016 at 10:00 am

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Profile: Mimi/Em


You can call me… Mimi/Em

I identify as… Genderfluid Unicorn. Or your supreme overlord, whichever :)

As far as third-person pronouns go, … Ey/Em are preferred, but They/Them are also accepted :)

I’m attracted to… All genders, but none sexually

When people talk about me, I want them to… Not see me as what my body shows, but what my personality shows! And to not call me ‘miss’. I hate that.

I want people to understand… This is not a joke! I am serious about being genderfluid! So please respect my pronouns!! And if you do mess up, don’t get so huffy about it! Please!

About Mimi/Em
I never really knew who I was, until my brother suggested that I might be genderfluid. I was repeating that over and over to myself for the rest of that day, and every time I heard it, it felt so right! I never felt like a complete girl anyway, and sometimes I felt like a boy, but I knew I wasn’t transgender. It was the best feeling to figure out who I was! And when I changed my pronouns, I couldn’t be happier! I have yet to come out to my parents, since they’d say it wasn’t real, or that it was just a phase. It really is awesome! And I realized that I was also panromantic, which felt right as well! And Asexual as well! This has been a great year for me, since I am finally realizing who I am at 15. After 10 years of questioning, I have the answers.

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Posted by on May 20th, 2016 at 10:00 am

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Profile: Grey


You can call me… Grey

I identify as… Agender

As far as third-person pronouns go, … They/Them/Their

I’m attracted to… Men sexually, males and females romantically

When people talk about me, I want them to… Recognize who I am inside rather than who I am outside.

I want people to understand… It hurts to be recognized as female just because you can’t understand who I am.

About Grey
I’ve always loved art and individuality, and never thought of myself as a girl or boy. It was just recently, however, that I realized I was agender(or at least, could put a name to myself)

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Posted by on May 19th, 2016 at 10:00 am

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Profile: Jaycee


You can call me… Jaycee

I identify as… Panromantic queer demigirl

As far as third-person pronouns go, … She/her

I’m attracted to… Men, androgynes, non-binary people, some women as I meet them (so much depends on who you are, not what you are; I feel the most immediate physical attraction towards men and nb individuals, but attraction can grow towards anyone if they are the right person)

When people talk about me, I want them to… Speak fondly and admiringly of my creativity and my kindness first and foremost

I want people to understand… Being a mom doesn’t mean I’m cisgendered, heterosexual/romantic, pro-life, or any number of other things. Please, please don’t use my child-bearing status as a means of assuming literally anything about my life.

About Jaycee
mid-30s, writer, blogger, high school Special Ed teacher. Married to a cis-man, I’ve got a young son at home (born at the end of 2014).

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Posted by on May 18th, 2016 at 10:00 am

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Profile: Aidan


You can call me… Aidan.

I identify as… male, but I don’t really think certain items of clothing belong to either gender. It sounds confusing, but moving on.

As far as third-person pronouns go, … I don’t normally use them. He/Him is the usual.

I’m attracted to… people who can put up with me, people with open minds, people who love music or just have huge passions.

When people talk about me, I want them to… Look beyond gender. Look beyond me. And buy me some Starbucks. (Kidding, sort of.)

Overall just be polite and not weird around me. I’m sensitive about things and I get nervous super easily.

I want people to understand… that every aspect of a person is complex, and you will never fully understand a person’s view unless you are them.

I want people to understand that I do have anxiety and depression, and more. And that I’m easily manipulated by words. Don’t tell me I can’t pass as a male. Or that if I’m this, I must do that. Being myself doesn’t require a guidebook.

I’d also like people to understand the difference between your and you’re.

About Aidan.
Hello! I’m Aidan, and I’m literally turning seventeen in four days. I’m a musician, artist, writer, and photographer who probably doesn’t have any talent within me. However, I love these things and they keep me going.

I live in a small town, which isn’t too fun.
I enjoy metal music. Rock music. All music.
I like reading a lot.
I’m not interesting.
It’s almost 2:30 in the morning, what am I doing?

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Posted by on May 17th, 2016 at 10:00 am

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Profile: Hana/Jules/Sygs


You can call me… Hana/Jules/Sygs

I identify as… genderfluid or non-binary/demisexual and panromantic/a chill dude doing chill stuff. It’d be cool if people see me as androgynous.

As far as third-person pronouns go, … he/she/them are cool.

I’m attracted to… anyone who’s genuine and doesn’t judge based on how I identify.

When people talk about me, I want them to… treat me like a human being with feelings.

I want people to understand… that gender is absolutely fluid. Who cares if you identify as a demiboy today and genderfluid tomorrow.

About Hana/Jules/Sygs
Illustrator and a newbie gamedev. you can find my stuff on hanadrawsthings (tumblr)

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Posted by on May 16th, 2016 at 08:00 am

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Profile: Taylor


You can call me… Taylor

I identify as… I was born intersex but I identify very strongly as female. My mom very wisely did not let the doctors operate on me and raised me as neutrally as possible. I gravitated very heavily towards feminine things and began calling myself a girl when I was almost 4. I’m very grateful for the way my mom raised me.

As far as third-person pronouns go, … She/her

I’m attracted to… Men romantically and not a soul sexually

When people talk about me, I want them to… Treat me like every other woman

I want people to understand… I am for all intents and purposes a woman

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Posted by on May 14th, 2016 at 08:00 am

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Profile: Liz


You can call me… Liz

I identify as… an aromantic, asexual, agender person

As far as third-person pronouns go, … I prefer ‘they/them/theirs’, though it can be kinda fluid (he/him/his, she/her/hers, ne/nim/neirs) on some days

I’m attracted to… friends-wise; acceptance, intelligence, and general chill

When people talk about me, I want them to… realise that there’s more to me than what they can see

I want people to understand… that if they screw up my pronouns a few times, that’s fine; just don’t make a big deal about it, correct it, and move on with life/your sentence

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Posted by on May 12th, 2016 at 08:00 am

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Profile: Striffy


You can call me… Striffy

I identify as… An unidentified anomaly atm.

As far as third-person pronouns go, … they/him

I’m attracted to… People, but not the sexy times.

When people talk about me, I want them to… Respect I have ears and feelings.

I want people to understand… That I’m still just me.

About Striffy
I’m a confused 15 year old who just needs a bit of help getting to where they want to be in terms of understanding. It’s nice to meet you :3

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Posted by on May 10th, 2016 at 08:00 am

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Profile: Rachel


You can call me… Rachel

I identify as… Female. Technically I am a AMAB trans female but why should the body I was born in matter

As far as third-person pronouns go, … She/her

I’m attracted to… Men, my amazing husband of 5 years

When people talk about me, I want them to… Treat me like the female I am

I want people to understand… I am female.

About Rachel
I feel very fortunate to have an incredibly supportive husband, an amazing sister who not only taught me how to do my hair and makeup and how to dress but financially supported me through my transition. I am a graphic artist and a crazy cat lady.

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Posted by on May 2nd, 2016 at 10:00 am

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Profile: Zie


You can call me… Zie

I identify as… non-binary trans* or gender queer/fluid or third gender

As far as third-person pronouns go, … they/their/them

I’m attracted to… men both cis/trans* curious around cis women and trans* women

When people talk about me, I want them to… recognize that i am a human being first and foremost, that making a genuine effort to use correct pronoun and rectify their mistakes (practice make persistence) whether you are talking about me or to me

I want people to understand… the correct pronouns and names are vital in respect of social transitions

About Zie

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Posted by on May 1st, 2016 at 10:00 am

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Profile: Shayne


You can call me… Shayne

I identify as… Non-binary, asexual, panromantic, and an utter nerd.

As far as third-person pronouns go, … They/them is best, but she/her is also ok. I don’t get called he/him much because I usually present as feminine. No neo-pronouns please!

I’m attracted to… People (romantically) and nothing (sexually)

When people talk about me, I want them to… know that my orientation does not define who I am.

I want people to understand… all orientations lie on a spectrum, and no one is better than any other. Just because you like purple and someone else likes red doesn’t mean the bottom of the rainbow is better than the top.

About Shayne
English nerd, Killjoy, Potterhead, Whovian, Sherlockian, bookworm

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Posted by on April 30th, 2016 at 10:00 am

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Profile: Aidan



You can call me… Aidan.

I identify as… male, but I don’t really think certain items of clothing belong to either gender. It sounds confusing, but moving on.

As far as third-person pronouns go, … I don’t normally use them. He/Him is the usual.

I’m attracted to… people who can put up with me, people with open minds, people who love music or just have huge passions.

When people talk about me, I want them to… Look beyond gender. Look beyond me. And buy me some Starbucks. (Kidding, sort of.)

Overall just be polite and not weird around me. I’m sensitive about things and I get nervous super easily.

I want people to understand… that every aspect of a person is complex, and you will never fully understand a person’s view unless you are them.

I want people to understand that I do have anxiety and depression, and more. And that I’m easily manipulated by words. Don’t tell me I can’t pass as a male. Or that if I’m this, I must do that. Being myself doesn’t require a guidebook.

I’d also like people to understand the difference between your and you’re.

About Aidan.
Hello! I’m Aidan, and I’m literally turning seventeen in four days. I’m a musician, artist, writer, and photographer who probably doesn’t have any talent within me. However, I love these things and they keep me going.

I live in a small town, which isn’t too fun.
I enjoy metal music. Rock music. All music.
I like reading a lot.
I’m not interesting.
It’s almost 2:30 in the morning, what am I doing?

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Posted by on April 29th, 2016 at 10:00 am

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Profile: Sage



You can call me… Sage

I identify as… pansexual genderqueer transgender man

As far as third-person pronouns go, … I prefer he and him

I’m attracted to… Intelligent open minded people and androgynous people

When people talk about me, I want them to… Talk about me not just my gender and sexuality

I want people to understand… Just because I am a transgender man that doesn’t mean I can’t like wearing dresses and traditionally female things

About Sage

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Posted by on April 28th, 2016 at 10:00 am

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Profile: Bella


You can call me… Bella

I identify as… Female with a genital issue

As far as third-person pronouns go, … I prefer the she set, even though my “shell” is male

I’m attracted to… Energy. Intelligence. Power. Emotion. Especially the punk femme nerd lesbian sort. Coffee houses. Bars. Tattoos. Lovers that truly love each other.

When people talk about me, I want them to… not be derogatory

I want people to understand… that I don’t have to explain myself to anyone to make myself feel good and neither does anybody else. I just am. So are they. So are you. So it is. Now lets live free.

About Bella
I was married once to a beautiful woman whom I truly loved with every cell of my being. I never lived as me, I lived as the MAN she wanted. I loved her but hated the moment. I lived as a man in a mans world but just wanted to feel pretty. To be appreciated as the woman I am. Because I wasn’t honest about my true self I couldn’t live up to the idea she had of me, because she didn’t know me. She knew a lie. And I lost the love of my life. If I would have been honest from the start would this have ever worked? Probably not, but 4 souls would not have endured the torture of divorce. Yes we had 2 children together. So be honest with yourself, with your partner, buck up and live your life on your terms.


Posted by on April 27th, 2016 at 10:00 am

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Profile: August Truman Pratt


You can call me… August Truman Pratt

I identify as… a male, but trans man on all dating sights. I don’t want to mislead anyone.

As far as third-person pronouns go, … he. of course I don’t mind slips ups every once in a while.

I’m attracted to… everyone, especially other trans men. I have no idea why.

When people talk about me, I want them to… think I’m a good person, despite being heated and awkward, depending on the day.

I want people to understand… that this is not a phase and that there are a lot of things I consider more important than remaining quiet about my gender.

About August Truman Pratt
Tastefully… I like politics, but only one sided politics. I love my cat, but not many others. I run. I breath. I music… I’m working on building up the courage to correct people when they call me the wrong name or use the wrong pronouns. I have been allowing it so long after I came out that I am scared to say anything now.

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Posted by on April 26th, 2016 at 10:00 am

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Profile: Whatever you’d like


You can call me… Whatever you’d like

I identify as… I don’t really know if I “identify” at all.
I’m biologically male, and I accept that, but I’ve never “felt” a gender one way or another.
So, agender, I guess.

As far as third-person pronouns go, … What does it matter what you use when referring to me when talking to someone else? As long as you both know who you’re talking about, the pronouns are doing their job. I don’t really care.

I’m attracted to… People who are loving, accepting, and cute (and preferably have a penis).

When people talk about me, I want them to… Be honest and not fear the repercussions of the truth.

I want people to understand… Humans have a need to sort, label, and group but there is much more to truth than can be found by imposing restrictions.

About Whatever you’d like
I’ve been going nameless for about three years now; allowing others to choose what they want to call me.
I try not to label myself and don’t define myself by those that others give me.
I have hopes, dreams, and aspirations like anyone else but, truly, all that I wish to be is “me”.
So much stress is caused by trying to be “something” – I take pleasure in the joy of simply being.

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Posted by on April 20th, 2016 at 08:00 am

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