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Profile: Alex


You can call me… Alex: my real name gives me dysphoria

I identify as… Genderfluid/non binary

As far as third-person pronouns go, … i mostly use the males ones but i prefer they/them/theirs

I’m attracted to… all genders idk i think i’m pansexual

When people talk about me, I want them to… refer me like a genderfluid person and not a girl its really uncomfortable srsl

I want people to understand… that even i look like a girl i don’t like to call me like that, and sometimes the ways that they call me can hurt

About Alex my real name gives me dysphoria
i’m a person that born female but actually identify as another gender, i like to draw and lofi hip hop music, i like to wear masculine and neutral clothes, i constantly suffer of anxiety and stress but is not a really bad problem

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Posted by on November 8th, 2017 at 08:00 am

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Profile: Kimmyk


You can call me… Kimmyk

I identify as… genderqueer.

As far as third-person pronouns go, … “IT” is cruel, how is someone supposed to get involved if people don’t know who you really are?

I’m attracted to… People, young, old,in between, and any other diasphorics such as myself.

When people talk about me, I want them to… decide for themselves who, or what I actually am.

I want people to understand… Note EVERYONE has their life all figured out.

About Kimmyk
I am a 61 year old trans who has only recently discovered his true identity herself

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Posted by on November 2nd, 2017 at 08:00 am

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Profile: Asher


You can call me… Asher

I identify as… Demi-boy

As far as third-person pronouns go, … They/them, please.

I’m attracted to… -All genders
-Tomboyish
-short hair

When people talk about me, I want them to… Realize that although I have Aspergers I have a great personality.

I want people to understand… You shouldn’t let gender define you, you define it.

About Asher
I like FNaF, Overwatch and BAtIM. I’m ace and panromantic. I have transphobic parents but I still love them with my own heart.

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Posted by on October 23rd, 2017 at 08:00 am

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Profile: Jaz


You can call me… Jaz

I identify as… genderfluid/transgender

As far as third-person pronouns go, … don’t use them; he/him, she/her

I’m attracted to… guys gnerally

When people talk about me, I want them to… not refer to me as particularly girly and respect the fact that I don’t care if they think I’m too young to know about my gender.

I want people to understand… that love is love, no one has the right to tell someone else who they can and can’t love, who they can and can’t marry.

About Jaz
I’m fourteen, love singing, and music- I play violin and guitar. I cox for my school (rowing). I’m also pretty sure my school hates me because they’re very conservative (and all-girls).

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Posted by on October 21st, 2017 at 08:00 am

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Profile: Gabriel


You can call me… Gabriel

I identify as… Androgynous ftm ??

As far as third-person pronouns go, … Male pronouns

I’m attracted to… Intelligence, someone with a great laugh, someone who likes books

When people talk about me, I want them to… Focus on me as a person, and not mention anything about my sexuality/gender

I want people to understand… Genders can be real without already having a label

About Gabriel
I love reading, writing, anime, running and rain, and if anyone feels alone, I’d love to talk and make any new friends

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Posted by on October 19th, 2017 at 08:00 am

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Profile: Gab


You can call me… Gab

I identify as… Gender fluid

As far as third-person pronouns go, … I don’t really mind what pronouns you use if I haven’t specified.

I’m attracted to… Genuine, curious, and fun people.

When people talk about me, I want them to… Not try too hard to be completely correct.

I want people to understand… that I’m shy and I won’t always be prepared to talk about myself.

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Posted by on October 17th, 2017 at 08:00 am

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Profile: Gryffin


You can call me… Gryffin! Yes, like the mythical beast, I’m kind of a nerd. Fuji and the nickname Fuzzy are also cool!

I identify as… Nonbinary, somewhere around Demiboy. It’s confusing!

As far as third-person pronouns go, … I like the sound of He/Him and They/Them. You could also call me Sir, and son, but with other categories I like being more neutral; if I were ever in a romantic relationship, I’d want the other person to refer to me as their Datemate.

I’m attracted to… Friends! I like a good pal who I know well before it gets to that stage. Gender doesn’t matter, although their sexuality and level of comfort/discomfort with dating a person like me is highly considered, and I’d never force anything.

When people talk about me, I want them to… See me more for my current interests, like lizard catching and drawing, than for what I’ve done in the past.

I want people to understand… Misgendering someone, even as a brief word, can really ruin someone’s mood. Please stop saying “right this way, ladies!” when you don’t know whether someone in the group you’re referring to might not be a “lady.” It also bugs me when “he/she” comes up, because it’s easier to just say “they” and it covers so many more groups of people.

I also want people to understand that being my gender is not my choice. It’s not some edgy rebellious phase, and admittedly, I’ve googled “how to be cisgender” a lot in the past, and been really disappointed when every result was saying that you shouldn’t try and suppress. It took a friend abandoning me before I finally realized that I should try and accept myself. It’s still hard, especially being a christian with mostly all Christian friends, but despite still being mostly closeted I feel I’ve grown a bit as a person.

About Gryffin! Yes, like the mythical beast, I’m kind of a nerd. Fuji and the nickname Fuzzy are also cool!
I like the critters that few other people like. Cockroaches and lizards are my best pals! I also draw a lot! I’m insecure and mostly closeted, but striving to get better!

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Posted by on October 13th, 2017 at 08:00 am

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Profile: Ian


You can call me… Ian

I identify as… a heathen, a metalhead, and brainweird. Gender-wise, the most concise words I can put to is is non-binary femme man. My gender feels like waking up ten minutes before the alarm goes off and drifting in and out of peaceful relaxation before getting up and starting your day as well as the weird, heart-dropping feeling when you climb stairs in the dark and there’s one less step than you thought there was and your foot just… falls.

As far as third-person pronouns go, … I prefer xe/xem/xyr, but he/him/his is just fine too

I’m attracted to… kindness and curiosity. I tend to prefer people who are at least a little androgynous or willing to play with their presentation, but that might be because they feel safer than the alternative.

When people talk about me, I want them to… engage in good faith. It’s OK to make mistakes, it’s OK to not like me, and it’s OK to not understand who or what I am. What’s not OK is to assume that my gender is related to my mental health or infer that I’m making this up or doing it for attention.

I want people to understand… that just because you read me as a woman and I’m not interested in transitioning physically, it doesn’t make me any less of a man. You don’t have to understand me to accept me.

About Ian
A baby academic, I am currently unemployed and crying in Texas. I am scared of everything and, unfortunately, very little is scared of me. Very interested in promoting human rights, which shouldn’t be a polarizing thing, but, in this day and age, is.
I’ve got punk politics, goth sensibilities, and metal everything else. (kvlt is a subtype of femme and those who disagree can fight me).
All of my mistakes are developmentally appropriate.

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Posted by on October 11th, 2017 at 08:00 am

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Profile: Alex



You can call me… Alex

I identify as… polysexual, and right now i identify as agender, but i’m actually not totally positive of that

As far as third-person pronouns go, … i use they/them

I’m attracted to… lots of different people, lots of different things. definitely only female genitals. i definitely like girls, and as for non-binary genders, it really just depends on the individual person. no guys though

When people talk about me, I want them to… get to know me for me, instead of focusing on and getting hung up on my gender and identity

I want people to understand… that my gender identity doesn’t change who i am as a person, and that i’m struggling, and while i do appreciate the effort if you try to make me feel better or cheer me up, it more than likely won’t work and will just frustrate me. and that, more than anything, i need you to just listen to what i say and what i need if i’m depressed, dissociating, having an anxiety attack, etc.

About Alex
i’m alex, and i’m a kid that’s depression, anxiety, and gender dysphoria-ridden, way too personal, obsessed with hamilton, youtube, and all things music, an avid reader, fiction writer, and poet, a singer and drama nerd, and a full time procrastinator

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Posted by on September 9th, 2017 at 08:00 am

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Profile: skylar


You can call me… skylar

I identify as… (i’m not exactly sure anymore but i am closer to) transgender

As far as third-person pronouns go, … he him they them

I’m attracted to… girls and girls only sorry guys ;)

When people talk about me, I want them to… get my gender right and know that i’m not afraid of what other people think about it

I want people to understand… i may be a little confused but i know that i am me and that’s all that matters

About skylar
i’m a 15 year old person who loves to sing and dance and laugh

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Posted by on September 7th, 2017 at 08:00 am

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Profile: Nick, Nicky, Nicole


You can call me… Nick, Nicky, Nicole

I identify as… I’m not exactly sure… I’m used to being referred to as a girl, but I’m beginning to question that. So, nonbinary???

As far as third-person pronouns go, … I don’t really have a preference. Choose whatever you perceive me as at the time.

I’m attracted to… Girls and more feminine features. I love huge nerds.

When people talk about me, I want them to… See me without my gender getting in the way. My gender doesn’t define me, I am more than that.

I want people to understand… That I’m still figuring myself out. I’m experimenting and trying to learn more about myself. I’m not doing this for attention, I just want to feel comfortable with myself.

About Nick, Nicky, Nicole
I’m 16 years old. When I was a young kid I would play Pokémon a lot. I would choose to be a boy half of the time because I liked how it felt to be perceived that way. Sometimes I feel more like a girl, sometimes I feel more like a boy, and sometimes I’d rather be neither. I’m so thankful for my lgbt+ friends who taught me it’s okay to be yourself.

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Posted by on September 5th, 2017 at 08:00 am

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Profile: Joey or Joseph


You can call me… Joey or Joseph

I identify as… Non-binary, or gender neutral

As far as third-person pronouns go, … I go by They/Them/theirs pronouns

I’m attracted to… I’m pansexual

When people talk about me, I want them to… Be respectful of my pronouns and if someone slipped I’d like it if they caught themselves and just gently corrected themselves and continued like nothing happened.

I want people to understand… I’m just a rad little artist trying to help people out sometimes :3

About Joey or Joseph
Hello! I’m a pansexual, non-binary artist. I love cats and sleeping, I’m a very open and accepting person and love to help out people, I’m also 16.

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Posted by on August 29th, 2017 at 08:00 am

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Profile: Dre


You can call me… Dre

I identify as… Still figuring this out; as of right now, nonbinary or genderfluid are resonating best.

As far as third-person pronouns go, … Until I figure it out, I’m sticking with she/her (I’m AFAB).

I’m attracted to… “Female-bodied” people.

When people talk about me, I want them to… Respect me and be happy.

I want people to understand… Gender is complicated and I JUST started figuring this out. Be kind please.

About Dre

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Posted by on August 28th, 2017 at 08:00 am

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Profile: Taryn


You can call me… Taryn.

I identify as… agender/demigirl/bigender.

As far as third-person pronouns go, … I use she/her/hers but am often contemplate how I feel about they/them/theirs or ze/zir/zirs.

I’m attracted to… queer people of all genders, strong feminine people and sensitive masculine people.

When people talk about me, I want them to… know that small assumptions about me aren’t stereotyping; I dress the way I do in order to send a specific message.

I want people to understand… that it is dangerous to assume people fit into your assumed norms until they prove otherwise.

About Taryn.
Just trying to get Instagram famous like every other fashionable queer.

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Posted by on August 26th, 2017 at 08:00 am

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Profile: Alex


You can call me… Alex

I identify as… Male

As far as third-person pronouns go, … Either works :)
He/him
They/them

I’m attracted to… Mainly males, but females too

When people talk about me, I want them to… Restrain from being to critical. It’s not like I can’t handle criticism, gender is just a sensitive topic for me right now and I would much rather have only positivity around me currently.

I want people to understand… I’m still a bit confused with my gender right now, but after years of dealing with dysphoria I’m going to identify as male online.

About Alex

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Posted by on August 22nd, 2017 at 08:00 am

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Profile: Skyler


You can call me… Skyler is good, or Ash, its a cool nickname, right?

I identify as… Gender- idk right now, but I’m pansexual

As far as third-person pronouns go, … She or They

I’m attracted to… Honesty, being accepting and not a judgmental jerk…pretty eyes and a sense of humor and adventure

When people talk about me, I want them to… Be kind, but real, don’t lie to me, please? I just want to know if you’re okay.

I want people to understand… That I’m human, and words do hurt. So.. Just be careful

About Skyler, or Ash
I like to cosplay, watch anime and Marvel movies. Reading and drawing are fun too, and my best friend means they world to me; Hey Katie;Kyle

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Posted by on August 20th, 2017 at 08:00 am

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Profile: Jeri


You can call me… Jeri

I identify as… Trans Femme/Agender/Genderqueer and polyromantic or queeer

As far as third-person pronouns go, … I prefer “they” and “them”

I’m attracted to… Cis men who have shed their toxic masculinity, feminine men, trans men, non-binary femme/agender

When people talk about me, I want them to… Focus on the total package, and no not THAT package the real me in totality

I want people to understand… I’m not offended by mistakes that are dealt with nicely. I love open ended questions and revealing the real me.

About Jeri
I have chronicled my gender journey through various posts on my blog. This link lists them in chronological order from my decision to call myself Agender through my coming out as Trans Femme/Agender to all my Facebook friends, Here’s the list of posts about me:
https://jerbearinsantafe.wordpress.com/2017/04/15/my-gender-journey-posts-in-chronological-order/

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Posted by on August 18th, 2017 at 08:00 am

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Profile: Ormi Fay


You can call me… Ormi Fay

I identify as… A genderfluid pansexual

As far as third-person pronouns go, … She/her is fine. My gender expression has been mostly female, for the sake of keeping my job and not confusing the hell out of people. It doesn’t feel right about a third of the time. Maybe one day I will be brave enough to demand neutral pronouns.

I’m attracted to… Kind, thoughtful, beautiful souls. It doesn’t matter what parts they have on the outside.

When people talk about me, I want them to… Stop qualifying my achievements, behavior, or aspirations within their perceived gender limitations. Don’t tell me I am doing great for a “woman.” That’s offensive and wrong. I am doing alright for a human being.

I want people to understand… I can’t relate to the cis female experience, anymore than I can relate to the cis male experience. I’ve never been just one or the other. I am both and neither.

About Ormi Fay
A 31-year old who started their career in art and graphic design, only to gravitate years later to talent management. Because the most important part of any business is its people. Still loves art, music, tattoos and all manner of self-expression. Hopes to one day see a world free of gender bias.

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Posted by on August 16th, 2017 at 08:00 am

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Profile: Alyssa


You can call me… Alyssa

I identify as… Agender Non-Binary

As far as third-person pronouns go, … they/them

I’m attracted to… people

When people talk about me, I want them to… Acknowledge the fact that I’m not a girl but more importantly know that being trans isn’t who I am. I am Alyssa who just so happens to be trans. Just like I just so happen to have a size 8 1/2 shoe.

I want people to understand… I’m forgiving and won’t get mad if misgender me as long as you know you made a mistake. Also that being trans is not the only thing about me.

About Alyssa
I’m Alyssa. I’m 15 years old and I’m currently a Freshman living in Southern California. I’m starting to write blogs about transitioning and also might have a patreon soon. :)

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Posted by on August 6th, 2017 at 08:00 am

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Profile: Ty


You can call me… Ty

I identify as… Genderfluid, Genderqueer, Nonbinary…

As far as third-person pronouns go, … She is fine because I can’t be bothered to correct others every five minutes… But They/Them is fine too, It, Ze, pretty much whatever.

I’m attracted to… Kindness, loyalty, humor, dark, goofy, or otherwise. I am attracted to people who understand, people who see beyond the facade of a face and body. That sounds weird but whatever, I like personality, not body…

When people talk about me, I want them to… Talk from a good place, a kind place, with love or affection.

I want people to understand… That I don’t really know anything and I’m still confused and searching and sometimes it’s hurtful, but sometimes it’s exciting.

About Ty
Life is difficult and I write to sort through my own crazy thoughts.
I’m still super confused about myself and what I’m feeling and who I am and that’s okay.
Giant nerd.

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Posted by on August 4th, 2017 at 08:00 am

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