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Profile: Aster/Attie


You can call me… Aster/Attie

I identify as… Agenderfluid, agender but with a fluid nb part that never repeats itself (aka geminigender but that’s a really long word…)

As far as third-person pronouns go, … They/them but also ey/em (with our regional accent they sound the same!)

I’m attracted to… Every gender sensually, feminine or nb identifying sexually

When people talk about me, I want them to… Be respectful because I’m human too.

I want people to understand… Good grades do not equal self esteem. Though I may be perfect on paper, I’m really not.

About Aster/Attie
I’m a student who does theater semi-professionally who sings and dances and designs/pulls costumes. I have Hamilton and Les Mis obsessions and want to mod on tumblr to help out my community but due to a transphobic family I can’t.

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Posted by on July 27th, 2016 at 10:00 am

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Profile: Edyta


You can call me… Edyta

I identify as… I don’t even know, but something that has to do with female

As far as third-person pronouns go, … She/her or they/them. She/her is preferred over they/them, but NEVER he/him.

I’m attracted to… I’m definitely demipanromantic, but I’m also andro-asexual.

When people talk about me, I want them to… Fuggetaboutit

I want people to understand… I’m here, and I’m valid

About Edyta

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Posted by on July 27th, 2016 at 08:00 am

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Profile: Al



You can call me… Al

I identify as… a panromantic, asexual, agender Rocky Horror Picture Show super fan, photography nerd, and activist.

As far as third-person pronouns go, … I’ve been referred to with female pronouns my entire life so I don’t mind them, but I prefer they/their.

I’m attracted to… anyone regardless of their orientation or identity. In a strict romantic sense. No sexual attraction. Once again, asexual.

When people talk about me, I want them to… realize that I am more than my appearance and that there are big issues in this world that we can all conquer if we fight together and never give up.

I want people to understand… that asexuality is real and visible.

About Al
Tumblr aesthetic is 10/10 (cosmic-cvnt.tumblr.com) Super passionate about photography (asicurophotography.weebly.com)

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Posted by on July 26th, 2016 at 10:00 am

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Profile: Emory


You can call me… Emory

I identify as… Androgynous, genderqueer, ftm, boyish feminine boy, polyamorous, nerdy, hipster hippy, cat

As far as third-person pronouns go, … he him his and they them their

I’m attracted to… girls, boys, in the middle, and outside. NOT PANSEXUAL! Romantically attracted to: girls, non-binary,and trans guys

When people talk about me, I want them to… I want them to respect my point of view on how I perceive my gender and use the pronouns I have chosen. And please realize opinions can affect me not always in a negative way.

I want people to understand… That I don’t fit the gender norms and I am scared and awkward about. I have found out the terms that feel right when referring to me but I still can be confused or nervous if other people judge me for it or I am in a situation were I have to defend my identity. I hope we can all be kind to others and understand more about people so we avoid any unwarranted conflicts.

About Emory
I am quiet, shy, anxious, silly, funny, kind, quirky, and caring. Yeah…… I don’t know what else to say about myself. I’m so weird.

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Posted by on July 23rd, 2016 at 08:00 am

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Profile: Dee


You can call me… Dee

I identify as… a non binary person

As far as third-person pronouns go, … They/them or just Dee.

I’m attracted to… All genders and gender identities with a preference towards more feminine people. Beyond identity, I’m attracted to strong individuals who stand up for their beliefs, have a strong sense of self, and enjoy intellectual conversations.

When people talk about me, I want them to… Use my name and pronouns and just be nice.

I want people to understand… Having multiple marginalized identities can be hard (non-binary, pansexual, POC, mentally ill) and incredibly stressful.

About Dee
I’m a proud POC who is the VP of my college’s Black Student Union, as well as a member of the LGBT+ club and Active Minds. I’m a Public Policy and Sociology dual major whose goal is to advocate for people with marginalized identities.

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Posted by on July 19th, 2016 at 08:00 am

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Profile: Morey


You can call me… Morey

I identify as… Nonbinary

As far as third-person pronouns go, … I’d love people to use they/them pronouns for me

I’m attracted to… Pretty much anybody, though girls and enbies are cutest

When people talk about me, I want them to… Use my name, stop misgendering me, and accept me for who I am

I want people to understand… That I am not a girl, and that I am not a boy.

About Morey
One time, when I was working with a group of younger children, I introduced myself *properly* and this one kid asked me “how can you not be a girl or a boy?” After some explaining on my part, they said, “oh, are you a transgender?” “Cool, I’ve never met a transgender before.” They proceeded to ask who I would marry (as if that was based on gender at all *rolls eyes*). I responded, “I can marry whoever I damn well please!” And I swear the kids gave me a standing ovation. This brought tears to my eyes, how is it that children are so accepting, but adults just think you are making things up?

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Posted by on July 17th, 2016 at 08:00 am

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Profile: Em


You can call me… Em

I identify as… An Aromantic Pansexual Polyamorous individual.

As far as third-person pronouns go, … She/Her and/or They/Them

I’m attracted to… Masculine cis-women, androgynous transgender individuals, and hyper-masculine cis-men.

When people talk about me, I want them to… Say only what they know for certain, use the correct pronouns, and keep me in a positive but honest light.

I want people to understand… Gender is different from sex, gender expression does not equal orientation or gender identity, polyamorous individuals are not cheating, people have the right to identify as they wish, respect pronouns and having a Gender and Queer Theory major is completely valid.

About Em
A bookstore clerk, a domestic violence prevention and intervention center ambassador, full time student.
Artist, poet, singer.
Gender and Queer Theory major with a Human Rights minor.

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Posted by on July 13th, 2016 at 08:00 am

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Profile: K


You can call me… K

I identify as… Genderfluid/genderqueer. Yay!

As far as third-person pronouns go, … I prefer they/them, but if you mess my pronouns up, no worries :)

I’m attracted to… Nerds and vampires. Pansexual/panromantic.

When people talk about me, I want them to… not misgender or bad mouth me. It hurts.

I want people to understand… I’m shy, but PLEASE LOVE ME.

About K
I really like chocolate and equal rights. I have an adorable non binary partner and I love hugs.

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Posted by on July 11th, 2016 at 08:00 am

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Profile: Sofie


You can call me… Sofie

I identify as… a female, bisexual human being, that would be totally okay to live in both polygamy and monogamy.

As far as third-person pronouns go, … I like to be referred to as she, her and hers.

I’m attracted to… men and women, both sexually and romantically, but I don’t label myself, I just call myself “bisexual” because I think it fits me and if I ever fall in love with someone who does not identify as a man or woman, i’m totally okay with that as long as it’s my decision.

When people talk about me, I want them to… accept who or what I am. Because it’s not their choice, who or what I am and when they try to control me somehow, they don’t deserve my respect.

I want people to understand… that not every person on this world is automatically born as a heterosexual man / woman.
Sexuality, gender and preferences are spectra.
We are not labelled. You choose how you want to live.
You and only you.

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Posted by on July 9th, 2016 at 08:00 am

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Profile: Alex


You can call me… Alex

I identify as… Questioning. Probably genderfluid. On occasional days maybe a boy and on other occasional days a girl.

As far as third-person pronouns go, … Xe/Xem/Xyr/Xyrs or He/Him/His/His (although I’ve never tried this I want to) and if anyone I know is around She/Her/Her/Hers (Yes her and his are there twice)

I’m attracted to… Guys I think and maybe others. I haven’t had any actual crushes and have never been anywhere near a relationship. and I have no clue about my sexuality.

When people talk about me, I want them to… Use my pronouns but thats the extent to which they should be thinking about my gender when talking about me. And don’t act like I weird or special or different.

I want people to understand… I’m not mad at them if I respond quickly and a bit sharply to a pronoun mess up. And I’m just a kid but that doesn’t make me less understanding of this stuff or anything.

About Alex
I am a hiker (hope to hike the AT someday) but otherwise Im not considered sporty. I’m very independent. I don’t have a lot of friends and I never hang with them outside of school. I make my own meals for myself and I can be alone. I am part of a GSA but I can’t come out to them or anyone really. Its just too hard when you know them well.


Posted by on July 5th, 2016 at 08:00 am

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Profile: Felix Sasha Hartis


You can call me… Felix Sasha Hartis

I identify as… ftm trans, homoromantic asexual, fluid expression

As far as third-person pronouns go, … he/him/his, or they/them/theirs. He/him/his is my preferred set.

I’m attracted to… no one except Gerard Way. Just kidding, I’m ace. :) But Gerard is a verrrrry pretty person.

When people talk about me, I want them to… Think of me as a male individual with FEELINGS, and why yes I am wearing a flower crown and a skirt thank you very much. I want them to also know that I will accept anyone and everyone as long as they are being kind and respectful to others.

I want people to understand… I like wearing “girly” clothes sometimes but I am still a guy, and sometimes I refer to other people as “dude” and “bro” and sometimes when I’m being sassy “girl!” but I mean it as a completely genderneutral term.

About Felix Sasha Hartis
Hi! My name is Felix Sasha Hartis, and I am a teenage transboy living in the USA. I like music, and when I say music I mean anything between the ukulele screamo and gentle breezey lyrics of twenty one pilots, to the cymbal crashing, blood-curdling screams and tear-jerking melodies (i.e. WTTBP) of My Chemical Romance. And then the “what even is this” and “OH MY GOD THIS IS SO AMAZING AHHH” of Panic! At The Disco and The Brobecks. Wait, you mean this bio is about me? Not music? Oh. Okay. Well, I don’t really have anything else interesting to say. OKAy BAI.

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Posted by on July 4th, 2016 at 10:00 am

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Profile: Mica


You can call me… Mica

I identify as… Neither male nor female. I am both and none, like some sort of in between gender. I prefer the term “queer” to anything else.

As far as third-person pronouns go, … I was using male for a while even though I am female bodied, but lately I have been introduced to the Swedish gender neutral term “hen”, I like it.

I’m attracted to… Men, but only a certain type, I am not that interested in sex but love to cuddle up to a good man.

When people talk about me, I want them to… Think of me as anyone else, I know I am different but I’m not an alien. Treat me with respect as they would be expecting to be treated with respect.

I want people to understand… That they will never truly understand what it is like to be queer unless they are themselves. It hurts me to hear people talk as though I don’t know who I am, I do, they don’t. Again, respect.

About Mica
Forty seven years old, never felt like I belong to either gender but now becoming comfortable with myself for who I am. I have only a few good friends who love me for me and the support of my family is very important.

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Posted by on July 3rd, 2016 at 10:00 am

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Profile: Jem


You can call me… Jem

I identify as… no idea. i don’t feel agender because i don’t lack gender, but i’m not male or female or bigender. just… something. no labels please

As far as third-person pronouns go, … they/them :)

I’m attracted to… romantically: all guys, masculine girls and very feminine girls
physically: fem guys and all girls

**not looking for a partner. i am a smol 13 y/o

When people talk about me, I want them to… not try to label me because i don’t really want to be labeled

I want people to understand… that there aren’t 100000 genders. there may be a lot but it isn’t hard to learn them all

About Jem
i’m a huge nerd and love art and i’m horrible at sports. i spend most of my waking hours on the internet.

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Posted by on July 2nd, 2016 at 10:00 am

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Profile: Sean


You can call me… Sean

I identify as… AMAB Gender Neutral/agender – I don’t feel a disconnect from my male body, but I don’t identify with male or female. I love playing with masculinity and femininity.

As far as third-person pronouns go, … they/them or zhe/zhim/zherself pronouns, but I like when people mix it up. Don’t mind Male pronouns

I’m attracted to… Primarily other AMAB or masculine-of-center people, so I guess gay/androsexual. I like guys who are funny, witty and sweet.

When people talk about me, I want them to… recognise me for the person I am and who I want to be. And, above all else, be honest.

I want people to understand… I don’t want my physical body to restrict what and how I can present myself as.

About Sean
I have only recently come into understanding myself as a non-binary person, formerly identifying exclusively as a gay male. While the gay remains the same, my gender has finally made itself clear. I have always felt the restrictions on what AMAB and AFAB can do was the worst thing, and that people should be allowed at all times to do what they please.

If you every want to talk with me, my tumblr is thekunstisme. I just want to meet other non-binary people and share in that experience.

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Posted by on July 1st, 2016 at 10:00 am

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Profile: Niko


You can call me… Niko

I identify as… An androsexual mascandrogyne

As far as third-person pronouns go, … I prefer “Niko” and “Niko’s”. Like if someone says “He went to his house”, I would like “Niko went to Niko’s house”

I’m attracted to… Men <3

When people talk about me, I want them to… To treat me like any other person.

I want people to understand… That I’m not offended if you make a mistake, and that it gets hard to get used to people with a different gender. I understand it will take time to learn.

About Niko
Hello :). I am 16 y/o androsexual mascandrogyne. My journey with gender has been a long one, and this is what I have come up with. I also struggle with mental illness, though it isn’t related to my gender.

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Posted by on June 30th, 2016 at 10:00 am

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Profile: Gainey Castel H.


You can call me… Gainey Castel H.

I identify as… non-binary or genderqueer

As far as third-person pronouns go, … they/them please!

I’m attracted to… all or most genders I guess? It’s complicated.

When people talk about me, I want them to… Respect my identity, use my name and pronouns, and be kind.

I want people to understand… Why misgendering and deadnaming me makes me so upset.

About Gainey Castel H.
I’m a 16 year old college student living in California. I’d really love to be a writer, but my depression interferes with my productivity and creates massive amounts of writer’s block.

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Posted by on June 29th, 2016 at 10:00 am

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Profile: Jay


You can call me… Jay

I identify as… Other

As far as third-person pronouns go, … He, they, hers

I’m attracted to… Determination to resist patriarchy and capitalism, deep connections to the non-human world

When people talk about me, I want them to… Be kind

I want people to understand… No, we don’t have a word for me and that’s fine

About Jay
I might be doin’ gendered work, but i ain’t working for gender

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Posted by on June 28th, 2016 at 10:00 am

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Profile: Dustin


You can call me… Dustin

I identify as… A-gender maybe?

As far as third-person pronouns go, … Male

I’m attracted to… Everyone

When people talk about me, I want them to… Try to understand instead of putting me down for having a female body but looking like a boy and staying single because no one wants to date the genderless kids right?

I want people to understand… I’m a really great guy once you get to know me but I’m really awkward in the begining and don’t have many friends

About Dustin
I’m 15 and i like pretty rad music like Fall Out Boy, Panic! At The Disco, Pierce The Veil, Sleeping With Sirens, 5 Seconds Of Summer

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Posted by on June 27th, 2016 at 10:00 am

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Profile: Theresa


You can call me… Theresa

I identify as… gay, and whatever gender is socially perceived by those witnessing what I’m most comfortable wearing and sitting like

As far as third-person pronouns go, … feminine!

I’m attracted to… girls and boys, people who understand the world and things beyond their own selves and beyond their own experiences

When people talk about me, I want them to… just say I’m pretty

I want people to understand… you know who you are when you can describe yourself without a label – it took me years and then it hit me that suddenly it was true, and that’s been a lifeline!

About Theresa
I have 17 year old neuropathways, a 2nd level infant soul, and a disordered personality. I wouldn’t want to be anyone else, no matter how many years I spent forcing myself to want that. I’m proud to write this.

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Posted by on June 26th, 2016 at 10:00 am

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Profile: Jane


You can call me… Jane

I identify as… Situational Genderfluid

As far as third-person pronouns go, … She/he is cool

I’m attracted to… girls

When people talk about me, I want them to… Talk more about my accomplishments than gender related things.

I want people to understand… You got this

About Jane
Jane, 17.

Interests:
-Engineering (Mechanical Design)
-Jazz
-City lights at night
-Piano

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Posted by on June 25th, 2016 at 10:00 am

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