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Profile: Kay



You can call me… Kay

I identify as… Female….mostly. Most of the time. Mainly in the middle. I think. Actually, I identify as confused.

As far as third-person pronouns go, … You can just refer to me as she/her/lass/chick/dude/man/mate

I’m attracted to… The person not the gender.

When people talk about me, I want them to… Get that I’m female, but have a healthy proportion of male in my brain too.

I want people to understand… Me.

About Kay
Hi, I’m Kay and I’m confused.
I’m a female makeup artist, who thinks I’m like 70/30 female to male. Maybe less male, maybe more. Maybe labels like Female and Male don’t matter and are a contrived notion. But I love being female, I love my curves and my girls and giggling with them about men and sex…but I also feel there’s a healthy side order of male living in here too. Maybe everyone has that but I’m not so I’ve yet to find a label I think fits my situation, and I guess that’s why I’m here, to learn more from you beautiful enlightened people about gender and what I am.


Posted by on February 10th, 2016 at 10:00 am

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Profile: Matt


You can call me… Matt

I identify as… Genderflux male

As far as third-person pronouns go, … any are fine but i prefer he/him/his or they/them

I’m attracted to… Anyone with a nice personality and some interest in things im interested in.

When people talk about me, I want them to… be polite :)

I want people to understand… just because i wear feminine things and such doesn’t mean im a girl, it just means im wearing traditionally feminine things.

About Matt
I like pastel colors, short hair, cats, coffee, black and brownish colors, twenty one pilots and various other cool bands, teen romance books, food and my friends

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Posted by on February 9th, 2016 at 10:00 am

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Profile: Matt


You can call me… Matt

I identify as… Genderflux male

As far as third-person pronouns go, … any are fine but i prefer he/him/his or they/them

I’m attracted to… Anyone with a nice personality and some interest in things im interested in.

When people talk about me, I want them to… be polite :)

I want people to understand… just because i wear feminine things and such doesn’t mean im a girl, it just means im wearing traditionally feminine things.

About Matt
I like pastel colors, short hair, cats, coffee, black and brownish colors, twenty one pilots and various other cool bands, teen romance books, food and my friends

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Posted by on February 8th, 2016 at 10:00 am

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Profile: Djinn



You can call me… Djinn

I identify as… an agender witch.

As far as third-person pronouns go, … I really prefer necro/necrom pronouns, but to be honest neopronouns feel like a luxury not many cis people will bother to afford. I’m also fine with they/them.

I’m attracted to… no one sexually. Romantically, I’m attracted to people of all gender orientations. I’m especially a sucker for people with musical talent though…

When people talk about me, I want them to… recognise that my gender and orientation are valid and real, that I am not confused or deluded, but I am a real person just like them.

I want people to understand… that being qu*er doesn’t mean I cannot be Christian. My faith is intact regardless of how I identify or who I date. The love of the LORD transcends all identities, and He loves us all regardless.

About Djinn

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Posted by on February 7th, 2016 at 10:00 am

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Profile: Darling Sam


You can call me… Darling Sam

I identify as… intergender

As far as third-person pronouns go, … we need one in English but I don’t mind he or she

I’m attracted to… a combination of intelligence, naughtiness, humor, scent and beauty…males, females and inbetweens

When people talk about me, I want them to… feel free to focus on aspects of me that are interesting to them…or maybe…whisper to confidants about how sexy i am…ha!

I want people to understand… that they can ask questions if they don’t understand

About Darling Sam

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Posted by on February 7th, 2016 at 08:00 am

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Profile: Tam



You can call me… Tam

I identify as… Non-binary/agender/genderqueer

As far as third-person pronouns go, … I prefer they/them, but its not a big deal to me

I’m attracted to… I am a romantic asexual

When people talk about me, I want them to… be respectful :)

I want people to understand… That asexual pirates are not interested in their booty.

About Tam
I’m currently studying a Masters degree in Music (performance). I have completed undergrad degrees in both science and music. I obviously love music, and I love to read and write. I have a fiance and a giant wolfhound dog. I’ve known I was asexual for a long time, but have recently embraced my inherent genderqueer-ness. It’s a big relief to now relax and be who I really am, instead of constantly trying to fit in as ‘female’!

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Posted by on February 6th, 2016 at 10:00 am

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Profile: Elizabeth



You can call me… Elizabeth (:

I identify as… an unstoppable Genderqueer!

As far as third-person pronouns go, … please use they/them (plural).

I’m attracted to… fellow weeaboo trash/

When people talk about me, I want them to… not make assumptions about me based on my body type, clothing, voice, etc. I just want them to appreciate my personality!

I want people to understand… GENDER AND SEX ARE NOT THE SAME THING.
MEN CAN BE PREGNANT.
******MEN. CAN. BE. PREGNANT.

About Elizabeth (:
Hello there! (: My name is Elizabeth and I am a proud genderqueer! I love to create costumes, play flute+piccolo, and lift weights!

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Posted by on February 5th, 2016 at 10:00 am

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Profile: Ariel


You can call me… Ariel

I identify as… Transfeminine and Genderqueer

As far as third-person pronouns go, … They/Them/Their is strongly preffered; but I wouldn’t mind feminine pronouns if you wanna make me blush.

I’m attracted to… Women and femininity.

When people talk about me, I want them to… Get to know me and like me for who I am as a person, and to never be judged solely based on my gender.

I want people to understand… My gender is my own identity. By following the path I’m on, I’m fulfilling a healthier, happier me.

About Ariel
I’m 22-years-old and trying to find a way to feel more comfortable with myself, after spending several months questioning my gender. Though I’ve only come out to a select number of people so far, I’m hoping to soon meet with a gender therapist to learn how to come out to others, and take whatever steps are necessary for me to be happy. These steps may include a new wardrobe, legal name change, and a possibility of hormones—all to become more feminine.

I’m also an actor, writer, and director who wishes to use art as a way of not only making a living, but also to bring out the beauty of the world around us. I think we can all use a little more of that in our lives.

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Posted by on February 4th, 2016 at 10:00 am

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Profile: Mordecai



You can call me… Mordecai, but Cai works just fine too.

I identify as… Non-binary/genderqueer. I’ve identified as cis-female and trans-male, but neither really felt right. Being NB feels perfect.

As far as third-person pronouns go, … They/them

I’m attracted to… Females, feminine non-binary people, it really varies, I’m just not into guys.

When people talk about me, I want them to… Refer to me by my preferred pronouns and not judge me based on my gender identity.

I want people to understand… That my gender identity has changed in the past and might change again in the future. Also, that it’s ok to ask questions and that honesty is wonderful. I’d much rather have someone be honest with me and ask a question about me (whether it has harmful intent or not) than for assumptions to be made about me and for me to conclude that it was intended to be harmful.

About Mordecai, but Cai works just fine too.
I’m Cai (as you already know). I’m non-binary and have a huge interest in both fine art and science. I currently live in BC, Canada and go to school here. I’d like to go to university and study to become a medical examiner or forensic pathologist, but also travel and do speeches about being gender non-conforming and raise awareness about it and other identities. I also play roller derby and am currently a junior skater with my town’s team. It’s a dream of mine to skate for Vagine Regime’s Canadian team one day.

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Posted by on February 3rd, 2016 at 10:00 am

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Profile: Rylan Edwards



You can call me… Rylan Edwards

I identify as… Heteroromantic gray-ace non-binary agender

As far as third-person pronouns go, … I want to be referred to as ‘they and ‘their’

I’m attracted to… Transmasculine genderqueers, femme guys, cross-dressers (drag queen)

People who I can relate to

When people talk about me, I want them to… Not refer to me as ‘she’.

Respect me for what I am and not criticise my choices.

I want people to understand… That we are all human beings who dont have to conform to society or fit in.

About Rylan Edwards
I am a person who is sensitive and thinks a lot.
I suffer from crippling anxiety and panic, with Dyspraxia
I am a huge rock and metal fan but listen to all sorts
Other than that, there is not much to say

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Posted by on February 2nd, 2016 at 10:00 am

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Profile: Sam


You can call me… Sam

I identify as… AFAB Genderfluid Andro-Demisexual

As far as third-person pronouns go, … they/their but I get she/her a lot to because I look more feminine

I’m attracted to… Well being demisexual so I don’t have sexual attractions unless I am really emotionally connected to them. The andro part means I am attracted to men.

When people talk about me, I want them to… realize people like me actually exist

I want people to understand… what I feel is real

About Sam
I am 21, a social work major who is interested in human rights advocacy. I have a awesome pansexual boyfriend who respects the fact I am demisexual and have not experienced that attraction to him yet. But he is a really fun, goofy guy.

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Posted by on January 30th, 2016 at 08:00 am

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Profile: Laura Luka



You can call me… Laura Luka

I identify as… Genderfluid (born female)

As far as third-person pronouns go, … I use prefer they/them pronouns, but I don’t mind if people use male or female.

I’m attracted to… Any gender- I’m pansexual!

When people talk about me, I want them to… Try and understand that I’m not pretending or whatver, I don’t feel comfortable always being a girl and I don’t feel comfortable always being a boy-i want people to use the names and pronouns I ask them to and not make assumptions about my gender.

I want people to understand… I didn’t choose to feel this way and I wish that I was cis but I’m not and I’ve accepted that- the people around me need to try and accept it too.

About Laura Luka
My names Laura Luka and I’m genderfluid. I’m 15years old and I’m also pansexual?

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Posted by on January 24th, 2016 at 08:00 am

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Profile: Kai


You can call me… Kai

I identify as… a Boy

As far as third-person pronouns go, … I prefer he/him/they/their

I’m attracted to… feminine men. girls. trans* people from all over the spectrum.

When people talk about me, I want them to… look past my body and other physical attributes and see who I am on the inside.

I want people to understand… that gender isn’t as black-and-white as the pubic sets it out to be.

About Kai

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Posted by on January 18th, 2016 at 08:00 am

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Profile: Royce


You can call me… Royce

I identify as… Genderqueer. Not gender neutral. No bigender. More of third gender to it.

As far as third-person pronouns go, … xe/xem/xyr, ze/hir, ze/zir, ey… whatever around those lines, but avoid all masc. and fem. ones.

I’m attracted to… Other genderqueers, androgynous looking people, woman, and veeeeery rarely to men

When people talk about me, I want them to… try to understand my situation

I want people to understand… It’s not only confusing for them, it was confusing for me, too. They weren’t the only ones raised to see just two genders, I was, too. I abandoned many things to be honest about myself. I’m not doing this cause it’s “easier”, I’m doing this, even though it’s harder, because I know hiding the truth never works.

About Royce

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Posted by on January 14th, 2016 at 08:00 am

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at my receptionist job


You can call me… at my receptionist job

I identify as… agender, gender queer, and angry.

As far as third-person pronouns go, … I wish they weren’t gendered because even a gender-neutral term seems to reference a gendered one.

I’m attracted to… fervent and dark senses of humor, people who are uber consensual and not weird about it, people with hard shells and sweet, intelligent inards, strangeness, unconditional understanding. Lately more attracted to my future than to anyone sexually.

When people talk about me, I want them to… practice understanding of the complexity of me, just as they should consider and respect the complexity of everyone.

I want people to understand… That if you use gender to decide how to treat someone, you very likely are being conscending or disrespectful of someone.

About at my receptionist job
After almost 3 decades of feeling like an alien, I recently realized that people in general have their struggles, too. I grew up without much guidance, like many of us do, and have been trying to put myself in positions where I’ll be forced to learn.

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Posted by on January 10th, 2016 at 08:00 am

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Profile: Ember


You can call me… Ember

I identify as… Genderfluid and pansexual

As far as third-person pronouns go, … They/them

I’m attracted to… All genders

When people talk about me, I want them to… Refer to me as they or them. Or he/him. And use my new chosen name Ember

I want people to understand… That I’m not a girl just because I am AFAB.

About Ember

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Posted by on December 28th, 2015 at 10:00 am

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Profile: Jaden



You can call me… Jaden

I identify as… I was born a girl but have always felt I didn’t fit in, I’ve become more aware as I’ve got older about there not just being 2 genders. So I’m now searching and discovering who I am and what I identify as under the “genderqueer umbrella”. I might only be 13 but there’s no age restrictions on genders.

As far as third-person pronouns go, … I prefer they/he pronouns

I’m attracted to… Females but sometimes males, depending on their personality, style and interests.

When people talk about me, I want them to… I have not come out as genderqueer to my family or friends, I plan to do so soon. But in my mind I want them to respect that I’m not just a girl and I’d want them to see me as just as ordinary as they are, just because my gender is different doesn’t mean I should be thought of as abnormal.

I want people to understand… That who I am or anyone is, shouldn’t affect their lives, were the ones going through the disphoria and bullying. Respect that other genders do exist and not everyone is cis, respect everyone.

About Jaden

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Posted by on December 28th, 2015 at 08:00 am

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Profile: Lyric


You can call me… Lyric… or Morgan but mostly Lyric (Nicknames are fine too)

I identify as… part femme/ feminine boy, part androgynous? and part… something else??
I kinda wanna say part butch girl but I have this revulsion to being called female. Kinda questioning and going to a gender therapist…

As far as third-person pronouns go, … In the order of the MOST TO LEAST preferred: they/ them, he/ him, ze/ zir, nounself pronouns or other gender neutral pronouns, she/her

I’m attracted to… people I can stand being around that aren’t family or strangers. Also fictional characters if I know their personality well enough. Romantically attracted to people I can stand of any gender :)

When people talk about me, I want them to… Like and respect me and my views. I’d rather they not gossip, just talk if there’s news about me (actual news like being in the hospital etc and not private stuff).

I want people to understand… That gender isn’t an entirely binary concept.
That ovaries do not mean I will develop a desire to give birth (I’m a bit pregnancy repulsed).
That my sexual organs, chromosomes, and personal taste/ preferences do not invalidate my gender.
How dysphoria feels to a trans person, as well as gender euphoria.

About Lyric… or Morgan but mostly Lyric (Nicknames are fine too)
I’m artistically inclined, not very social but like being active, and passionate about social justice. Maybe I should join a debate team (I can debate well, I think? Personal tumblr: darkestrainbowdreamer

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Posted by on December 27th, 2015 at 10:00 am

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Profile: Jacques or Kelsey


You can call me… Jacques or Kelsey

I identify as… Non-binary

As far as third-person pronouns go, … They/Them

I’m attracted to… People of any gender, but I call myself bisexual

When people talk about me, I want them to… Use correct pronouns, and to be nice

I want people to understand… What it is to be transgender, and that gender isn’t limited to “male” and “female”

About Jacques or Kelsey
I like music and drawing; come and find out more at deathofsaintyourmum.tumblr.com

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Posted by on December 26th, 2015 at 10:00 am

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Profile: jack


You can call me… jack

I identify as… tomboy

As far as third-person pronouns go, … whatever works and isn’t offensive*

*i’ll decide what is or isn’t offensive

I’m attracted to… smart, confident, very femme women who can drive a riding lawnmower like a boss.
she gets the mani/pedi, but she’s not afraid to break a nail.

When people talk about me, I want them to… smile and be filled with unicorn love

I want people to understand… fear and anger have been my world for nearly a year.
i have lost so very much.
sarcasm is my only coping mechanism, at present.
i’m workin’ on it.

About jack
apparently, forever broken-hearted.

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Posted by on December 24th, 2015 at 10:00 am

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