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Profile: Em


You can call me… Em

I identify as… Both, I recognize that I am female biologically, but sometimes I feel like ignoring that particular physical aspect of myself.

As far as third-person pronouns go, … She would be fine, but I’m not against he at all — just as long as I’m never an “it”.

I’m attracted to… People

When people talk about me, I want them to… Talk about me in regard to my personality rather than my actual gender preference, with is both — and neither at the same time — if that makes any sense.

I want people to understand… I’m not Trans, Lesbian, Gay, or Bisexual, If I ever get comfortable with the idea of dating someone, it will be my choice what I am — nobody else’s.

About Em
19 year old college student doing a little self exploration — the kind I’ve never been able to do with my parents watching my every decision.

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Posted by on March 24th, 2017 at 08:00 am

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Profile: The Big Snuggle


You can call me… The Big Snuggle

I identify as… I go with genderqueer because I am a male who is not a man. Well, I am a man but I’m also a woman. Actually scratch that. I’m not a woman. I’m not a man. I am something that you’ll never understand. *

I feel at home in my male body but have always been supremely uncomfortable with masculinity as it was impressed upon me. I’ve found it liberating to pick and choose from masculinity and femininity in how I express myself as a gendered person. Or to put it another way, as I’ve grown into my skin, I’ve shed a lot of societal bullshit, including my anxieties around being seen as not masculine enough or too feminine, and I’m happier and more fabulous for it. This is a work in progress, and is more an attitude than a fixed state.

* (That was a Prince reference.)

As far as third-person pronouns go, … most say he/him/his, some say she/her. I don’t have a preference between those two pronouns because they are both correct.

I’m attracted to… authenticity, empathy, kindness, humor, good boundaries, good communication, women, men, androgyny, queers queers queers. If I feel safe being vulnerable with you, my heart is yours and I’m gonna rock your world.

When people talk about me, I want them to… feel happy.

About The Big Snuggle
Love. I want them to understand that it doesn’t matter whether sexuality and gender are a “choice” or not. We are each on our own path, we haven’t lived in each others’ bodies, and life is a limited engagement. We should trust that each person is a beautiful, wise, neurotic, autonomous creature and we should strive to lift each other (and ourselves) up in our quests to survive, find meaning and experience joy. That’s love.

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Posted by on March 20th, 2017 at 08:00 am

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Profile: KC


You can call me… KC

I identify as… A demisexual genderfluid teen who’s trying their best to have fun while being a good kid.

As far as third-person pronouns go, … Use whatever you’d like. I won’t be terribly upset if you use the wrong pronouns on certain days and with this being the internet you don’t know if I’m having a more female or male day anyways.

I’m attracted to… No one unless I connect with you on an emotional and/or intellectual level. And fictional characters.

When people talk about me, I want them to… Like me and to want to be my friend on this epic journey we call life.

I want people to understand… That life is hard. It’s difficult for everyone and honestly I’m just thankful to be alive.

About KC
I never really know what to say in these. I’m almost legally an adult which I suppose is nice. I surprisingly don’t use tumbler, though lord knows I’d fit in there. I like to consider myself to be open minded, but I’m certain that I’m empty headed. Though I don’t know much about the LGBTQ+ community I am willing and excited to learn! Thank you for reading my bio. If you’d like to ask any qauestions or learn more, feel free to contact me.
-KC

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Posted by on March 18th, 2017 at 08:00 am

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Profile: Kai


You can call me… Kai

I identify as… nonbinary genderfluid, i think,

As far as third-person pronouns go, … any pronouns are good, they/she/he mostly

I’m attracted to… kind people, dimples, wonderful voices, sharp senses of humour, someone who’s comfortable around me!!!

When people talk about me, I want them to… smile

I want people to understand… that it’s okay not to be certain of everything

About Kai

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Posted by on March 16th, 2017 at 08:00 am

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Profile: Arion


You can call me… Arion

I identify as… Feminine trans man

As far as third-person pronouns go, … He/Him please

I’m attracted to… Smiles, health, wit, intelligence, validation and warmth. Generally men and NB folk, but I do admire the beauty of women(goddesses honestly). But mostly, I am attracted to bright, beautiful souls that I can admire, try to understand, and interact with.

When people talk about me, I want them to… Have only kind words, and if unkind ones need to be shared, at least come away from the conversation feeling lighter.

I want people to understand… Just because I am not a masculine man, does not mean I am any less of a man. I am not a girl who likes pink and flowers and bunnies, I am a boy who likes pink and flowers and bunnies. I don’t need to be masculine to still be valid.

About Arion
Hi! I’m Arion, and I’m a pretty cool dude (j/k I’m a loser). I’m an amateur artist, writer, and philosopher. My hobbies include doodling instead of working, spending hours on end considering what the infiniteness of the universe might mean to humanity, and trying to understand simple yet extremely complicated mathematical concepts. Always here for a giggle or a challenge of the mind.

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Posted by on March 14th, 2017 at 08:00 am

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Profile: CitrusMachine


You can call me… CitrusMachine

I identify as… non-binary Genderqueer

As far as third-person pronouns go, … Them, they, their

I’m attracted to… Personalities, very specific personalities, positive, caring, compassionate.

When people talk about me, I want them to… not stress about it, I’m to stressed as it is. Just don’t tell me what I am.

I want people to understand… That I’ve been through a lot and denied my true self for a good chunk of my life because I didn’t know about non-binary lifestyles. I never want anyone else to go through what I went through.

About CitrusMachine
I’m an artist and a writer and I’m trying to get into university to take psychology.

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Posted by on March 13th, 2017 at 10:00 am

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Profile: Henry


You can call me… Henry

I identify as… a demisexual agender person

As far as third-person pronouns go, … they/them

I’m attracted to… Men and some non-binary people. Must tolerate or love bagpipe music.

When people talk about me, I want them to… I’m not crazy, just socially exhausted and frustrated from being excessively short.

I want people to understand… The name attached itself to me. It was meant to be. I can’t avoid all things that are perceived as masculine or feminine. It’s just not possible.

About Henry
Person of various Celtic origins. Beatles fan. Life goals are to write sci-fi and make a feature length documentary. I also miss my grandfather horribly.

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Posted by on March 12th, 2017 at 08:00 am

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Profile: Alyx


You can call me… alyx

I identify as… nonbinary / neutrois / a dandelion / a spore

As far as third-person pronouns go, … they / them

I’m attracted to… humans

When people talk about me, I want them to… not misgender me.

I want people to understand… gender is as diverse as the full range of emotions and experiences that cannot always be adequately expressed by words. when you accept that, you can really start to appreciate how cool every person’s individual gender is.

About alyx
I’m an illustrator with too many interests to really focus on. but I’m trying.

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Posted by on March 8th, 2017 at 08:00 am

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Profile: ray


You can call me… ray

I identify as… agender, asexual, aromantic
genderqueer
femboi

As far as third-person pronouns go, … they/them are fine but he/him is good too. anything gender neutral is great.

I’m attracted to… simultaneously everyone and no one.
smart people. nerds. people who don’t care what others think.

When people talk about me, I want them to… talk about me, not my gender.

I want people to understand… that my gender (or lack thereof) doesn’t define me.

About ray
i’m a genderqueer artist who just really wants society to grow up already.

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Posted by on March 7th, 2017 at 10:00 am

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Profile: Dallas


You can call me… Dallas

I identify as… genderfluid

As far as third-person pronouns go, … I prefer they/them :)

I’m attracted to… all genders, but I’m mainly only romantically attracted to females/femininity

When people talk about me, I want them to… remember that I am a human being

I want people to understand… that respect is important. It requires zero effort to be a kind person or to refer to someone with their preferred pronouns, it can make someone’s day twenty times better.

About Dallas

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Posted by on March 6th, 2017 at 08:00 am

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Profile: Max


You can call me… Max

I identify as… I’m kind of confused and am looking for some help?

As far as third-person pronouns go, … they/them

I’m attracted to… Girls, usually.
Intelligence
Humor
Brown Eyes

When people talk about me, I want them to… Say what they honestly think about me. It more than likely won’t effect me.

I want people to understand… I’m not really sure of my gender right now, and I’ve been questioning it for a while. I might change my pronouns, someday. I don’t know.

About Max
I am Max. I am currently questioning my gender and would appreciate it if somebody who has done this before could help me? I am hoping this site will introduce to me some people that will accept me. For now, my pronouns are they/they
Thanks. Peace.

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Posted by on March 6th, 2017 at 08:00 am

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Profile: Kendal


You can call me… Kendal

I identify as… A bisexual Genderfluid Buddhist

As far as third-person pronouns go, … I Prefer They/them

I’m attracted to… Feminine men and females

When people talk about me, I want them to… Talk about my progress on rebuilding myself.

I want people to understand… I’m not offended if they mess up my pronouns.

About Kendal
I’ve been suffering from social anxiety and depression, I’ve recently gone through my parents divorce, and I like to draw.

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Posted by on March 3rd, 2017 at 08:00 am

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Profile: Rachel


You can call me… Rachel

I identify as… I identify as female and present very feminine but I am intersex and proud to be.

As far as third-person pronouns go, … She/her but they/them is fine too

I’m attracted to… I’m an androromantic ace who enjoys people who are very masculine presenting and athletic but also sensitive and romantic

When people talk about me, I want them to… Not speculate about my gentalia. Not attempt to draw conclusions on who I am based on my appearance or relationships.

I want people to understand… Intersex is a real and valid identity. And yes it is a medical condition but I can still have pride in it! I am not straight. I am currently in a relationship with a queer cis man and as I present as female we get told we don’t belong in LGBTQ+ spaces even though we are both part of the community.

About Rachel
22. Graphic design major approaching graduation and engagement! I love anime, fan art, rock music, yoga, and volunteering. I am intersex but was raised as a female and was not aware of my intersexuality until I was 10. My boyfriend is an accountant and has a bearded dragon.

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Posted by on March 2nd, 2017 at 08:00 am

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Profile: Allen


You can call me… Allen or Ilithiss

I identify as… No idea, I’m sticking with my assigned gender. Female.

As far as third-person pronouns go, … Any. Male pronouns make me all warm and fuzzy, though.

I’m attracted to… Boys and girls. I’m open to trying with other genders, though.

When people talk about me, I want them to… smile and be happy. Respect my sexuality and the fact that I am polyamorous with a love of Disney and metalcore

I want people to understand… that I am not perfect and am still attempting to understand myself as well as the world around me.

About Allen or Ilithiss

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Posted by on February 28th, 2017 at 08:00 am

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Profile: Dana


You can call me… Dana

I identify as… queer androgynous artist.

As far as third-person pronouns go, … she/her, they/them, open to suggestions.

I’m attracted to… Many people, but mostly Will Minor.
Men and women and non-binary and or queer/trans folk. All inclusive. It’s beyond the skin.

When people talk about me, I want them to… Talk of me kindly.

I want people to understand… Art and humanity, and the beauty of their healing forces.

About Dana
“…the inexpressible can be contained – inexpressibly! – in the expressed.” ~ Maggie Larson

I’m a baked potato/dank femme. My interests lay in the arts and humanities, though I constantly feel that I am just motoring up on my endeavors. I study in California, theatre arts and gender studies. I manage and create, when I manage to create.

Let’s help each other along in this journey!

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Posted by on February 18th, 2017 at 08:00 am

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Profile: harri


You can call me… harri

I identify as… femme male, genderqueer, neither, agender

As far as third-person pronouns go, … he, she, they

I’m attracted to… boys and girls

When people talk about me, I want them to… know that I am an out and proud femme male.

I want people to understand… Men can be FEMME.

I am happy that femme males threaten patriarchy.

Women and femme males need to support each other.

Women’s rights are also femme male rights.

About harri

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Posted by on February 14th, 2017 at 08:00 am

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Profile: isaac!! :^)


You can call me… isaac!! :^)

I identify as… genderqueer!

As far as third-person pronouns go, … i use they/them!!

I’m attracted to… girls and non-binary folks, such as myself.

When people talk about me, I want them to… treat my identity with respect.

I want people to understand… gender isn’t something black and white. if someone finds something that defines how they feel inside, then we shouldn’t put them down. we should help them feel valid.

About isaac!! :^)
i’m an artist!!! kinda. i like to draw a lot and that’s an artist in my book. i can sing decently and my hair is definitely not this color naturally.
(also my instagram is @isaactheghostowl)

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Posted by on February 10th, 2017 at 08:00 am

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Riah


You can call me… Riah

I identify as… bi/pan aro-flux asexual non-binary genderfluid

As far as third-person pronouns go, … they/them or ze/hir, or other gender nutral pronouns (that are NOT it/its)

I’m attracted to… nice/cute/cool/fun people :)

When people talk about me, I want them to… respect my pronouns and gender, and talk nicely (make me seem hella awesome :D).

I want people to understand… that i can be quite sensitive when it comes to my gender, that i’m not interested in sex (and might never be), and that i want to be ur friend (if u r nice) :)

About Riah
Into way too many things, such as (tons of) fandoms and shows and books, drama/acting, climbing, exploring/adventure, making/designing (drawing on) clothes (especially for Pride), and cuddles :)

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Posted by on February 8th, 2017 at 08:00 am

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Else / Corbin


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You can call me… Else online, Corbin irl

I identify as… A playwright, spouse, friend, seeker, non-political activist (cultural activist?), artist, and good cook.

As far as third-person pronouns go, … I do not like language to define me, only support me. To support me, use they/them

I’m attracted to… The combination of fear and honesty that expresses itself through hard work and ambition. Understanding, as both knowledge and compassion. Irreverence in darkness. Thought in action, theory in flesh. Righteously chaotic artists. Myth-makers.

When people talk about me, I want them to… Argue.

I want people to understand… Fear came first, and it piles on. Before identity, before patriarchy, before language, before history, before tribalism, before evolution, before consciousness there was fear. It is the great tool, the mechanism of civilization that brought us out of the woods, that gave us both reason and faith. It is a powerful force, but it only serves to the good if we are afraid for one another, and not of one another.

About Else / Corbin
Else is Corbin’s digital name. It is derived from conditional statements, used in both logic and computer coding, as the undefined alternative to all explicitly defined options. Their plays Boxcar, Three Seconds, and Saving Throw, are available on New Play Exchange, and their company website can be accessed through http://tinyurl.com/renovationists.


Posted by on February 3rd, 2017 at 08:00 am

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Jem(ma)


You can call me… Jem(ma)

I identify as… a polypanromantic, greysexual feminine man

As far as third-person pronouns go, … He and They in equal measure

I’m attracted to… kind and physically affectionate people

When people talk about me, I want them to… not describe me as “masculine”

I want people to understand… that I wear a beard because I think it looks good on my face, not as an expression of gender

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Posted by on January 27th, 2017 at 08:00 am

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