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Profile: Raven


You can call me… Raven

I identify as… boy

As far as third-person pronouns go, … Him/He

I’m attracted to… boys

When people talk about me, I want them to… use correct name and terms and not use offensive slurs

I want people to understand… I am a boy even though I have female parts

About Raven
I am an untransitioned transgender male

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Posted by on March 1st, 2015 at 08:00 am

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Profile: Andy


You can call me… Andy

I identify as… a genderqueer, radical, punk athlete.

As far as third-person pronouns go, … they/they’s/them

I’m attracted to… people with beautiful minds and big hearts

When people talk about me, I want them to… never make assumptions

I want people to understand… my gender identity and my sexuality aren’t all that I am, just one piece.

About Andy

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Posted by on February 23rd, 2015 at 08:00 am

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Profile: August


You can call me… August

I identify as… Non-binary

As far as third-person pronouns go, … they/them/their

I’m attracted to… I’m sexually attracted to any gender besides female
I’m romantically attracted to any gender, or panromantic

When people talk about me, I want them to… My intelligence and humor.

I want people to understand… That if they misgender me on accident it is okay and they are still learning.

About August
Hey! I’m August or Augie. I’m still deciding on a gender neutral name though and I’m floating between August and Avery. I identify as heterosexual, panromantic Non-binary person who loves video games(mostly nintendo!) and music. Music is one of the most important things to me and I wouldn’t be here without artists like Lana Del Rey or the Front Bottoms. Please use they/them/their pronouns when describing me but if you use he/him/his pronouns on accident it’s okay! Just please try to use they/them :)

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Posted by on February 19th, 2015 at 08:00 am

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Profile: Hazel


You can call me… Hazel

I identify as… Genderfluid

As far as third-person pronouns go, … My pronouns are xe/xer.

I’m attracted to… Any gender romantically and no one sexually. (Panromantic Asexual)

When people talk about me, I want them to… Talk to me like any other person.

I want people to understand… My gender does not define who I am.

About Hazel

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Posted by on February 15th, 2015 at 08:00 am

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Profile: Bry


You can call me… Bry

I identify as… Genderqueer

As far as third-person pronouns go, … They/them/their are prefered

I’m attracted to… Anyone of any identity, but not everyone.

When people talk about me, I want them to… Talk about me as respectfully as they would want me to speak of them, without rude comments and derogatory or overly sexual terms.

I want people to understand… That no matter your gender, sex, sexual orientation, race, job, social class, religion, appearance, intellect, etc. we are all human beings and we should all have the same rights – that we all deserve equality and acceptance, and to live free of senseless discriminiation and judgement.

About Bry
Just a genderqueer teen trying to express myself and ignore the ridicule of my peers, while juggling AP classes, band, orchestra, babysitting my siblings, and my sorry excuse for a social/love life. If I ever get rich, I’ll become a philanthropist/human rights advocate, but in the meantime I’ll stick to working hard to get into and through college and go into Biochemical research.

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Posted by on February 9th, 2015 at 08:00 am

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Profile: Maya


You can call me… Maya

I identify as… Genderqueer, intergendered, female

As far as third-person pronouns go, … She/Her but I sometimes prefer They/Them

I’m attracted to… Women and queer-identified people. Looks are not important to me – it’s personality that is, although I like the odd tattoos or piercing :)

When people talk about me, I want them to… Understand that I’m no different from them and if they don’t understand something, then to ask me.

I want people to understand… That I am me.

About Maya
I’m Maya. I’m 21 and I’m a student studying a Masters in Creative Writing. I love cats, good cups of coffee, herbals tea, notebooks and pens, my guitar and tattoos and piercings. I have two tattoos myself and would like to have more in the future.

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Posted by on February 5th, 2015 at 08:00 am

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Profile: Shan


You can call me… Shan

I identify as… afab neutrois biromantic asexual

As far as third-person pronouns go, … They/them sometimes she/her, he/him

I’m attracted to… femininity, intelligence, and kindness

When people talk about me, I want them to… not discredit my orientation by saying I haven’t “been” with the right man yet. I’ve “been” with men and a woman…it just isn’t my thing.

I want people to understand… I’m still me even if I change my looks and/or pronouns. I’ve just chosen to identify by how I feel and not how society deems me to be.

About Shan

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Posted by on February 1st, 2015 at 08:00 am

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Profile: Blake


You can call me… Blake

I identify as… Genderqueer

As far as third-person pronouns go, … I dislike pronouns of any kind. I prefer to be called and refereed to by my name.

I’m attracted to… personality and a sense of humor. When I first meet people I can’t tell if they are attractive or not until I get to know them.

When people talk about me, I want them to… see me as a “who” not a “what.” My gender and sexuality are not your business. I don’t mind questions but don’t be demanding, like since I’m the “weird one” it’s me that need to apologize and explain. Don’t assume anything.

I want people to understand… I’m genderqueer, I’m bi, I’m Catholic, I’m pro life. Remember to never pigeon-hole the people around you as you don’t know their past or their reasons for thinking the way they do, cis and non-binary alike.

About Blake

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Posted by on January 28th, 2015 at 10:00 am

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Profile: amanda


You can call me… amanda or aj

I identify as… genderqueer still trying to figure out specifics

As far as third-person pronouns go, … i go by either pronouns it doesnt matter to me

I’m attracted to… anyone as long as they have a beautiful heart

When people talk about me, I want them to… see me as me not as a weird person. i want them to talk about my personality not my looks

I want people to understand… i am who i am. i am trying to make myself happy and i need love and support to fully embrace who i am cause im scared right now

About amanda or aj
im still in the process of figuring everything out. im honestly confused but im a loving person and this is the hardest thing ive had to go though

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Posted by on January 26th, 2015 at 08:00 am

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Profile: Ellis


You can call me… Ellis

I identify as… Soft butch or blue jeans femme, agender, panromantic and polysexual! Assigned as female at birth, so I stick to that when it comes to choosing between female and male and there is no in-between.

As far as third-person pronouns go, … I prefer she or they in English!
In Swedish there is this wonderful pronoun “hen”.
NOT CHICKEN!
It is a mix between han (he) and hon (she) – and turn out to be “hen”. Which I prefer :)

I’m attracted to… Whoever, but often masculine females and non-binary people!

When people talk about me, I want them to… Respect me for who I am, agender and proud!

I want people to understand… That I am the same old me, just more sure about who I am! And that I respect you, as long as you respect me and try to stick to my preferred pronouns :D

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Posted by on January 20th, 2015 at 08:00 am

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Profile: Sascha


You can call me… Sascha

I identify as… Two Genders, I feel mixed.

As far as third-person pronouns go, … Sha

I’m attracted to… My girlfriend only

When people talk about me, I want them to… See the strong boy that I am, and the sensitive woman.

I want people to understand… That I’m not just a woman…

About Sascha
I’m Sascha, 22 years old, genderqueer/genderfluid. I’m from the netherlands and I am a singer/songwriter and am a bookwurm. I also love studying and I just love living life. You can see my music at http://youtube.com/saskiaatjeeh

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Posted by on January 18th, 2015 at 08:00 am

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Profile: Sam


You can call me… Sam Dylan Finch, or Sam for short.

I identify as… Genderqueer! Transmasculine! A super androgynous cutie.

As far as third-person pronouns go, … He/him/his, always.

I’m attracted to… People who wear their hearts on their sleeves. Queer babes who can rock a snapback. Androgyny in all its shapes and forms.

When people talk about me, I want them to… Remember that I am human. Remember that I have feelings. Remember that I am doing the best that I can. And remember that we are all “trans enough.”

I want people to understand… Gender is playful, beautiful, fun, thrilling, and yes, it can be radical and empowering. Transitioning, for me, wasn’t just born out of a struggle — my transition has been a celebration.

About Sam Dylan Finch, or Sam for short.
Sam Dylan Finch is a freelance writer and queer activist, currently living in the San Francisco Bay Area. He is the founder of Let’s Queer Things Up! (letsqueerthingsup.com), an exploration of current events, politics, and popular culture through the lens of queer feminism. His Twitter can be found, unsurprisingly, at @samdylanfinch.

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Posted by on January 14th, 2015 at 08:00 am

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Profile: Sean


You can call me… Sean, Seany, The Queen, Empress Cleopatra Von Nightwing

I identify as… Genderqueer/fluid, polyamorous, -sexual definitely, pan- maybe.

As far as third-person pronouns go, … ‘He’ is a fine default, but ‘she’ makes me feel pretty. Take it as you will.

I’m attracted to… People I find attractive.

When people talk about me, I want them to… Remember good times, laugh about times that were bad but funny in hindsight.

I want people to understand… They’re people.

About Sean, Seany, The Queen, Empress Cleopatra Von Nightwing
Serving my life sentence in Boston.

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Posted by on January 10th, 2015 at 08:00 am

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Profile: Monster


You can call me… Monster

I identify as… transmasculine, transotherwise, Gender Not Otherwise Specified, inter-gendered, agender, seventh gender

As far as third-person pronouns go, … I’m similarly uncomfortable with all pronouns besides “it,” but let people call me by whichever set they’re most comfortable with (since most people have a problem with calling a person “it”). I’ve found that I’d rather that I’m uncomfortable when people talk about me than have everyone around me be uncomfortable because of me.

I’m attracted to… people who aren’t afraid of themselves and aren’t afraid of the world and what the world has to throw at them.

When people talk about me, I want them to… see me as just another person, and not question when someone uses a mismatch pronoun or noun to describe me.

I want people to understand… gender dysphoria is an actual thing, and when someone tells you to use a pronoun or a noun, you should use it. It may be awkward and inconvenient for you at first, but to them, your use of correct words could mean the difference between a day of incredible pain and a day to relax a little.

About Monster
I’m Monster: I love minimalism, femme-androgyny, and the color rose. One of my goals in life is to have an extensive collection of beanies. I’m a student looking to find my way to San Francisco to study gender counseling and advocacy.

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Posted by on January 6th, 2015 at 08:00 am

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Profile: Jaye


You can call me… Jaye

I identify as… Pansexual, Genderfluid

As far as third-person pronouns go, … I don’t really mind

I’m attracted to… Any gender

When people talk about me, I want them to… Know that it doesn’t matter what they say, I can’t change and I won’t.

I want people to understand… That I am me no matter what and you can’t change me. I like/love who I want. I dress how I want. I am me.

About Jaye

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Posted by on January 4th, 2015 at 08:00 am

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Profile: Erin


You can call me… Erin

I identify as… Gender-Queer

As far as third-person pronouns go, … They / Them / Their

I’m attracted to… I’m attracted more to personality and if we have a connection. You do get a bonus point, though, if you have tattoos and piercings. ;)

When people talk about me, I want them to…

I want people to understand… Not everyone fits into gender norms and you should respect that.

About Erin
Hi! My name is Erin. I’m 26, Gender-Queer and I live in Ontario, Canada. I have 8 tattoos (working on a sleeve), 5 piercings, my two cats Exodus and Toulouse are my world, I’m a tea addicted, I love candles and in scents, and I’m a Jurassic Park enthusiast.

Tumblr: http://junip3rr.tumblr.com/

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Posted by on December 31st, 2014 at 08:00 am

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Profile: Blair


You can call me… Blair

I identify as… demigender nonbinary hard femme boi knight in shining armour.

As far as third-person pronouns go, … ey/em/eir

I’m attracted to… All y’all

When people talk about me, I want them to… to see my compassion

I want people to understand… that I am my own person before I am anyone else’s.

About Blair
metalhead, autistic/neurodiverse, medievalist, author in training, community leader and activist.

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Posted by on December 28th, 2014 at 08:00 am

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Profile: Moose


You can call me… Moose

I identify as… Genderqueer/Agender (masculine)
Biological Female
Hetero-grayromantic asexual

As far as third-person pronouns go, … She/He/They/Them

I’m attracted to… intelligence and character rather than gender/looks

When people talk about me, I want them to… respect me for both my similarities and differences.

I want people to understand… I’m a person, too, and even though I don’t fit into the norms it doesn’t mean I’m an alien.
I don’t bite.

About Moose
20 year old asexual, biological female with a male programmed brain that found acceptance for them self by disregarding all societal norms and being the “awesome” human that they are.

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Posted by on December 24th, 2014 at 08:00 am

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Profile: Kieran


You can call me… Kieran

I identify as… trans-genderqueer person, panromantic, poly

As far as third-person pronouns go, … I prefer they/them/their

I’m attracted to… musical talent, style, humour, accents, freckles

When people talk about me, I want them to… be excited about me

I want people to understand… that my identity is important to me, it’s part of who I am, and even if you don’t get it, I need you to respect it

About Kieran
My name is Kieran and I’m in early in my trans journey. My dream is to become a TV/Radio host. I love pop culture and music and fandoms.

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Posted by on December 22nd, 2014 at 08:00 am

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Profile: Little Bear



You can call me… Little Bear

I identify as… A Fun swirly swirl of masculine, feminine, and everything between; bursting with gender; a bad-ass bearded lady; a fuzzy little bear.

As far as third-person pronouns go, … I’m not too concerned. They/them is cool, but I’m also fine with she/her. I get he/him once in a blue moon.

I’m attracted to… sardonic wit, social justice warriors (taking that back from people who say that pejoratively), warm expressive eyes, kooky laughs, distinct voices, big hands, emotional vulnerability, dirty grins. I have a right-brain-boner for operatic singing voices.

When people talk about me, I want them to… break out in song. Spoken word can never, ever do me justice.

I want people to understand… – that gender, presentation, and sex are three different things with no obligation to be in some order that makes “sense” to you.
– that living openly & unabashedly is not an attempt to shock, offend, anger, or bait for attention.
– that being kind, gentle, and optimistic takes a lot more courage than being hard, angry, and bitter.
– that love heals everything. hate heals nothing.

About Little Bear
Little Bear is a composer, chanteuse, artist, editor, & performing bearded lady with the sideshow the Wreckless Freeks in Seattle, WA. They’re openly polyamorous with a wonderful boyfriend & girlfriend, devoutly Pagan, queer, feminist, and pansexual. They love cooking with lots of butter and bacon. They love opera, cats, tattoos, and autumn. They cry a lot and just have a lot of feels, dammit!

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Posted by on December 18th, 2014 at 08:00 am

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