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Profile: Blake


You can call me… Blake

I identify as… Genderqueer

As far as third-person pronouns go, … I dislike pronouns of any kind. I prefer to be called and refereed to by my name.

I’m attracted to… personality and a sense of humor. When I first meet people I can’t tell if they are attractive or not until I get to know them.

When people talk about me, I want them to… see me as a “who” not a “what.” My gender and sexuality are not your business. I don’t mind questions but don’t be demanding, like since I’m the “weird one” it’s me that need to apologize and explain. Don’t assume anything.

I want people to understand… I’m genderqueer, I’m bi, I’m Catholic, I’m pro life. Remember to never pigeon-hole the people around you as you don’t know their past or their reasons for thinking the way they do, cis and non-binary alike.

About Blake

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Posted by on January 28th, 2015 at 10:00 am

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Profile: amanda


You can call me… amanda or aj

I identify as… genderqueer still trying to figure out specifics

As far as third-person pronouns go, … i go by either pronouns it doesnt matter to me

I’m attracted to… anyone as long as they have a beautiful heart

When people talk about me, I want them to… see me as me not as a weird person. i want them to talk about my personality not my looks

I want people to understand… i am who i am. i am trying to make myself happy and i need love and support to fully embrace who i am cause im scared right now

About amanda or aj
im still in the process of figuring everything out. im honestly confused but im a loving person and this is the hardest thing ive had to go though

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Posted by on January 26th, 2015 at 08:00 am

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Profile: Ellis


You can call me… Ellis

I identify as… Soft butch or blue jeans femme, agender, panromantic and polysexual! Assigned as female at birth, so I stick to that when it comes to choosing between female and male and there is no in-between.

As far as third-person pronouns go, … I prefer she or they in English!
In Swedish there is this wonderful pronoun “hen”.
NOT CHICKEN!
It is a mix between han (he) and hon (she) – and turn out to be “hen”. Which I prefer :)

I’m attracted to… Whoever, but often masculine females and non-binary people!

When people talk about me, I want them to… Respect me for who I am, agender and proud!

I want people to understand… That I am the same old me, just more sure about who I am! And that I respect you, as long as you respect me and try to stick to my preferred pronouns :D

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Posted by on January 20th, 2015 at 08:00 am

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Profile: Sascha


You can call me… Sascha

I identify as… Two Genders, I feel mixed.

As far as third-person pronouns go, … Sha

I’m attracted to… My girlfriend only

When people talk about me, I want them to… See the strong boy that I am, and the sensitive woman.

I want people to understand… That I’m not just a woman…

About Sascha
I’m Sascha, 22 years old, genderqueer/genderfluid. I’m from the netherlands and I am a singer/songwriter and am a bookwurm. I also love studying and I just love living life. You can see my music at http://youtube.com/saskiaatjeeh

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Posted by on January 18th, 2015 at 08:00 am

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Profile: Sam


You can call me… Sam Dylan Finch, or Sam for short.

I identify as… Genderqueer! Transmasculine! A super androgynous cutie.

As far as third-person pronouns go, … He/him/his, always.

I’m attracted to… People who wear their hearts on their sleeves. Queer babes who can rock a snapback. Androgyny in all its shapes and forms.

When people talk about me, I want them to… Remember that I am human. Remember that I have feelings. Remember that I am doing the best that I can. And remember that we are all “trans enough.”

I want people to understand… Gender is playful, beautiful, fun, thrilling, and yes, it can be radical and empowering. Transitioning, for me, wasn’t just born out of a struggle — my transition has been a celebration.

About Sam Dylan Finch, or Sam for short.
Sam Dylan Finch is a freelance writer and queer activist, currently living in the San Francisco Bay Area. He is the founder of Let’s Queer Things Up! (letsqueerthingsup.com), an exploration of current events, politics, and popular culture through the lens of queer feminism. His Twitter can be found, unsurprisingly, at @samdylanfinch.

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Posted by on January 14th, 2015 at 08:00 am

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Profile: Sean


You can call me… Sean, Seany, The Queen, Empress Cleopatra Von Nightwing

I identify as… Genderqueer/fluid, polyamorous, -sexual definitely, pan- maybe.

As far as third-person pronouns go, … ‘He’ is a fine default, but ‘she’ makes me feel pretty. Take it as you will.

I’m attracted to… People I find attractive.

When people talk about me, I want them to… Remember good times, laugh about times that were bad but funny in hindsight.

I want people to understand… They’re people.

About Sean, Seany, The Queen, Empress Cleopatra Von Nightwing
Serving my life sentence in Boston.

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Posted by on January 10th, 2015 at 08:00 am

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Profile: Monster


You can call me… Monster

I identify as… transmasculine, transotherwise, Gender Not Otherwise Specified, inter-gendered, agender, seventh gender

As far as third-person pronouns go, … I’m similarly uncomfortable with all pronouns besides “it,” but let people call me by whichever set they’re most comfortable with (since most people have a problem with calling a person “it”). I’ve found that I’d rather that I’m uncomfortable when people talk about me than have everyone around me be uncomfortable because of me.

I’m attracted to… people who aren’t afraid of themselves and aren’t afraid of the world and what the world has to throw at them.

When people talk about me, I want them to… see me as just another person, and not question when someone uses a mismatch pronoun or noun to describe me.

I want people to understand… gender dysphoria is an actual thing, and when someone tells you to use a pronoun or a noun, you should use it. It may be awkward and inconvenient for you at first, but to them, your use of correct words could mean the difference between a day of incredible pain and a day to relax a little.

About Monster
I’m Monster: I love minimalism, femme-androgyny, and the color rose. One of my goals in life is to have an extensive collection of beanies. I’m a student looking to find my way to San Francisco to study gender counseling and advocacy.

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Posted by on January 6th, 2015 at 08:00 am

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Profile: Jaye


You can call me… Jaye

I identify as… Pansexual, Genderfluid

As far as third-person pronouns go, … I don’t really mind

I’m attracted to… Any gender

When people talk about me, I want them to… Know that it doesn’t matter what they say, I can’t change and I won’t.

I want people to understand… That I am me no matter what and you can’t change me. I like/love who I want. I dress how I want. I am me.

About Jaye

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Posted by on January 4th, 2015 at 08:00 am

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Profile: Erin


You can call me… Erin

I identify as… Gender-Queer

As far as third-person pronouns go, … They / Them / Their

I’m attracted to… I’m attracted more to personality and if we have a connection. You do get a bonus point, though, if you have tattoos and piercings. ;)

When people talk about me, I want them to…

I want people to understand… Not everyone fits into gender norms and you should respect that.

About Erin
Hi! My name is Erin. I’m 26, Gender-Queer and I live in Ontario, Canada. I have 8 tattoos (working on a sleeve), 5 piercings, my two cats Exodus and Toulouse are my world, I’m a tea addicted, I love candles and in scents, and I’m a Jurassic Park enthusiast.

Tumblr: http://junip3rr.tumblr.com/

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Posted by on December 31st, 2014 at 08:00 am

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Profile: Blair


You can call me… Blair

I identify as… demigender nonbinary hard femme boi knight in shining armour.

As far as third-person pronouns go, … ey/em/eir

I’m attracted to… All y’all

When people talk about me, I want them to… to see my compassion

I want people to understand… that I am my own person before I am anyone else’s.

About Blair
metalhead, autistic/neurodiverse, medievalist, author in training, community leader and activist.

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Posted by on December 28th, 2014 at 08:00 am

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Profile: Moose


You can call me… Moose

I identify as… Genderqueer/Agender (masculine)
Biological Female
Hetero-grayromantic asexual

As far as third-person pronouns go, … She/He/They/Them

I’m attracted to… intelligence and character rather than gender/looks

When people talk about me, I want them to… respect me for both my similarities and differences.

I want people to understand… I’m a person, too, and even though I don’t fit into the norms it doesn’t mean I’m an alien.
I don’t bite.

About Moose
20 year old asexual, biological female with a male programmed brain that found acceptance for them self by disregarding all societal norms and being the “awesome” human that they are.

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Posted by on December 24th, 2014 at 08:00 am

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Profile: Kieran


You can call me… Kieran

I identify as… trans-genderqueer person, panromantic, poly

As far as third-person pronouns go, … I prefer they/them/their

I’m attracted to… musical talent, style, humour, accents, freckles

When people talk about me, I want them to… be excited about me

I want people to understand… that my identity is important to me, it’s part of who I am, and even if you don’t get it, I need you to respect it

About Kieran
My name is Kieran and I’m in early in my trans journey. My dream is to become a TV/Radio host. I love pop culture and music and fandoms.

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Posted by on December 22nd, 2014 at 08:00 am

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Profile: Little Bear



You can call me… Little Bear

I identify as… A Fun swirly swirl of masculine, feminine, and everything between; bursting with gender; a bad-ass bearded lady; a fuzzy little bear.

As far as third-person pronouns go, … I’m not too concerned. They/them is cool, but I’m also fine with she/her. I get he/him once in a blue moon.

I’m attracted to… sardonic wit, social justice warriors (taking that back from people who say that pejoratively), warm expressive eyes, kooky laughs, distinct voices, big hands, emotional vulnerability, dirty grins. I have a right-brain-boner for operatic singing voices.

When people talk about me, I want them to… break out in song. Spoken word can never, ever do me justice.

I want people to understand… – that gender, presentation, and sex are three different things with no obligation to be in some order that makes “sense” to you.
– that living openly & unabashedly is not an attempt to shock, offend, anger, or bait for attention.
– that being kind, gentle, and optimistic takes a lot more courage than being hard, angry, and bitter.
– that love heals everything. hate heals nothing.

About Little Bear
Little Bear is a composer, chanteuse, artist, editor, & performing bearded lady with the sideshow the Wreckless Freeks in Seattle, WA. They’re openly polyamorous with a wonderful boyfriend & girlfriend, devoutly Pagan, queer, feminist, and pansexual. They love cooking with lots of butter and bacon. They love opera, cats, tattoos, and autumn. They cry a lot and just have a lot of feels, dammit!

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Posted by on December 18th, 2014 at 08:00 am

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Profile: Jayden


You can call me… Jayden or the little one.

I identify as… a person (or an amoeba) who isn’t interested in sexual or romantic relationships. There are labels I connect with, but I don’t need it.

As far as third-person pronouns go, … I prefer ‘they’, ‘them’, and ‘their’ or no pronouns.

I’m attracted to… smiles and laughter.

When people talk about me, I want them to… respect and acknowledge my identity. I maybe like an amoeba, but that excuses nothing along the lines of abuse and assault.

I want people to understand… I’m human too. I’m neither a table nor a chair you can break, so don’t dehumanize me for being different.

About Jayden or the little one.
I’m aiming to become an art therapist. The running gag of my life is trucks like UPS or U-HAUL almost ram me whenever I cross a main intersection. People call me the little one because they can pick me up as Rafiki scoops up Simba from the Lion King. I have three favorite textures: soft, squishy, and fluffy.

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Posted by on December 10th, 2014 at 08:00 am

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Profile: Kennedy


You can call me… Kennedy, Kenny, Ken, Neddy

I identify as… Transmasculine but maybe not exactly ftm…. So transmasculine genderqueer

As far as third-person pronouns go, … He most of the time…. They is fine too

I’m attracted to… Femme lesbians and other genderqueer folks

When people talk about me, I want them to… Use the correct pronouns…. And be respectful of the fact that I’m trying really hard….

I want people to understand… Just because someone’s gender is fluid or in between, it doesn’t mean that they are “more” or “less” trans…. It’s confusing to not fit in either too….

About Kennedy, Kenny, Ken, Neddy
Hey, I’m Kennedy… I live in Cleveland but I’m from New York. Currently studying at CIA for graphic design and photography. I’ve been looking for some new people to talk to bout stuffs…. My tumblr is iamyourlostboy.tumblr.com and you can find my Instagram @l0s7801….

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Posted by on November 27th, 2014 at 08:00 am

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Profile: Mad


You can call me… Mad

I identify as… What some people would call a “triple A” (asexual, Aromantic and agender). As far as genetics go, I’m afab

As far as third-person pronouns go, … I usually go by female pronouns or just my name

I’m attracted to… I’m mostly aesthetically attracted to men. I also think some women and non binary people are equally beautiful.

When people talk about me, I want them to…

I want people to understand… That this is me/myself and I in Mad’s true form. No alterations, no artificial ingredients

About Mad
I’m a high school senior who’s thankful that a community like this exists in the vast universe that is the Internet. It get’s kind of isolating in real life, you know?

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Posted by on November 25th, 2014 at 08:00 am

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Profile: Tanya


You can call me… Tanya

I identify as… transgender woman

As far as third-person pronouns go, … she, her

I’m attracted to… masculine men – intellegence, confidence, worldly wise

When people talk about me, I want them to… speak their minds

I want people to understand… that our differences are what makes the world an interesting place

About Tanya
life long “tranny” – no hang ups about it – its just the way I am.

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Posted by on November 23rd, 2014 at 08:00 am

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Profile: K


You can call me… K

I identify as… Genderfluid

As far as third-person pronouns go, … They/them or ze/zir

I’m attracted to… Female identifying people

When people talk about me, I want them to… Use the correct pronouns instead of acting as if it’s an inconvenience for them

I want people to understand… Just because a birth certificate tells your your gender, doesnt mean its always correct

About K
I’m K and I like cats.

I’m in grade 12 in BC, Canada. I’m hoping to go to school for makeup and hairdressing

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Posted by on November 19th, 2014 at 08:00 am

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Profile: M



You can call me… M—–

I identify as… Genderqueer, androgynous, female-bodied.

As far as third-person pronouns go, … I really don’t care. She/her. But people call me sir when I wear a sports bra.

I’m attracted to… People who strike my interest. Either/both/neither gender.

When people talk about me, I want them to… Remember me as kind and intelligent.

I want people to understand… That even though the world is full of diverse people that might challenge what we’re comfortable with, those people are just like us, with many of the same problems, interests, quirks, joys. We’re all human.

About M—–
NIH research wonk, technophile, DFW and Genet enthusiast, cat fancier, nocturne.

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Posted by on November 15th, 2014 at 08:00 am

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Profile: Orion


You can call me… Orion or Ryan

I identify as… a Polyamorous, Pansexual, Genderqueer.

As far as third-person pronouns go, … They/Them/Theirs

I’m attracted to… good people.

When people talk about me, I want them to… talk about how awesome I am. Not fixate on my identities.

I want people to understand… that I am a human being with feelings, same as everyone else.

About Orion or Ryan
I’m Orion. FAAB Genderqueer individual. I am an artist, a writer, a musician, a nerd and a lover of beauty. Those are the things I would rather be the focus of what people think of me over my sexual and gender identities.

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Posted by on November 11th, 2014 at 08:00 am

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