Archive for August 2017


Profile: Alex


You can call me… Alex

I identify as… Male

As far as third-person pronouns go, … Either works :)
He/him
They/them

I’m attracted to… Mainly males, but females too

When people talk about me, I want them to… Restrain from being to critical. It’s not like I can’t handle criticism, gender is just a sensitive topic for me right now and I would much rather have only positivity around me currently.

I want people to understand… I’m still a bit confused with my gender right now, but after years of dealing with dysphoria I’m going to identify as male online.

About Alex

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Posted by on August 22nd, 2017 at 08:00 am

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Profile: Skyler


You can call me… Skyler is good, or Ash, its a cool nickname, right?

I identify as… Gender- idk right now, but I’m pansexual

As far as third-person pronouns go, … She or They

I’m attracted to… Honesty, being accepting and not a judgmental jerk…pretty eyes and a sense of humor and adventure

When people talk about me, I want them to… Be kind, but real, don’t lie to me, please? I just want to know if you’re okay.

I want people to understand… That I’m human, and words do hurt. So.. Just be careful

About Skyler, or Ash
I like to cosplay, watch anime and Marvel movies. Reading and drawing are fun too, and my best friend means they world to me; Hey Katie;Kyle

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Posted by on August 20th, 2017 at 08:00 am

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Profile: Jeri


You can call me… Jeri

I identify as… Trans Femme/Agender/Genderqueer and polyromantic or queeer

As far as third-person pronouns go, … I prefer “they” and “them”

I’m attracted to… Cis men who have shed their toxic masculinity, feminine men, trans men, non-binary femme/agender

When people talk about me, I want them to… Focus on the total package, and no not THAT package the real me in totality

I want people to understand… I’m not offended by mistakes that are dealt with nicely. I love open ended questions and revealing the real me.

About Jeri
I have chronicled my gender journey through various posts on my blog. This link lists them in chronological order from my decision to call myself Agender through my coming out as Trans Femme/Agender to all my Facebook friends, Here’s the list of posts about me:
https://jerbearinsantafe.wordpress.com/2017/04/15/my-gender-journey-posts-in-chronological-order/

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Posted by on August 18th, 2017 at 08:00 am

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Profile: Ormi Fay


You can call me… Ormi Fay

I identify as… A genderfluid pansexual

As far as third-person pronouns go, … She/her is fine. My gender expression has been mostly female, for the sake of keeping my job and not confusing the hell out of people. It doesn’t feel right about a third of the time. Maybe one day I will be brave enough to demand neutral pronouns.

I’m attracted to… Kind, thoughtful, beautiful souls. It doesn’t matter what parts they have on the outside.

When people talk about me, I want them to… Stop qualifying my achievements, behavior, or aspirations within their perceived gender limitations. Don’t tell me I am doing great for a “woman.” That’s offensive and wrong. I am doing alright for a human being.

I want people to understand… I can’t relate to the cis female experience, anymore than I can relate to the cis male experience. I’ve never been just one or the other. I am both and neither.

About Ormi Fay
A 31-year old who started their career in art and graphic design, only to gravitate years later to talent management. Because the most important part of any business is its people. Still loves art, music, tattoos and all manner of self-expression. Hopes to one day see a world free of gender bias.

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Posted by on August 16th, 2017 at 08:00 am

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Profile: Alyssa


You can call me… Alyssa

I identify as… Agender Non-Binary

As far as third-person pronouns go, … they/them

I’m attracted to… people

When people talk about me, I want them to… Acknowledge the fact that I’m not a girl but more importantly know that being trans isn’t who I am. I am Alyssa who just so happens to be trans. Just like I just so happen to have a size 8 1/2 shoe.

I want people to understand… I’m forgiving and won’t get mad if misgender me as long as you know you made a mistake. Also that being trans is not the only thing about me.

About Alyssa
I’m Alyssa. I’m 15 years old and I’m currently a Freshman living in Southern California. I’m starting to write blogs about transitioning and also might have a patreon soon. :)

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Posted by on August 6th, 2017 at 08:00 am

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Profile: Ty


You can call me… Ty

I identify as… Genderfluid, Genderqueer, Nonbinary…

As far as third-person pronouns go, … She is fine because I can’t be bothered to correct others every five minutes… But They/Them is fine too, It, Ze, pretty much whatever.

I’m attracted to… Kindness, loyalty, humor, dark, goofy, or otherwise. I am attracted to people who understand, people who see beyond the facade of a face and body. That sounds weird but whatever, I like personality, not body…

When people talk about me, I want them to… Talk from a good place, a kind place, with love or affection.

I want people to understand… That I don’t really know anything and I’m still confused and searching and sometimes it’s hurtful, but sometimes it’s exciting.

About Ty
Life is difficult and I write to sort through my own crazy thoughts.
I’m still super confused about myself and what I’m feeling and who I am and that’s okay.
Giant nerd.

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Posted by on August 4th, 2017 at 08:00 am

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Profile: Jordan



You can call me… Jordan

I identify as… A transgender nonbinary boy ? I use He/Him pronouns

I’m attracted to… All female identifying people and some transgender people

I want people to understand… That even though I am nonbinary, myself liking to be referred to and seen to as a boy doesn’t invalidate my identity

About Jordan
I’m a fairly feminine boy who likes to paint his nails and skateboard occasionally. I like most sports and I would like to learn guitar

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Posted by on August 2nd, 2017 at 08:00 am

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