Archive for October 2017


Profile: Asher


You can call me… Asher

I identify as… Demi-boy

As far as third-person pronouns go, … They/them, please.

I’m attracted to… -All genders
-Tomboyish
-short hair

When people talk about me, I want them to… Realize that although I have Aspergers I have a great personality.

I want people to understand… You shouldn’t let gender define you, you define it.

About Asher
I like FNaF, Overwatch and BAtIM. I’m ace and panromantic. I have transphobic parents but I still love them with my own heart.

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Posted by on October 23rd, 2017 at 08:00 am

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Profile: Jaz


You can call me… Jaz

I identify as… genderfluid/transgender

As far as third-person pronouns go, … don’t use them; he/him, she/her

I’m attracted to… guys gnerally

When people talk about me, I want them to… not refer to me as particularly girly and respect the fact that I don’t care if they think I’m too young to know about my gender.

I want people to understand… that love is love, no one has the right to tell someone else who they can and can’t love, who they can and can’t marry.

About Jaz
I’m fourteen, love singing, and music- I play violin and guitar. I cox for my school (rowing). I’m also pretty sure my school hates me because they’re very conservative (and all-girls).

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Posted by on October 21st, 2017 at 08:00 am

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Profile: Gabriel


You can call me… Gabriel

I identify as… Androgynous ftm ??

As far as third-person pronouns go, … Male pronouns

I’m attracted to… Intelligence, someone with a great laugh, someone who likes books

When people talk about me, I want them to… Focus on me as a person, and not mention anything about my sexuality/gender

I want people to understand… Genders can be real without already having a label

About Gabriel
I love reading, writing, anime, running and rain, and if anyone feels alone, I’d love to talk and make any new friends

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Posted by on October 19th, 2017 at 08:00 am

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Profile: Gab


You can call me… Gab

I identify as… Gender fluid

As far as third-person pronouns go, … I don’t really mind what pronouns you use if I haven’t specified.

I’m attracted to… Genuine, curious, and fun people.

When people talk about me, I want them to… Not try too hard to be completely correct.

I want people to understand… that I’m shy and I won’t always be prepared to talk about myself.

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Posted by on October 17th, 2017 at 08:00 am

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By Andrea Gibson.


Posted by on October 15th, 2017 at 08:00 am

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Profile: Gryffin


You can call me… Gryffin! Yes, like the mythical beast, I’m kind of a nerd. Fuji and the nickname Fuzzy are also cool!

I identify as… Nonbinary, somewhere around Demiboy. It’s confusing!

As far as third-person pronouns go, … I like the sound of He/Him and They/Them. You could also call me Sir, and son, but with other categories I like being more neutral; if I were ever in a romantic relationship, I’d want the other person to refer to me as their Datemate.

I’m attracted to… Friends! I like a good pal who I know well before it gets to that stage. Gender doesn’t matter, although their sexuality and level of comfort/discomfort with dating a person like me is highly considered, and I’d never force anything.

When people talk about me, I want them to… See me more for my current interests, like lizard catching and drawing, than for what I’ve done in the past.

I want people to understand… Misgendering someone, even as a brief word, can really ruin someone’s mood. Please stop saying “right this way, ladies!” when you don’t know whether someone in the group you’re referring to might not be a “lady.” It also bugs me when “he/she” comes up, because it’s easier to just say “they” and it covers so many more groups of people.

I also want people to understand that being my gender is not my choice. It’s not some edgy rebellious phase, and admittedly, I’ve googled “how to be cisgender” a lot in the past, and been really disappointed when every result was saying that you shouldn’t try and suppress. It took a friend abandoning me before I finally realized that I should try and accept myself. It’s still hard, especially being a christian with mostly all Christian friends, but despite still being mostly closeted I feel I’ve grown a bit as a person.

About Gryffin! Yes, like the mythical beast, I’m kind of a nerd. Fuji and the nickname Fuzzy are also cool!
I like the critters that few other people like. Cockroaches and lizards are my best pals! I also draw a lot! I’m insecure and mostly closeted, but striving to get better!

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Posted by on October 13th, 2017 at 08:00 am

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Profile: Ian


You can call me… Ian

I identify as… a heathen, a metalhead, and brainweird. Gender-wise, the most concise words I can put to is is non-binary femme man. My gender feels like waking up ten minutes before the alarm goes off and drifting in and out of peaceful relaxation before getting up and starting your day as well as the weird, heart-dropping feeling when you climb stairs in the dark and there’s one less step than you thought there was and your foot just… falls.

As far as third-person pronouns go, … I prefer xe/xem/xyr, but he/him/his is just fine too

I’m attracted to… kindness and curiosity. I tend to prefer people who are at least a little androgynous or willing to play with their presentation, but that might be because they feel safer than the alternative.

When people talk about me, I want them to… engage in good faith. It’s OK to make mistakes, it’s OK to not like me, and it’s OK to not understand who or what I am. What’s not OK is to assume that my gender is related to my mental health or infer that I’m making this up or doing it for attention.

I want people to understand… that just because you read me as a woman and I’m not interested in transitioning physically, it doesn’t make me any less of a man. You don’t have to understand me to accept me.

About Ian
A baby academic, I am currently unemployed and crying in Texas. I am scared of everything and, unfortunately, very little is scared of me. Very interested in promoting human rights, which shouldn’t be a polarizing thing, but, in this day and age, is.
I’ve got punk politics, goth sensibilities, and metal everything else. (kvlt is a subtype of femme and those who disagree can fight me).
All of my mistakes are developmentally appropriate.

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Posted by on October 11th, 2017 at 08:00 am

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